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-:Undertaker:-
28-10-2016, 11:55 PM
alright so noticed this from left wingers as the latest thing to scream racist at people over

apparently it's now racism to have dating preferences, ie who you're biologically attracted to. so for example i'll take myself. i'm not attracted to black guys or chinese/japanese guys like ever. that now means i'm a racist according to some...

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tyler oakley has always irritated me with his false persona i gotta mention but i digress.

so yeah is anyone else here attracted to certain races and not to others and if you think that [me] to be racist then what is the answer? should white people be sent to re-education soviet style camps or given mandatory quotas for dating?

or do you agree with me that it's a load of horseshit and just another way for the far-left to make themselves look morally superior to the rest of us mortal beings?

discuss!

AgnesIO
29-10-2016, 05:06 PM
Outrageous to claim that saying "I'm not attracted to 'x' race" of people is racist.

I would argue, however, that you gradually become more attracted to those that surround you - ie. if you moved to a country where you were only ever around Chinese people, chances are that you would probably grow a preference for them.

buttons
29-10-2016, 05:13 PM
tbf i'm rarely attracted to white people.. does it make me racist not to fancy white people?


(altho if u do have a preference for black people/Asian people you're told you're fetishizing..)

wixard
29-10-2016, 05:16 PM
white men are disgusting looking compared to other races

scottish
29-10-2016, 05:34 PM
I agree Chinese are much better looking than white people.

Joe
29-10-2016, 07:11 PM
can quite honestly say i rarely find black girls attractive and my type is more favoured towards white and indian girls. ridiculous to say having a type is racist in the slightest

thms
29-10-2016, 10:10 PM
dunno if it makes you racist but i'd never swear off an entire race of people just because the ones i've seen aren't my type anyway? pretty sure through the internet i've seen attractive people from all diff races

FlyingJesus
29-10-2016, 11:09 PM
lmao Tyler Oakley is one of the worst people around, topped only by the likes of Jessica Valenti and Brianna Wu

thms
30-10-2016, 10:43 AM
lmao Tyler Oakley is one of the worst people around, topped only by the likes of Jessica Valenti and Brianna Wu

think he's used to being topped tbh

Artpops
07-11-2016, 05:44 PM
It is racist. How can you reject an entire race of people without even being exposed to the mass majority of them? It's the equivalent of making a modern day generalization about women, or homosexuals -- you'd be condemned for your opinion immediately, and justly so.

FlyingJesus
07-11-2016, 06:17 PM
By that logic it's sexist to say that you're 100% gay or straight

Reality
07-11-2016, 06:37 PM
I'm totally over society... you say one thing you're classed 'x' 'y' or 'z' you say another to maybe agree you're then classed as 'a' 'b' 'c'.

There's too many inequalities within society but ruling out a gender, race or ethnicity as your 'preference' for being perhaps black, white, Asian, Indian... isn't racist or xenophobic it is purely preference.

Like the preference you have means you may not be sexually attracted to that gender, race or ethnicity and therefore they may not be your type sexually, but that doesn't mean to say these people are completely 'excluded' as you may find people of that gender, race or ethnicity as a friend etc.

However if you completely despise a whole gender, race or ethnicity based upon nothing with the intent to be malicious then yes that is racist, homophobic and xenophobic.

Nobody is going to like everybody - and that applies to your preferences.

That's mildly like saying that a straight person isn't a gay person's type. Well no, it's their preference they prefer a specific gender over the other.
(PSA: This isn't me saying "oh a gay person chose to be gay" or "a gay person is born gay" because thats a different debate).

Artpops
07-11-2016, 06:42 PM
By that logic it's sexist to say that you're 100% gay or straight

Not at all. Race and gender are two different things.
My logic is not applicable to sexuality, however it is to racial preference. Being inclined towards a certain race is perfectly acceptable, you may (generally) find their features more attractive. However, to, as aforementioned, decline an entire race is nonsensical as it's impossible to have seen every single variation of man or woman belonging to that racial group. You may have a general dislike for their features and find them unattractive, but when you're ostracizing an entire group of people based upon witnessing only a minute handful of them, I fail to believe that there isn't a form of repressed racism within.

Reality
07-11-2016, 06:49 PM
I think you pre much summed up what I was trying to say but with like 5k less characters :P
Not at all. Race and gender are two different things.
My logic is not applicable to sexuality, however it is to racial preference. Being inclined towards a certain race is perfectly acceptable, you may (generally) find their features more attractive. However, to, as aforementioned, decline an entire race is nonsensical as it's impossible to have seen every single variation of man or woman belonging to that racial group. You may have a general dislike for their features and find them unattractive, but when you're ostracizing an entire group of people based upon witnessing only a minute handful of them, I fail to believe that there isn't a form of repressed racism within.

lawrawrrr
07-11-2016, 07:46 PM
if we all followed this then surely being straight = homophobia??? < also lol I just remembered have actually seen someone on tumblr say this


it's not racist to not be attracted to other races just like it's not sexist or homophobic to only be attracted to people of the opposite/same sex surely??

