Flauvo
22-09-2005, 06:29 PM
There's one thing we all hate about school.
And that is...
...Bullies.
Awful and horrible, they're all out there to reek havoc on innocent individuals.
My aim throughout this piece to make your school days a better place and a place you enjoy.
To start, lets start with a few phrases your mum,auntie,grandad might've told you :
"Sticks & Stones may break your bones but calling names won't hurt me"
I know you wouldn't like to use this at a bully as it might 'ruin' your reputation saying something old fashioned like that.
"The bigger they are, the harder they fall"
This is technically true as it's a longer way down if your taller. Also it means that if they think they are the bees knees and if they get beaten in a 'slagging match' then they will feel it.
"A bully is a coward"
Yet another, true fact. You will rarely see a bully perform an act of verbal or physical abuse on his own. He will have a 'gang' of 'mates' with him. You get him on his own and he's as quiet as a mouse.
Verbal Abuse
We get alot of it. And sometimes it contains swearing. Some of it can be racist or sexist. This is probably more hurtful than physical abuse as it could really lower your self a steam.
Example
"Oi! You! Get over here. You want a fight [swear word here]?"
The most common. They will come over to you and specifically ask them if you want a fight with them.
Way to tackle
The best thing to do is just say no and keep your head down. Then when your out of sight then tell your form tutor or head teacher what exactly happened.
Physical Abuse
This may hurt outside but is nowhere near as painful on the inside as verbal. This is when a bully is going 'over the top' with his actions. He/she finds it funny and fills his enjoyment level up. I personally find it sick.
Example
'Walks over and hits you for no reason'
They will do this to many people and think its funny. Well, it's not. It could hurt someone badly and maybe give them external injuries.
Way To Tackle
What your mother says i would say to. If they start a fight with you or hit you then you have all the right in the world to retalliate. If you think that your 'incapable' of doing this then walk away and again tell someone like a teacher.
Just Remember one thing
STAND UP. BE BRAVE. BEAT THE BULLY
And that is...
...Bullies.
Awful and horrible, they're all out there to reek havoc on innocent individuals.
My aim throughout this piece to make your school days a better place and a place you enjoy.
To start, lets start with a few phrases your mum,auntie,grandad might've told you :
"Sticks & Stones may break your bones but calling names won't hurt me"
I know you wouldn't like to use this at a bully as it might 'ruin' your reputation saying something old fashioned like that.
"The bigger they are, the harder they fall"
This is technically true as it's a longer way down if your taller. Also it means that if they think they are the bees knees and if they get beaten in a 'slagging match' then they will feel it.
"A bully is a coward"
Yet another, true fact. You will rarely see a bully perform an act of verbal or physical abuse on his own. He will have a 'gang' of 'mates' with him. You get him on his own and he's as quiet as a mouse.
Verbal Abuse
We get alot of it. And sometimes it contains swearing. Some of it can be racist or sexist. This is probably more hurtful than physical abuse as it could really lower your self a steam.
Example
"Oi! You! Get over here. You want a fight [swear word here]?"
The most common. They will come over to you and specifically ask them if you want a fight with them.
Way to tackle
The best thing to do is just say no and keep your head down. Then when your out of sight then tell your form tutor or head teacher what exactly happened.
Physical Abuse
This may hurt outside but is nowhere near as painful on the inside as verbal. This is when a bully is going 'over the top' with his actions. He/she finds it funny and fills his enjoyment level up. I personally find it sick.
Example
'Walks over and hits you for no reason'
They will do this to many people and think its funny. Well, it's not. It could hurt someone badly and maybe give them external injuries.
Way To Tackle
What your mother says i would say to. If they start a fight with you or hit you then you have all the right in the world to retalliate. If you think that your 'incapable' of doing this then walk away and again tell someone like a teacher.
Just Remember one thing
STAND UP. BE BRAVE. BEAT THE BULLY