kissing...

[Amehh.]

im like 12 and never snogged nobody before,i know im still young but all my friends have done it and i feel really left out,most guys dump me because im too shy to snog them.It really hurts me. i would snog a guy but i have no experience and i very worried it would go wrong.Plus the shy-ness just annoys me!!!

i know this is going to sound a bit weird but i need tips on how too...

this is embrassing for me... ;(anyways thanks.

[Clarissa]

Don't worry and relax

[Amehh.]

Don't worry and relax ta i will try too.

[MsTanya]

It just happens, youl know what to do when the times right but dont make anyone do anything you dont want to.

[ASHFELT]

If you go to snog someone just close your eyes and fill your mind of happy thaughts, it works for me and there is no such thing as experience because when I had my first snog it was just a strange relaxing sensation

[Insanity]

No one has experiance at first do they?...
and you shouln't really be "snogging" at your age anyway ;p
i know ppl say do it when ya ready ( mostly wiff shmex ) but you should do it over 21 to whom your planning on sharing ya life with, dont go out with arthur !! =]

[Georgia]

Try not to worry about it. It will come when your ready, try asking a girl out or a close friend for help

[Emicat]

Oh dear, I've snogged god knows how many people and I'm the same age as yah O.o. Okay, you should start with a little kiss on their lips. Now this is where the fun starts. You should open your mouth and just touch tounges. Do NOT keep your eyes open for more than 2 seconds. If hands are going where they shouldn't (My current boyfriend knocked my bra off - don't ask) just put your hand infront of theirs and hold it. Hope I helped ^_^

[Amehh.]

21????????????? ARE YOU MAD???? but this guys likes me and i like him hes just so cute! and i only met him yesturday.. LOOOL! anyways thanks!

[Clarissa]

My best mate is great with this kind of stuff. If you have a close friend who is emm experienced with that kind of stuff ask her... even if its an online friend.

[ASHFELT]

Oh dear, I've snogged god knows how many people and I'm the same age as yah O.o. Okay, you should start with a little kiss on their lips. Now this is where the fun starts. You should open your mouth and just touch tounges. Do NOT keep your eyes open for more than 2 seconds. If hands are going where they shouldn't (My current boyfriend knocked my bra off - don't ask) just put your hand infront of theirs and hold it. Hope I helped ^_^


Lol in other words hands can be fiddly things if not kept in line
[i knew hands were trouble]

[Amehh.]

Oh dear, I've snogged god knows how many people and I'm the same age as yah O.o. Okay, you should start with a little kiss on their lips. Now this is where the fun starts. You should open your mouth and just touch tounges. Do NOT keep your eyes open for more than 2 seconds. If hands are going where they shouldn't (My current boyfriend knocked my bra off - don't ask) just put your hand infront of theirs and hold it. Hope I helped ^_^Aww ta ;)

[ChloeDust]

Don't worry i've not had many kisses in my lifetime either and im 15 =] i'm also very shy and that and just panic etc but just try and relax and you'll just know what to do when the time is right. Try practising on the back of your hand snogging, sounds weird but it helps.

[Insanity]

21????????????? ARE YOU MAD???? but this guys likes me and i like him hes just so cute! and i only met him yesturday.. LOOOL! anyways thanks!


so >;o your only a babeh and yew emicat ;o
and to all the rest of ya out there doing "stuff" it's not right, my cousin got ****d because shes a little ******* flirting with anyone she sees.
BEFORE YA START I'M NOT CALLING YOUS LOT SLAPPERS. But trying to tell you 99% of guys are after one thing, what ever there age. and my cousin hasn't changed cause she doesn;t think it will happen again, we don't evan talk no more cause i told her a few home truths. if theres one thing i dispise is young children with skirts as up there ashes.then they all complaine along with there parents when stuff happens to them. it's not right at all, and idc if ya think i'm acting like an old man theese are my oppinions and as the rules state "respect other peoples opinions". but i wont be the one giving me bad rep and having a go at me then going out getting hurt by guys getting the wrong impression ect.

anyway like i say thats my oppinion, but it's your life. up to you.

