Edating

[Courtneyy]

Have we all been there? or am I the only weirdo?
If you have let me know how that experience went for you. Was it a good experience or a nightmare from hell?

There was a time where I loved myself a Habbo boy. I was so into gaming at one point, it was easy to fall for someone while playing this game haha. :poop:8-/(:
My experiences were not good. I only met sad gamer boys when ended up cheating with other Habbo girls! NOT COOL :') never again

[Triz]

I've been on dating websites but I've never actually met anyone, in fact apart from convos that last 5 seconds, it's never amounted to anything and that's mainly because of me...

Call me old fashioned but I'd rather meet someone in person and let it develop from there naturally. Rather than going into a new friendship with an end game, with expectations etc...

Besides if anyone is gonna date me, it'll be for my personality, not my looks, so online dating doesn't bode well for me lol

[Courtneyy]

I've been on dating websites but I've never actually met anyone, in fact apart from convos that last 5 seconds, it's never amounted to anything and that's mainly because of me...

Call me old fashioned but I'd rather meet someone in person and let it develop from there naturally. Rather than going into a new friendship with an end game, with expectations etc...

Besides if anyone is gonna date me, it'll be for my personality, not my looks, so online dating doesn't bode well for me lol

I respect that. Old fashion. It seems like everyone meets online these days it is almost expected to hear "oh we met online".
I have social anxiety and I am an introvert so 100% I wish I could be old fashion like you! Online just seems so much easier because I can form a connection without the pressure of face to face right off the bat.

Haha personality wins in the end anyways! Can't be happy with someone who is as bland as a cardboard box :P

[Triz]

Yup and that's why I feel online dating doesn't work for me.. unless you're pretty/handsome etc.. then online dating is like playing a game on expert mode lol..

People look at a picture of you and decide yes or no in around 2 seconds, if that.. I wouldn't even make it into stage 2 of them reading my profile to get a guage of my personality lol.

That's why I prefer meeting irl first, at least then there is no shock factor to my ugliness haha.

[xXxMsPinkxXx]

I like all online daddehs but I wanna marry either a canadian, australian, british, latino or ph daddeh in the future. Whoever comes first LOL

[Courtneyy]

I like all online daddehs but I wanna marry either a canadian, australian, british, latino or ph daddeh in the future. Whoever comes first LOL
So basically you want to edate them and then move to their country? What is at the top of the list

[ArielxSu]

Wearing for me has been a waste of time. Especially these flick apps. Argh. The men on their have no brain cells. And they only have one thing on their mind.

I agree with Triz. I’m old fashioned too. Meeting them, getting to know them and then take it from their. Obviously covid has not made this possible hence why I’m still single.

But you know what, sometimes I am relieved. No men stress. No past trauma reoccurrences. I deal with myself and concentrate on myself during this crazy time. Yes I miss the hugs and intimacy but I will get it when the time is right. Plus I am very picky so.... may take a while [emoji23]


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[Triz]

I agree with Triz. I’m old fashioned too. Meeting them, getting to know them and then take it from their. Obviously covid has not made this possible hence why I’m still single.

I'd say "same" but honestly covid has nothing to do with it.. my face does lol. Every past GF I've had I've generally met through work, or a friend of someone at work etc..
However I swapped jobs 3 and a bit years ago now, where I basically work alone all the time, and any girls I do meet are often just in passing, not to mention hundreds of miles away from where I live.. Plus all my co-workers are literally twice my age..

Maybe this is my life now lmao.. Might buy a few cats

[ArielxSu]

I'd say "same" but honestly covid has nothing to do with it.. my face does lol. Every past GF I've had I've generally met through work, or a friend of someone at work etc..
However I swapped jobs 3 and a bit years ago now, where I basically work alone all the time, and any girls I do meet are often just in passing, not to mention hundreds of miles away from where I live.. Plus all my co-workers are literally twice my age..

Maybe this is my life now lmao.. Might buy a few cats

Oh no it can’t be that bad! I bet your face is not at all as bad as you think it is. This is all what you have let people and yourself tell you. You just have not really had many chances of finding the right ones. Respectful ones.

Unfortunately a lot of people nowadays choose their partners on looks, when in reality that will change throughout the years. It is the personality and character that is the most important because this will stay whereas looks will change.

I must say I have had good looking exes but I never chose them based on their looks. It’s always the personality... or what I thought it was at the time [emoji23][emoji1787]

I blame Covid for one reason only, I don’t go out as much. I’m a person where if I go out during day or night I meet new people and make new friends. This is typically how I met my exes. This is how I like to socialise and get to know a person. Trying to do this behind a screen is hard.


