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despect
28-03-2017, 03:14 PM
Mine was a recent one (with someone who im back together with now). Basically he become really depressed but didnt want to deal with the issue. He just wanted to focus on me so I broke up with him and said he needs to to focus on himself and I'll always be there for him. It was hard to let go but it needed to be done.

Cassiieee
28-03-2017, 03:55 PM
Mine would have to be my very first serious Relationship. I would have been 17, and I moved country to be with this person. Got myself into College and was looking for work. He, himself, was in College looking for work. I was so inlove, thinking this is it. I've moved out, settled down, going to have children, marry this guy. Get old together and die together. I was so inlove I would do anything he asked, anything he wanted. My parents would tell me it was puppy love, as he was my first serious relationship. Then money got tight, so I moved back in with my parents for about 2 months, get some money behind me, and go back and be with him once and for all. Only to my knowledge, when I was going to go back, he would tell me 'it's me, not you' over and over. I would be so, so confused. I got so depressed, I would lock myself in my room, I wouldn't go out the house, I wouldn't eat, I lost so much weight, I wouldn't talk to anyone. My parents got so desperate, but nothing would work. Over time, as I got used to fact, I had lost him for whatever reason, I decided to connect with social media again, I then found out the truth. That he had cheated on me. Of course this crushed me, Took me ages to trust people, get close with anyone, let anyone touch me. I still to this day, disbelieve in myself and when people say they love me or I'm pretty. This has effected me emotionally, and most likely for the rest of my life. Over time, many years later. I've found myself inlove again with someone I met from Habbo. Habbox infact, we live together, and will be expecting our first child together in the middle of May, this year (Less than two months time) So no matter what happens, there is always light at the other side. :)

buttons
28-03-2017, 04:00 PM
ahh cassie beat us to habbox baby

despect
28-03-2017, 04:59 PM
Mine would have to be my very first serious Relationship. I would have been 17, and I moved country to be with this person. Got myself into College and was looking for work. He, himself, was in College looking for work. I was so inlove, thinking this is it. I've moved out, settled down, going to have children, marry this guy. Get old together and die together. I was so inlove I would do anything he asked, anything he wanted. My parents would tell me it was puppy love, as he was my first serious relationship. Then money got tight, so I moved back in with my parents for about 2 months, get some money behind me, and go back and be with him once and for all. Only to my knowledge, when I was going to go back, he would tell me 'it's me, not you' over and over. I would be so, so confused. I got so depressed, I would lock myself in my room, I wouldn't go out the house, I wouldn't eat, I lost so much weight, I wouldn't talk to anyone. My parents got so desperate, but nothing would work. Over time, as I got used to fact, I had lost him for whatever reason, I decided to connect with social media again, I then found out the truth. That he had cheated on me. Of course this crushed me, Took me ages to trust people, get close with anyone, let anyone touch me. I still to this day, disbelieve in myself and when people say they love me or I'm pretty. This has effected me emotionally, and most likely for the rest of my life. Over time, many years later. I've found myself inlove again with someone I met from Habbo. Habbox infact, we live together, and will be expecting our first child together in the middle of May, this year (Less than two months time) So no matter what happens, there is always light at the other side. :)

Hows the pregnancy going? Im sooo excited for you :D

Landon
28-03-2017, 05:27 PM
Being dumped after a year long relationship and being replaced within a few days.

Cassiieee
28-03-2017, 05:37 PM
Hows the pregnancy going? Im sooo excited for you :D

It's all good, thanks. :) We have a name now too. Keeping it a secret, til he's born. So no asking! :P I put a photo up a couple weeks ago (Idk if you seen), for my 31 weeks, you can only just start to notice! I can't believe how small I am still. :P

despect
28-03-2017, 05:45 PM
It's all good, thanks. :) We have a name now too. Keeping it a secret, til he's born. So no asking! :P I put a photo up a couple weeks ago (Idk if you seen), for my 31 weeks, you can only just start to notice! I can't believe how small I am still. :P

I saw!! Exciting :D

Charlie
29-03-2017, 03:13 PM
We both cheated on each other, split up and got back together. We should have probably walked away but didn't. A few months later, they went travelling for a few months and while I was upset they'd gone, they were realising they didn't love me anymore. I broke up with them and when they returned, they came crawling back so I thought we could give it another go but they kept saying they wanted to take things slow which actually meant use me until someone better came along. They sent me a text listing all the reasons they didn't love me and got together with someone else after two weeks of making me think we were heading somewhere, although some of that was probably wishful thinking.

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