[Clarissa]

so >;o your only a babeh and yew emicat ;o
and to all the rest of ya out there doing "stuff" it's not right, my cousin got ****d because shes a little ******* flirting with anyone she sees.
BEFORE YA START I'M NOT CALLING YOUS LOT SLAPPERS. But trying to tell you 99% of guys are after one thing, what ever there age. and my cousin hasn't changed cause she doesn;t think it will happen again, we don't evan talk no more cause i told her a few home truths. if theres one thing i dispise is young children with skirts as up there ashes.then they all complaine along with there parents when stuff happens to them. it's not right at all, and idc if ya think i'm acting like an old man theese are my oppinions and as the rules state "respect other peoples opinions". but i wont be the one giving me bad rep and having a go at me then going out getting hurt by guys getting the wrong impression ect.

anyway like i say thats my oppinion, but it's your life. up to you.
Thats so right. 'Things' always happen to the *cough* raunchy[sp?!] ones

[Insanity]

exactly, i am not been mean or anything like that but if your wearing a really short skirt and a tight top with ya tats popping out at a really young age when your vunrable, arn't you asking for trouble?. and you say no and THINK your strong enuff to protect your self, your wrong, not evan grown women can protect them selfs from thoose dirty fellas who want shooting hiding in allys waiting to jump you. and theese clubs that do teenage night, ya its a good idea but you should get your parents to pick you up instead of walking home in the pitch black of night... whats better been cool and walking home looking over your back for people jumping you and mugging you ect. or playing it safe and getting a lift home with someone you trust ;l

[Amehh.]

exactly, i am not been mean or anything like that but if your wearing a really short skirt and a tight top with ya tats popping out at a really young age when your vunrable, arn't you asking for trouble?. and you say no and THINK your strong enuff to protect your self, your wrong, not evan grown women can protect them selfs from thoose dirty fellas who want shooting hiding in allys waiting to jump you. and theese clubs that do teenage night, ya its a good idea but you should get your parents to pick you up instead of walking home in the pitch black of night... whats better been cool and walking home looking over your back for people jumping you and mugging you ect. or playing it safe and getting a lift home with someone you trust ;l
i never wear short skirts.Baggy jeans for me.

[Insanity]

Yes but the majority of girls do theese days..
but still you could wear as much clothes as posible doesn't stop most guys from taking advantage of you, and i know ppl get worried when you get called fridged or w.e that word is young people use today ;p so the go out getting pregnant... i'd rather replace my freinds and get "picked on" then be lumberd with a child at a young age.

[Rachi]

Err
If it goes wrong just laff it off ;]

[Rosie]

Uh Im 14 i wear short Skirts and All that i go out with my mates have a laugh but i know when to stop :P

[Clarissa]

I live in jeans ''/

[Eamonn]

No one has experiance at first do they?...
and you shouln't really be "snogging" at your age anyway ;p
i know ppl say do it when ya ready ( mostly wiff shmex ) but you should do it over 21 to whom your planning on sharing ya life with, dont go out with arthur !! =]
My first proper snog was when i was 11 never too young :P

[Moth]

Practice with a pillow or another inatimate object. It might help.

[Lindzi]

Practice on your hand and if you're really worried about it you could ask a guy whos a friend to help you.

[Insanity]

Uh Im 14 i wear short Skirts and All that i go out with my mates have a laugh but i know when to stop :P

It's not a case of " Knowing when to stop" you can't shout stop when your been jumped on draged away to get rapped n murded by sad old perves because it wont work. they wont just jump off you pick you up and brush you down and say oh sorry my fair lady. when my cousin got "attacked" her freind was there with her but she was too scared to do anything.
you may think oh i'm safe i'm with my freinds they'll protect me. but you can't be 100% even if they say they would. and thoose kind of clothes are disgusting for young people, you may wanna seem all grown up but been grown up is been SENSIBLE not been a ******* . that makes you stupid not sensible, thinking cause you wear things like that you get more repect and attention.. but think Why do you get that kind of attention cause they wanna get in your knickers ! !
so what would you want, short skirts tight tops and a guy that takes advntage and chases other girls of the same nature, or been sensible dressing sensible and getting a guy that wants you for you and nothing else till the time is right i.e TWENTY ONE :D lol

( i know i sound like an old man i'm 17 though and i think what i've said is right... but like i say it's your life don't go complaining when the guy takes advantage. )

[Lindzi]

Lmao I loved that "Sorry My fair lady" lol!

[Digital]

test you kissing skills on your mum?

[Owen]

test you kissing skills on your mum?

Oh i like that...

[Moth]

test you kissing skills on your mum?