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[Courtneyy]

Wearing for me has been a waste of time. Especially these flick apps. Argh. The men on their have no brain cells. And they only have one thing on their mind.

I agree with Triz. I’m old fashioned too. Meeting them, getting to know them and then take it from their. Obviously covid has not made this possible hence why I’m still single.

But you know what, sometimes I am relieved. No men stress. No past trauma reoccurrences. I deal with myself and concentrate on myself during this crazy time. Yes I miss the hugs and intimacy but I will get it when the time is right. Plus I am very picky so.... may take a while [emoji23]


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I believe it takes a strong person to be happy alone! I legit can not be not talking to someone. I am a very dependent person and rely on someone at all times haha, It sucks ass :(

But COVID hasn't made dating easier for anyone, you are right. Men on dating apps are horrid, I downloaded tinder and paid for the gold which was like $50 a month yet I deleted tinder in like three days. HAHA FAIL.

If you were to meet a guy in person where would you say you would meet them? At work, schooling or are you after meeting some cute at like a coffee shop! I want to live through your LIFE, LETS GO. My introverted ass can not

[ArielxSu]

I believe it takes a strong person to be happy alone! I legit can not be not talking to someone. I am a very dependent person and rely on someone at all times haha, It sucks ass :(

But COVID hasn't made dating easier for anyone, you are right. Men on dating apps are horrid, I downloaded tinder and paid for the gold which was like $50 a month yet I deleted tinder in like three days. HAHA FAIL.

If you were to meet a guy in person where would you say you would meet them? At work, schooling or are you after meeting some cute at like a coffee shop! I want to live through your LIFE, LETS GO. My introverted ass can not

[emoji1787] it takes a person to be through crap in the past with men to like to me alone at times. Strength can contribute to it yes but it’s mostly past experiences that make this a more peaceful phase [emoji28]

Omg tell me about it. Tinder is actually the worst one in my opinion. [emoji23] I have given it two chances and on both occasions it lasted a few days. Always the same type of men and always talking about the same things and wanting the same things. Waste of time. If I wanted this I would just go pick up a man at a bar. [emoji2370] less talking and same outcome.

For a date I would begin with a coffee shop for sure. It’s nice , not so loud and you have a chance to meet, talk and see if it can lead to a 2nd date. Plus it’s in public…. You never know if this guy turns out to be a psycho [emoji2286]

What about you?


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[Courtneyy]

[emoji1787] it takes a person to be through crap in the past with men to like to me alone at times. Strength can contribute to it yes but it’s mostly past experiences that make this a more peaceful phase [emoji28]

Omg tell me about it. Tinder is actually the worst one in my opinion. [emoji23] I have given it two chances and on both occasions it lasted a few days. Always the same type of men and always talking about the same things and wanting the same things. Waste of time. If I wanted this I would just go pick up a man at a bar. [emoji2370] less talking and same outcome.

For a date I would begin with a coffee shop for sure. It’s nice , not so loud and you have a chance to meet, talk and see if it can lead to a 2nd date. Plus it’s in public…. You never know if this guy turns out to be a psycho [emoji2286]

What about you?


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Men have given me trauma I will never get over! I feel that haha

Coffee shop! Yes I love that for you and yes you always have to be safe.

I like going to the movies and dinner for a first date it always works out well because I am introvert I can sit in silence. However I was dumb enough to meet a boy off tinder and our date was at his house to watch a Star Wars movie and we all know how that went!! HE GOT IT and ghosted after. I felt dumb but you know what do you expect off a tinder boy.

[ArielxSu]

Men have given me trauma I will never get over! I feel that haha

Coffee shop! Yes I love that for you and yes you always have to be safe.

I like going to the movies and dinner for a first date it always works out well because I am introvert I can sit in silence. However I was dumb enough to meet a boy off tinder and our date was at his house to watch a Star Wars movie and we all know how that went!! HE GOT IT and ghosted after. I felt dumb but you know what do you expect off a tinder boy.

Sadly that’s how it is with Tinder…….

Well at least you learnt your lesson! I have friends still using it and going on dates and still complaining about the men after. Even though this is what has been happening for a while [emoji28]


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[Courtneyy]

Sadly that’s how it is with Tinder…….

Well at least you learnt your lesson! I have friends still using it and going on dates and still complaining about the men after. Even though this is what has been happening for a while [emoji28]


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Haha yes! I learnt the hard way and never again! I only need one experience and never again.