I mean I guess saying "ew id never date a black person they're horrible cos of x stereotype" would prob be a racist comment but you can't help who you're attracted to?

Based on who i've been attracted to in the past i'm much more attracted to white people than of any other race but I'm not gonna sit there and say NEVER GONNA LIKE AN INDIAN/CHINESE/BLACK etc person, just like someone who is straight saying NEVER GONNA LIKE ANOTHER WOMAN isn't homophobic???

FlyingJesus
07-11-2016, 08:37 PM
However, to, as aforementioned, decline an entire race is nonsensical

Good thing no-one's done that then. That isn't what the thread's about

Lucy
08-11-2016, 02:13 AM
Surely there is something about human nature that in our minds tell us this kind of stuff. Sounds to me like its the kind of thing that would come into that category. I definitely don't think it is racist to have a preference however as that seems to be the debate that is going on. I think society is way to sensitive these days, no longer can somebody just feel something or have an opinion on something without some label being attached.

hungryfront
13-11-2016, 04:07 PM
Because I'm not attracted to a certain sex, am I sexist? No. So if I'm not attracted to a certain race, am I racist?
by the way i'm totally up for all races, my gf is asian

Stephen
13-11-2016, 08:07 PM
Totally up for all races hehe

Dunno how it would be racist if u didn't find black ppl attractive etc

Flooom
08-12-2016, 09:20 PM
anything thts hot.

some white people are hot
some asian people are hot
some black people are hot (but i find its rare, no offence)
some latina people are hot

MightyMagician
18-12-2016, 04:48 PM
If I were to ever date & have kids, I'd only choose a white girl. The white race is slowly being destroyed by race mixing. Say that in public, and OMG RACIST! Just lol @Tyler. Who the hell does he think he is to tell people what's right and wrong? I'm not going blend just because he says it's the only acceptable option. LOL.

FlyingJesus
18-12-2016, 05:05 PM
This is why we needed rep

MightyMagician
18-12-2016, 06:59 PM
This is why we needed rep

Only I'm not racist. Many of my teachers in school were black & hispanic, 2 of my crushes were hispanic, and I'm open to aspects of Asian culture. I just don't want to date a non-white and I don't want non-whites in my country. Asians, hispanics, and black people all have humongous continents to live in - moving them to the designated continent of the white people(Europe), and letting them stay in USA, is destroying white people. I have too much pride in my people to contribute to that.

FlyingJesus
18-12-2016, 08:55 PM
That is the definition of racist you absolute monster of a human. You should probably also look at the indigenous makeup of your country before making such stupid and harmful comments. Hint: you don't live in a white country

MightyMagician
18-12-2016, 09:24 PM
That is the definition of racist you absolute monster of a human. You should probably also look at the indigenous makeup of your country before making such stupid and harmful comments. Hint: you don't live in a white country

I know I don't live in an indigenous white country. America was originally populated by the Native Americans, who were unfairly and lawfully kicked out by Christopher Columbus and the people from Spain. I can't change the fact that their population is a lot less than the white race of the Brits that make up the United States. It's not like I can go deep into my ancestral roots and choose one of the European countries my family came from. Fact is we have people lighting cars on fire in both USA and Europe, and a rapidly declining white population in Europe in general.

Advocating my own race is not racist - and you certainly wouldn't call it racism if any other race were to advocate their own.

Empired
18-12-2016, 09:49 PM
"I'm not racist I just believe in the segregation of human beings because of their skin colour"

oh wait

MightyMagician
18-12-2016, 10:12 PM
"I'm not racist I just believe in the segregation of human beings because of their skin colour"

oh wait
You can be white nationalist and racist, but it's not a requirement. I don't hate people based on who they are, but I'm not afraid to be a white activist. Since when did supporting your race mean you're a racist? That's incorrect and frankly just plain silly.

FlyingJesus
18-12-2016, 10:17 PM
Holding one race to be inherently superior to another Is racist. Excluding people from certain rights (ie: living in a country that they sadly have to share with you) is racist. Believing that people should be forced together or apart simply because of their ethnicity is racist. This is not a difficult concept

MightyMagician
18-12-2016, 10:25 PM
Holding one race to be inherently superior to another Is racist. Excluding people from certain rights (ie: living in a country that they sadly have to share with you) is racist. Believing that people should be forced together or apart simply because of their ethnicity is racist. This is not a difficult concept

OK, please quote me in this thread where I say white people are the superior race, and prove that you're not being racist yourself.
So far, I've: A) Said I'm proud of my people
B) Acknowledged white genocide and race mixing
C) Said that I don't want other races in my country, because of racial violence.

