Abundancy VS Scarcity (Dating)

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saw this on another forum I use, wondering what mindset you believe in terms of dating:

Scarcity: belief that there is only one person, or a few people, "right" for you. only become interested in people meeting these standards and don't want to compromise on these standards.

Abundance: belief that there isn't one person/few people out there for you, there are lots of people who could be right for you.

which mindset do you tend more towards?

personally i used to be of the scarcity mind set w/ high standards and little compromising. now i do have the same basic standards but believe most people if i got to know them i could fall in love with them. probably best to have a mix of both lol

[scottish]

there's only 2 right people for me

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there's only 2 right people for me
me and the sexy bonnie winterbottom? :Heart:

[scottish]

no anna kendrick

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wow anna Kendrick and the sexy bonnie winterbottom but not me :(

[scottish]

no bonnie is a munter ;l

[-:Undertaker:-]

ermm statistically it'd be abundance i guess

i've only ever felt love like twice though but i could fall for diff personalities yeah

[Elegance]

scarcity

[FlyingJesus]

Abundance: it's a much sadder world than even I thought if there's only one person out there capable of loving each person