Yeah, I'm sure her mom would appreciate that a lot. :rolleyes:

[Biseinen]

Just don't eat their face. ;)

You'll either be a natural born kisser or you'll have to practice. (Or you'll just be rubbish)

[GommeInc]

If guys only want to go out with you for a snog then they are obviously not right for you. They should know about how you are feeling and what you like to truely love you.

[RedStratocas]

im like 12 and never snogged nobody before,i know im still young but all my friends have done it and i feel really left out,most guys dump me because im too shy to snog them.It really hurts me. i would snog a guy but i have no experience and i very worried it would go wrong.Plus the shy-ness just annoys me!!!

i know this is going to sound a bit weird but i need tips on how too...

this is embrassing for me... ;(anyways thanks.


Havent you learned anything? "All my friends have done it" is basicly the first excuse for people who try or want to try drugs/alcohal/smoking ect. 12 is young, and no one makes fun of you for havent kissing a guy.

[GommeInc]

I think you are very mature for not immediately thinking "Snob every boy I see", its admirable in a way...

[Insanity]

Next thread: I need help
Hello i am 17 years old and never jumped off a cliff before, all my friends have done it. i feel really left out.i would jump off the cliff but i have no experience and i'm very worried it would go wrong.



basicly, do what you like just dunt complain when you have to miss out on your teenage years because of your baby, just cause everyone else has done it. doesn't meen you have too.

[Rosie]

It's not a case of " Knowing when to stop" you can't shout stop when your been jumped on draged away to get rapped n murded by sad old perves because it wont work. they wont just jump off you pick you up and brush you down and say oh sorry my fair lady. when my cousin got "attacked" her freind was there with her but she was too scared to do anything.
you may think oh i'm safe i'm with my freinds they'll protect me. but you can't be 100% even if they say they would. and thoose kind of clothes are disgusting for young people, you may wanna seem all grown up but been grown up is been SENSIBLE not been a ******* . that makes you stupid not sensible, thinking cause you wear things like that you get more repect and attention.. but think Why do you get that kind of attention cause they wanna get in your knickers ! !
so what would you want, short skirts tight tops and a guy that takes advntage and chases other girls of the same nature, or been sensible dressing sensible and getting a guy that wants you for you and nothing else till the time is right i.e TWENTY ONE :D lol

( i know i sound like an old man i'm 17 though and i think what i've said is right... but like i say it's your life don't go complaining when the guy takes advantage. )


Thing is i dont go for guys who are 21 Lol when i go out its under 18's places and all that im not gonna go away and chat up sum random bloke thats about 20! And we hang around in groups Pretty big groups and i dont choose short skirts to make me feel grown up lol i wear them cause i want to now your saying if you want a proper lad you cant wear short skirts. Think again

[Insanity]

Thing is i dont go for guys who are 21 Lol when i go out its under 18's places and all that im not gonna go away and chat up sum random bloke thats about 20! And we hang around in groups Pretty big groups and i dont choose short skirts to make me feel grown up lol i wear them cause i want to now your saying if you want a proper lad you cant wear short skirts. Think again


i never said ppl are chatting up 21 year olds, you don;t have to chat to them for them to abuse you they will sit there like sad $%^?#@ waiting for you.
and also i never said " if you want a proper lad you can't wear short skirts " either, i'm saying wearing them provokes them more.

[Rosie]

i never said ppl are chatting up 21 year olds, you don;t have to chat to them for them to abuse you they will sit there like sad $%^?#@ waiting for you.
and also i never said " if you want a proper lad you can't wear short skirts " either, i'm saying wearing them provokes them more.

Okay i see where your coming from and all that But wearing a short skirt haning around is groups of Hmm lets say about 15 with quite alot of boys aged around 15-17 And girls Its unlickley but walking yourself yes probably

[Insanity]

yes, but your not with big groups 24.7 are you. theres always one time when your alone evan in the day time when it's light, theres that many sickos about theese days
and they was gunna bring out a new law dunno if they have persued it but they did it in our town, your not aloud to hang out in more then groups of three. ment to keep you out of trouble but keep you safe at the safe time ;l

[Rosie]

yes, but your not with big groups 24.7 are you. theres always one time when your alone evan in the day time when it's light, theres that many sickos about theese days
and they was gunna bring out a new law dunno if they have persued it but they did it in our town, your not aloud to hang out in more then groups of three. ment to keep you out of trouble but keep you safe at the safe time ;l

So your sortof limmiting yourself to the friends you have and Hang about with ;S will some not socialise with some of there friends Thats wrong but rite in a way, im used to hanging about in big groups ;[

[Insanity]

So was i, thats probly why they introduced that law x']
i'm a good boy really.