Now you're just putting words in my mouth.

FlyingJesus
18-12-2016, 11:21 PM
Pretty sure those things add up to believing in the superiority of one race over another, otherwise you'd have no problem with "race mixing" or living next to someone who doesn't look like you. Also taking pride in the achievements of other people who you have no actual link to other than pigmentation is flat out ridiculous. Back to Stormfront you go

MightyMagician
18-12-2016, 11:41 PM
Pretty sure those things add up to believing in the superiority of one race over another, otherwise you'd have no problem with "race mixing" or living next to someone who doesn't look like you. Also taking pride in the achievements of other people who you have no actual link to other than pigmentation is flat out ridiculous. Back to Stormfront you go
So the population records are all just a monstrous lie, and that white people aren't declining? Frankly if there was no violence or more generations of white people, this would be less of an issue. Fact is, whites in America will be a minority by 2020.

It's funny how you bring up that advocating your race is flat out ridiculous because it's how you identify. There used to be a thing in my school called the "Multicultural Show" - I guess by your logic that that should be flat out ridiculous, being how people advocate their cultures because they identify.

Fact is, I wouldn't have stayed friends with many of my friends if I believed that my race was superior: My friends were all hispanic.

FlyingJesus
19-12-2016, 01:34 AM
You seem to be confusing culture with race - you're aware that not every white person is the same, right? Would have thought that a white supremacist would at least get his definitions in order

Also lol you think that in 4 years time 200,000,000 white people are just gonna drop dead without reproducing ok
http://i.imgur.com/SCcFHX1.png

When you say the word "fact", make sure it's a fact and not some wild apocalyptic speculation based on ignorance and idiocy

MightyMagician
19-12-2016, 01:59 AM
You seem to be confusing culture with race - you're aware that not every white person is the same, right? Would have thought that a white supremacist would at least get his definitions in order

Also lol you think that in 4 years time 200,000,000 white people are just gonna drop dead without reproducing ok
http://i.imgur.com/SCcFHX1.png

When you say the word "fact", make sure it's a fact and not some wild apocalyptic speculation based on ignorance and idiocy

Yawn, dealt with already by plenty of non-Stormfront sources:
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-06-25/american-babies-are-no-longer-mostly-non-hispanic-white

A more recent article from this year: http://www.npr.org/sections/ed/2016/07/01/484325664/babies-of-color-are-now-the-majority-census-says

If race mixing really wasn't issue, birth of white babies wouldn't be declining. And the decline isn't exactly getting better, either. It's getting worse. If babies of the white race are declining at this rate, the entire point is that we would eventually be wiped by the end of this century.

FlyingJesus
19-12-2016, 02:09 AM
How is that "dealt with" in any way? You're claiming that in FOUR YEARS white Americans are going to fall to at most 49% of the population, which is simply impossible without a cataclysmic genocide occuring. You're wrong and you must know it, you're just trying to move the goalposts now.

And above all that, why does it matter what colour the babies are? If you don't believe one race to be superior to another (as you claim despite all of your words and actions showing the opposite) then the number of X type of person shouldn't be an issue to anyone. You're still behaving as though racial differences mean a whole new species which is absurd, your lack of scientific knowledge appears to match your lack of social awareness

MightyMagician
19-12-2016, 02:19 AM
Mistakes are made, meant to put that by 2020, new generations of white youth would be a minority. Again, I'm not a superiority fanatic. What you're seeing is that less and less white babies are being born in comparison to other races that are considered minorities in the current population.

Not to mention there's currently a massive influx on non-whites invading Europe as we speak.

Empired
19-12-2016, 06:53 AM
Just out of interest tho why does it matter if the white skin colour is "diluted" or whatever word you want to use as the years go by? I don't think it would make a single difference to me. We'd all still be people and we can be proud of our heritage without pushing those who are different to us out. So why on earth does it matter?

FlyingJesus
19-12-2016, 07:41 AM
Mistakes are made

You're certainly proof of that

-:Undertaker:-
19-12-2016, 08:26 AM
That is the definition of racist you absolute monster of a human. You should probably also look at the indigenous makeup of your country before making such stupid and harmful comments. Hint: you don't live in a white country

America is a white country.

It was founded by whites, its laws written by whites and its history of white people.

