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Judas
17-09-2005, 02:39 PM
Ok, well I was in the cinema with my m8s and a m8 who i find attractive was sitting next to me, and i noticed he kept looking at me, like staring at some times so i like tried to just play with him and start play fighting with him, but i just felt like leaning over and kissing him... what should i do?

edit: by the way i dont know his sexuality at all

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 02:43 PM
are u both boys or girls? boys?

Judas
17-09-2005, 02:55 PM
yeah were boys

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 02:56 PM
and how old may i ask? u dont ahve to tell me

Judas
17-09-2005, 02:58 PM
13 (just puttin this, post is too short)

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 03:03 PM
ok well um ii dunno u can be going thru at lot of different feelings at this age due to u starting puberty same for ur friends was there any other lil hints he gave to you?

Judas
17-09-2005, 03:05 PM
nothing, everything that really happened i put there

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 03:06 PM
wat was the other group of m8s like just normal or did they say anything?

Roboevil
17-09-2005, 03:13 PM
Well if you can, try to kiss him, or go further, experimentation in the early stages of puberty is good for you. Assuming you're early, at 13 I would guess so o.0.
Just drop LOADS of hints, say you talked for a while, stare/ gaze at him for a few seconds after, not lovingly, but hopefully he'll take it that way. Say he opens a door and you're behind him, when he goes through and you go to put your hand on the door to keep it open, put your hand on/ near his. Say yousit down anywhere, sit next to him, try to make these things look like an accident/ coincidence though. Just try and be extremely suttle when you flirt or whatever.

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 03:15 PM
but trying to kiss him and dusnt work cld end a friendship so be very careful

Judas
17-09-2005, 03:16 PM
wat was the other group of m8s like just normal or did they say anything?

o they didnt say anything, we were sitting on the end of the row,
and thanks roboevil, that helped :) OMG! my dad just called me, and hes at the door o :rude: okay, ill use them tips

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 03:17 PM
ok bye and good luck :)

Judas
17-09-2005, 03:26 PM
he just told me he is bi, but he didnt say anything about me and him

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 03:29 PM
oh thats good thats a sign did u tell him what u are?

Judas
17-09-2005, 03:45 PM
yeah, and sorry i didnt reply for so long. i told him i was gay, i tried to tell him i like him, but i couldnt

tbh imo no m8
17-09-2005, 03:47 PM
what did he say when u told him u was gay?

Judas
17-09-2005, 03:52 PM
o sorry i sed i was gay, im bi, he just said oh cool, then we just started talkin about some other tuff, then he had to go

Col
17-09-2005, 04:58 PM
Well if you can, try to kiss him, or go further, experimentation in the early stages of puberty is good for you. Assuming you're early, at 13 I would guess so o.0.
Just drop LOADS of hints, say you talked for a while, stare/ gaze at him for a few seconds after, not lovingly, but hopefully he'll take it that way. Say he opens a door and you're behind him, when he goes through and you go to put your hand on the door to keep it open, put your hand on/ near his. Say yousit down anywhere, sit next to him, try to make these things look like an accident/ coincidence though. Just try and be extremely suttle when you flirt or whatever.

Do what Robo has said, Pretend to do something by accident, but inside make it that you want to do it.
Go in for the kill ;)

Magnet
17-09-2005, 05:36 PM
Do what Robo has said, Pretend to do something by accident, but inside make it that you want to do it.
Go in for the kill ;)

IF you want to go in for the kill, remember, use safety first ;) *Pulls out safety scissors*

I suggest doing everything Roboevil said except try and kiss him. Don't go that far, until your certain he has feelings for you aswell.

Judas
18-09-2005, 12:50 PM
ok ty all for ur help ill tell u what happens next time i see him

Pulchritudinous
18-09-2005, 12:53 PM
Tie him to a chair.

Adam$
18-09-2005, 01:28 PM
If you really feel that way about him, talk to him, or if you do not feel comfortable, talk to somebody else.

Judas
18-09-2005, 06:55 PM
well i dno... okay ill do it tomoz at school and tell u how it went

Spike1011
18-09-2005, 09:29 PM
I have the exact same thing going thru.

Im 14 he's 15 we're about 6 mos apart, and we were at the movies last night. (Emily rose) and he poked me at scary parts.
At lunch we sit with a group of swimmers I sometimes find him staring at me ect ect. He seems to always agree with me even though earlier I might have heard him disagreeing with what he just agreed with. He always comes in my lane at swim practice. He calls me by my first and last name, ect ect.

The most peculiar thing is that he stresses the point that he is homophobic. On his myspace he says under fears that he is homophobic, says it whenever the topic is brought up, ect, ect. He doesn't have a girlfriend, he tells me and only me about this girl he has a crush on, although it could just be a cover up (Ive never seen them talking) I really don't feel like making a move or anything for fear we would lose our friendship. Its kinda strange.

Judas
22-09-2005, 04:52 PM
thats is the same as me lol ye i kissed him the other day lol! he told me he liked me, and then i told him i liked him 2, and he leaned to kiss me!

le harry
23-09-2005, 01:39 AM
Congratulations :)

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