[ChloeDust]

No offence insanity but if she needs a talk about being safe with friends and in town then im sure her parents can give her the talk :/

Also there is nothing wrong with short skirts, i wear short skirts, not every boy in the world wants to get inside your pants you know, i dont wear major miny skirts i just wear sort of medium skirts ;/ lol anyhoo you act like she can't wear miny skirts or she cant go out unless she's with a big group of friends and that's just rubbish, as long as she acts sensible then she should be fine.

[wowgirlz]

hihihihihihihi!!!!!!

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[wowgirlz]

No offence insanity but if she needs a talk about being safe with friends and in town then im sure her parents can give her the talk :/

Also there is nothing wrong with short skirts, i wear short skirts, not every boy in the world wants to get inside your pants you know, i dont wear major miny skirts i just wear sort of medium skirts ;/ lol anyhoo you act like she can't wear miny skirts or she cant go out unless she's with a big group of friends and that's just rubbish, as long as she acts sensible then she should be fine.
hihihi!!!

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[Bef]

Jees, Insanity, what the hell are you on about... Shes on about kissing, not romping in the bushes!
Nenywho, with kissing all you got to do is be confident, at 12 most kids wont be really really experienced, just tilt your head to the side and slowly put your lips against his, then when the time feels right open your mouth a bit and gently massage your tounge against his, not to fast, washing machines are never good! Lol. Remember you don't have to do anything just because all your friends are! I can't even remember my first kiss... so its not that big a deal to most people in the long run.

[Rosie]

No offence insanity but if she needs a talk about being safe with friends and in town then im sure her parents can give her the talk :/

Also there is nothing wrong with short skirts, i wear short skirts, not every boy in the world wants to get inside your pants you know, i dont wear major miny skirts i just wear sort of medium skirts ;/ lol anyhoo you act like she can't wear miny skirts or she cant go out unless she's with a big group of friends and that's just rubbish, as long as she acts sensible then she should be fine.

I agree its like saying girls cant go out wearing a miny skirt or with any mates then she will get attacted not everygirl wants to be totaly covered in what she wears,we do have lifes yano :P

[Insanity]

First of all.. i am not saying you SHOULDN'T be wearing short skirts or anything of that nature. Nor that EVERY boy in the world wants to get into your knickers if you read my posts correctly you will see that.
And be honest haw many people actually listen to there parents ;l

"as long as she acts sensible then she should be fine." i don't think acting sensible is wearing short skirts and tight tops. THATS what i'm trying to say. Not " stop every one having fun " im saying you don't need to wear dish cloths to have fun. and if you had of read my posts propley you would of realised that.

If i told you a few things that happend to me from 12-15 you probly wouldn't belive it. i now look back and regret what i did, evan though it wasn't "wrong" at the time.
i now just think its wrong that the majority of young teens are going round "snogging peoples faces off" wich is what this topic is on, or going off topic; "doing adult things" lol. I know you might not want to think it but your only a kid, as much as you want to feel grown up getting drunk or high or doing "stuff" with your bf/gf doesn't make you grown up at all.

I'll say it again for the record. This is MY opinion, you have the right to your own, i'm not questioning it. I'm telling you MY point of veiw.
So even if you disagree thats up to you, theres no point arguing with me for giving my opinion is there.Basicly saying i don't know what i'm talking about.
cause i've been there and done it. and it hasn't helped me one bit ;l

[Wolfie]

This may sound weird but i had my first snog at seven lolz

[Rosie]

This may sound weird but i had my first snog at seven lolz
Mine was 9 :P

[MsTanya]

Rosie you hore xD Mine was at 10

[Rosie]

Rosie you hore xD Mine was at 10
>;o Lmaao! well that Manhore above was at 7!!!

[ChloeDust]

My first snog was about 9 i think i cant even remember lol

[Emicat]

Oh god i'm a HO! :( My first snog was at seven (not saying wid who cause my bro comes on here yah know) and I abo****ely will NEVER WEAR A SKIRT. But everyone these days are old for there age, its just way we grow up. We need to mature quickly and we go the wrong way... who-ops off topic :(

[Stacey.]