Haha your poor friends. They must love getting hurt :(


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[jamiexo]

I am way behind the game on responses, but I guess I'll put my opinion hahahaha.

Yeah, E-Dating can definitely make things complicated, especially if they're not right down the street from you or something. It's a situation where you have to look at all sides of the situation and decide if it's worth it or not.

I'm not saying that distance like that is something that I would be up for, because it makes things very difficult, but I also know that you can't help the way you feel about someone either. So obviously if you meet online, maybe wait until meeting in person to see where things go. But, if you feel really strongly about someone, why fight your feelings? Just let it happen tbh. You'll be a lot happier just being true to yourself and how you feel than trying to push down your feelings and always be stuck wondering "what if".

[Courtneyy]

I am way behind the game on responses, but I guess I'll put my opinion hahahaha.

Yeah, E-Dating can definitely make things complicated, especially if they're not right down the street from you or something. It's a situation where you have to look at all sides of the situation and decide if it's worth it or not.

I'm not saying that distance like that is something that I would be up for, because it makes things very difficult, but I also know that you can't help the way you feel about someone either. So obviously if you meet online, maybe wait until meeting in person to see where things go. But, if you feel really strongly about someone, why fight your feelings? Just let it happen tbh. You'll be a lot happier just being true to yourself and how you feel than trying to push down your feelings and always be stuck wondering "what if".


Oh yes, 100% I have been in the situation a couple of times. Where trying to push away the feelings didn't work. Because then you are wondering what if which is worse. Just seeing how it goes is better than living with doubts.

[xXxMsPinkxXx]

So basically you want to edate them and then move to their country? What is at the top of the list

bih! I australian daddeh is top priority so we can be neighbors! so you can also enjoy my delicious home cooked meals!

[RichBoiSam]

My older sister provided me with some words of wisdom the other day; "Do long distance so you don't have to see them!" My little sister took that advice a little too literally, she's 13 and has an online boyfriend who she's going to meet in the half term holidays. I think my dad is happy as he has an excuse to go on holiday!

I'm great at flirting on a night out and have my fair share of experiences but I'm terrible at closing the deal. Probably because they see my face when they're sober and regret it.

[M.Jay]

I'm not saying that distance like that is something that I would be up for, because it makes things very difficult, but I also know that you can't help the way you feel about someone either. So obviously if you meet online, maybe wait until meeting in person to see where things go. But, if you feel really strongly about someone, why fight your feelings? Just let it happen tbh. You'll be a lot happier just being true to yourself and how you feel than trying to push down your feelings and always be stuck wondering "what if".

I've been reading through the responses and i have to say i really agree with you Jamie.
Online dating is something that I have never had much experience because i have always find people are really rude and just don't want to even bother. (which does question why they are on tinder but you know...) But then at the same time, as you said, you can't fight feelings. If you catch feelings for someone, you just need to see where it takes you and you just hope for the best. Of course you are then in the situation of wondering does he/she feel the same way etc... It's a tough one, but yeah just have to ride the waves as they say.

[jamiexo]

I've been reading through the responses and i have to say i really agree with you Jamie.
Online dating is something that I have never had much experience because i have always find people are really rude and just don't want to even bother. (which does question why they are on tinder but you know...) But then at the same time, as you said, you can't fight feelings. If you catch feelings for someone, you just need to see where it takes you and you just hope for the best. Of course you are then in the situation of wondering does he/she feel the same way etc... It's a tough one, but yeah just have to ride the waves as they say.

Yeah exactly! Like definitely not perfect scenarios but yolo :P hahaha. I used to be so worried about life and everything so now I Just live in the moment, and see where life takes me

[Shannon]

Im not sure how i feel about edating, i think alot of the time long distance edating is very unreal and can become very fake, especially if you have never met the person in the real world.

If its someone locally and its more offline than online then that's something I guess personally I could commit to!

[LUCPIX]

It definitely works, but because it is not *entirely* real — For example, you're reading this forum post with your own inner voice, slightly modulated compared to how you read other users' inner voice because you know I'm a boy, etc, but you're still taking your inner speaking sound as how-lucpix-speaks and, in a certain way, it might, for better or worse, influence your whole perception of how neat I am to ya? Of course, if you're never intending to meet the other person... in person, then it won't matter that much but, who knows, what if they're as cool as they are online, etc? Part of everthing we like in all people is just a reflection of how cool we are, in all media, then go for it, baby