pregnancy

[Gina]

so my pal irl who is the year above me but is retaking
shes getting with this guy who is the brother of some girl who is on like towie or somet idk
so shes been kicked out of her house and shes been staying at my friends for about 6 months ish now and now she started getting with this guy. this guy is appaz rich tho so my pals been trying to get pregnant with his kid to get moneys (???? i dont really know all the details but thts p much all i been told)
lit have no idea why shes trying to get pregnant aged 18 whilst not even having a home lmao and still in first year of a levels for the 3rd time
nice lil story there for u all but

what would u do if you evz found out you were pregnant or you got someone pregnant

and are u someone who tries to actually stop urself from getting pregnant with contraception n all that shiz or do you just got really care n go for morning after pill or leave it to the other person etc

my other friend she lit had to take morning after 3 times in 1 weeks n just went to different clinics to get the pill or something ridic idk how ppl do that omf seems so stressful just use protection

[Cerys]

Wtf tht girl sounds crazy

Yh if I ever got pregnant I'd either abort rip or put up for adoption, no matter what age I was
I've never had to take morning after pill I think it'd scare me too much taking tht big of a risk

[Empired]

I do not want a baby until I know I am stable enough to support it both financially and emotionally. I actually have quite strong opinions about people who choose (accidents happen sometimes I guess and I really can't judge in that situation cos I've never been in it) to get pregnant when they know they can't support a baby because it's irresponsible?? And I guess I don't see why my taxes should pay for you choose to have a lot of kids.

So yeah I'll take every precaution I possibly can until I'm ready to start a family.

[FlyingJesus]

I use my face as contraception but yeah if anything did miraculously happen I'm not in a good place to start up a family so in case of an accident I'd be fine to go with the potential mother's decision to abort if that's what they wanted

[x-s-x]

That is just messed up! :o

I personally don't want any children. I might change my mind in the future though.
I'm on the pill and it has done a great job at protecting me, never had a problem with it :) I make sure to take it every day at the same time.

If I did fall pregnant and knew at a really early stage I wouldn't go through with it. If I didn't know for ages I'd probably go through with it but not keep the baby. Although that would be the hardest thing in the world :(

Then again, being in the situation my mind could be completely different on what I want to do & what's for the best

[buttons]

wtf??!?!?! that's fucked up!

if I found out I was pregnant I would keep it because I'm in a stable relationship and although it's not the best of times financially, it's my responsibility, I know that family members would help out and ive been saving since I started working for when I do have a baby x

ye I got contraception because scott wasn't working and I was still at uni so absolutely not ideal to have a kid! If there was a male contraception I would ask them to use that because birth control sucks sometimes although implant been good for pms/pains. altho theres been a few times iv had weird symptoms like sore boobs, other stuff am not wanting to say (gender forums...x) where iv thought omg might be pregnant then been a little disappointed that I'm not

never taken the morning after pill too scared to ask pmsl so been a few scares where I've had to wait ages for my period to come

but ya I'm taking my implant out in may n I'm not bothering with anymore contraception so wont be preventing but wont be trying

[Inseriousity.]

id be like whoaaa did you rape me cos im a virgin?!!!

lolol being serious though, I'd support them. If they wanted an abortion, I know it's ultimately their choice but I'd ask them first if they'd be willing to keep the baby and I'd have to look after him/her myself and do my best as single dad. :)

[Expling]

i'd love to have a kid but definitely not now for obv reasons

last year I remember my friend coming to me and tleling me she thinks she's pregnant and it turns out she was but the baby didn't form properly or something so when she had pains she thought they were normal when they werent :( her bf is a real gangster so it wouldn't have been ideal anyway and she wasn't massively affected although she was excited for a little bit

she takes a pill now though because she doesn't want one until she feels 100% comfortable with it and has the experience/money to cope
insane though

there are other girls in my yr who have babies now which is just awkward as heck knowing someone my age has a baby and is looking after it without a proper job??? doesn't feel right!

[Absently]

I don't want children right now and I am constantly changing my mind about whether I will in the future. If I do have kids I would wait until I'm financially stable and own my own home. If an accident happened I would keep it though and I'd try make it work, I don't have long left to go of uni and I'd just try go straight back to work to help ease any burden of cash. Probably try move home as well to get help from my mommy (free baby sitter sorted). Pretty surprised I haven't tho cus I'm useless at taking my pill!!!

That girl sounds major shitty though is that guy doesn't know, slimy !

[thatc00lgirl]

Your pal is crazy. I mean like why keep making yourself pregnant just to have his kids to get money like omg that innocent
little life is not to be toyed around with. I'll have one when i want one, and when i am ready, and when i am financially
stable. Not live off the rich guy just to have money. :/