Guys shouldn't pressure you, nor should your friends. A guy should like you for who you are, not how you kiss! When the time is right, you'll know.

[cocaine]

Lmao, I haven't even had a gf yet :rolleyes: I'm not really into it. When you said 'All my friends have done it', its seems you want to rush into it. If you go with the flow, you'll soon find someone.

[Amehh.]

Havent you learned anything? "All my friends have done it" is basicly the first excuse for people who try or want to try drugs/alcohal/smoking ect. 12 is young, and no one makes fun of you for havent kissing a guy. pfft... im not going to take drugs.

[cocaine]

pfft... im not going to take drugs.

Well, we hope not anyway.

[properclone]

Practice with a pillow or another inatimate object. It might help.

Although I wouldnt advise a fan or a plug socket.


Just relax, dude! Take a chill pill, it'll happen and it doesn't matter when, you'll know when the times right and you'll know what to do, it will just happen. The it'll be over soon and you'll be all like 'wow that didnt stink at all'.
If your really worried google something like 'how to snog'.

[-=rooty987=-]

I sent you a PM ;)

[Embean]

Just because your mates are doing it doesnt mean you HAVE to do it.
If they're teasing you about not having your first snog thats not being a good friend and they dont sound very friendly. Your first snog/kiss is meant to be special and comes to you naturally. You dont want to rush into it or you'll wish you hadnt done it in the first place unless you have the right person to do it to.
12 years old is very young for your first snog. I only had mine when i was 14.
And then i wasnt bothered when i was going to.
Emmy. <3

[Pulchritudinous]

It will come naturallllyyyyyy.

I'm 14, and all my friends have had *** or erm..pleasured a boy, but I don't wanna, I'm not scared of it, I'd just rather have my self-respect, cause most of them have now made a name for themselves. :rolleyes:

[cocaine]

It will come naturallllyyyyyy.

I'm 14, and all my friends have had *** or erm..pleasured a boy, but I don't wanna, I'm not scared of it, I'd just rather have my self-respect, cause most of them have now made a name for themselves. :rolleyes:

Umm, isn't having 'Intercourse' at 14 too young? I thought you had to be sixteen.

[Amehh.]

Just because your mates are doing it doesnt mean you HAVE to do it.
If they're teasing you about not having your first snog thats not being a good friend and they dont sound very friendly. Your first snog/kiss is meant to be special and comes to you naturally. You dont want to rush into it or you'll wish you hadnt done it in the first place unless you have the right person to do it to.
12 years old is very young for your first snog. I only had mine when i was 14.
And then i wasnt bothered when i was going to.
Emmy. <3 But i want too -.-

[RedStratocas]

But i want too -.-

If you want to then why are you telling us about it? What can we do to help? We are making suggestions and saying that you dont have to, but if you just say you want to, we get stuck. We cant help you get kissed since thats what you want so badly, all we can do is give advice. Im not really sure what you want us to say.

[Ziploc Bag]

be like HAHA IVE NEVER KISSED ANYBODY

save it for someone important

dont waste it on someone u dont think deserves it

[q25]

Just do what u have to do!, its a kiss, enjoy it!, and all will be good :)

[Pulchritudinous]

Umm, isn't having 'Intercourse' at 14 too young? I thought you had to be sixteen.

Exactly! But it's not like they care.
Why do you think there is so many teenage pregnancies.

[Rosie]

Umm, isn't having 'Intercourse' at 14 too young? I thought you had to be sixteen.
Uh. not like anyone listens Everyone round my area well you could say the majority loose there virginity at about 13-14 Maybe older maybe younger.

[cocaine]

Oh, but usually when they go into hospital the hospital contact the police, who talks to the youth? They have to go down for it, somehow.

[kaut]

snog... that word makes me laugh everytime I hear it. Meh, British people have way better slang than us stupid Americans.

[Biseinen]

But... Snog is british... xD (I think... O_o) Well, my girlfriend uses the term "Get off" So I use that... O_O

[kaut]

But... Snog is british... xD


that's what I was getting at... it's a way better word than... actually... I don't think we have a word for it, lol.

[Pulchritudinous]

that's what I was getting at... it's a way better word than... actually... I don't think we have a word for it, lol.