MightyMagician
19-12-2016, 01:41 PM
Just out of interest tho why does it matter if the white skin colour is "diluted" or whatever word you want to use as the years go by? I don't think it would make a single difference to me. We'd all still be people and we can be proud of our heritage without pushing those who are different to us out. So why on earth does it matter?

I see it as multiple groups within the white race losing a wide variety of cultures. If whites were to drop off the face of the earth by 2100, we'd lose: Russians, French, Poles, Brits, Scottish, Germans, Dutch. As soon the indigenous people of those countries die off, their culture is gone.

As for skin color? I never took it into account as a kid. I don't hate people based on their skin color. I don't know how else to say it. :/

-:Undertaker:-
19-12-2016, 04:39 PM
I'm actually increasingly proud of being a white male now.

Never used to matter to me before identity politics. I always believed race didn't matter. But then I see every other race slurring my race or being entitled to something for being a certain race along with the establishment telling me I owe people of other races X, Y and Z and how my culture is worthless (when its actually worth more than any other) so screw it. I'm a white male and I'm proud of it and fuck you if you slur my race or tell me its somehow lesser than any other.


We'd all still be people and we can be proud of our heritage without pushing those who are different to us out.

Tell that to every other race. Fact is demographics are destiny, see the Red Indians of North America for a lesson in that or even Australia and western China.. The day we see a white or black President of China or a white President of an African country... never.

High time liberals and hand wringers starting lecturing the rest of the world on racism and diversity. Good luck!

FlyingJesus
19-12-2016, 05:33 PM
Other people are racist therefore it's right for you to be? Righto

-:Undertaker:-
19-12-2016, 06:26 PM
Nothing I've said is racist just that if everyone else is 'Proud to be.. X' then so can I with my race. Especially when my race is the race that is always told it owes everyone else something, or should feel guilty about even existing, or doesn't have any countries or culture.

A lot of other races vote along racial lines after all. Look at the African-American vote for Obama. Now with identity politics, the white vote is also starting to vote more as a bloc. And given the liberals wanted to play identity politics, that's good yeah? Got their wish!

I can either now be increasingly harassed and marginalised for being white or I can say, hey I'm proud of my race like any other.

FlyingJesus
19-12-2016, 08:06 PM
Or you could not play into the games of uneducated reactionary teens who never got enough hugs and just get on with life like the majority do. Other people being militant in their ignorance doesn't mean you have to take up arms too, especially when they're people no-one takes seriously outside of tumblr

MightyMagician
19-12-2016, 08:25 PM
Or you could not play into the games of uneducated reactionary teens who never got enough hugs and just get on with life like the majority do. Other people being militant in their ignorance doesn't mean you have to take up arms too, especially when they're people no-one takes seriously outside of tumblr
Oh, so I'm a white supremacist now? Never confuse that with white nationalism.

FlyingJesus
19-12-2016, 09:10 PM
Think you quoted the wrong post there somehow, good effort. And yes you are a supremacist, you believe that only whites deserve to be in America lol

MightyMagician
20-12-2016, 12:42 AM
Think you quoted the wrong post there somehow, good effort. And yes you are a supremacist, you believe that only whites deserve to be in America lol
You've got to be kidding me, I know what I quoted. Reason I said so is because you mentioned the word militant in your reply. It's important to understand that the white nationalist movement only wants a policy of deportations, something that isn't inherently violent. A white supremacist is someone who uses violence against non-whites to further their own agenda.

FlyingJesus
20-12-2016, 02:17 AM
Ok so you've taken a single word from a post that wasn't addressed to you, which was in fact talking about the shortcomings of ultra-left tumblr types, and decided that it's somehow all about you and has a hidden meaning trapped in the diction. You really are a mighty magician, you pull nonsense from thin air.

The post you quoted was me telling Dan that it's stupid to lower oneself in order to force a fight that doesn't even need to be fought. It was nothing to do with you, but you're once again making it very clear that you have no idea about 1) the world 2) how to read a conversation and 3) what words mean. You're also 100% making up definitions, as there's technically nothing inherently violent about nationalism or supremacism, so have fun talking out of your rear end as usual

despect
21-12-2016, 02:09 AM
If I'm honest I wouldn't say I have a preference at all, if I have a connection with someone whether they are black, white etc I really don't care. I'd just be happy to find someone who I generally liked.

Flooom
01-01-2017, 08:12 PM
idc wat race they are aslong as they hot

Akeel
05-03-2017, 01:10 PM
It is racist. How can you reject an entire race of people without even being exposed to the mass majority of them? It's the equivalent of making a modern day generalization about women, or homosexuals -- you'd be condemned for your opinion immediately, and justly so.

I agree.

Sho
05-03-2017, 09:36 PM
i don't really have a preference but i don't think it's racist that some people do either

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