When I was watching this ****** american teen sitcom, they referred to it as 'making out'

[kaut]

When I was watching this ****** american teen sitcom, they referred to it as 'making out'

okay... so I guess we do have a word for it... lol. After meeting my friends Jami and Michelle it's habit for me to use the term "getting on *whoever*" as that's what they call it and I had to hear them say it about twenty times a day for two years. Kind of got stuck in my head.

[Amehh.]

OH MY GOD...PEOPLE YOU CAN STOP POSTING NOW....!!!! Or if somebody can...close the topic please! jeez...

[Rachi]

Y u want 2 close it
you started it "/

[Biseinen]

Lol, everyone has lots to express on the joy which is kissing!

[Amehh.]

If you want to then why are you telling us about it? What can we do to help? We are making suggestions and saying that you dont have to, but if you just say you want to, we get stuck. We cant help you get kissed since thats what you want so badly, all we can do is give advice. Im not really sure what you want us to say. If you dont know what to say then dont post.Simple.

[Amehh.]

Y u want 2 close it
you started it "/ Because somebody has already given me the best advice so i don't need nomore -.-

[YellowParasol]

Well did you use 'ther best Advice' ? :P

[Adam$]

Just do it whenever you feel the time is right..

[.mcgovlau.]

www.myjellybean.com lots of dating advice and how to snog ;)

[Amehh.]

Well did you use 'ther best Advice' ? :P not yet...still Shy...>;l

[-x-pod-x-]

No one has experiance at first do they?...
and you shouln't really be "snogging" at your age anyway ;p
i know ppl say do it when ya ready ( mostly wiff shmex ) but you should do it over 21 to whom your planning on sharing ya life with, dont go out with arthur !! =]


i jus wanna say tht ppl cn kiss weneva they like yano u dnt hav to be a certain age

[:Bleh]

Well, your still doing better than me. :P
i haven't even been out with anyone never mind kissed / been kissed by one. :P

[RyAzIzErE]

Just Relax and Take Tips from Your Mum!

[Code]

My first kiss was last year and it was a bit random...

...I was dancing with some girl (this wasn't on impulse btw I'd known her for a couple of months) at teh school disco, and some song came on (meh can't remember what it was, it was some love song) and I started to sing along to it (while dancing with this girl). She was all like "oh my god you're such a good singer I love this song", and then I just looked at her (here's where it starts to sound really cliche and stupid), and she's like "today's my birthday...how about a birthday kiss" and

erm

yeah, thats about it.

-Will

[Bodice]

The best thing to do is kiss when you feel you are ready for it. I was nervous aswell for my first kiss but everything just goes with the flow. To help you relax you could be somewhere where you feel more comfortable like somewhere not infront of all your mates and his. It'll make it easy but just go with the flow. If boy's dump you because you are shy it's there loss. :)

[Xela]

Er, I may be worng on this one but

Snoging-
Open mouthed kissing; Basicly, Kiss but then open your mouth

'Pulling'-
Toung*; Its hard to explain what todo, Snog and sort of move your toung onto their teeth and then move onto their toung. (Thats what I do, With the teeth it gives a sort of hint)

[kobi626]

im like 12 and never snogged nobody before,i know im still young but all my friends have done it and i feel really left out,most guys dump me because im too shy to snog them.It really hurts me. i would snog a guy but i have no experience and i very worried it would go wrong.Plus the shy-ness just annoys me!!!

i know this is going to sound a bit weird but i need tips on how too...

this is embrassing for me... ;(anyways thanks.

Don't wish to snog because ur mates snogged allready.
When youll try ur real love the kiss will just come. The kissing thing is very natural. Don't try to practise or anything. Just be urself and let ur feelings get out ;) Don't worry <3

I'm 16, and I first kissed on age umm 13 i fink... But it not metters... lol

[GoldenMerc]

my first snog was when me and my x were drunk so it wasnt realy anything becuase she callapsed that night so if i was bad she wouldnt know.but i wouldnt do it again.

[sophie]

No offence insanity but if she needs a talk about being safe with friends and in town then im sure her parents can give her the talk :/

Also there is nothing wrong with short skirts, i wear short skirts, not every boy in the world wants to get inside your pants you know, i dont wear major miny skirts i just wear sort of medium skirts ;/ lol anyhoo you act like she can't wear miny skirts or she cant go out unless she's with a big group of friends and that's just rubbish, as long as she acts sensible then she should be fine.


srorry but every guy in the world DOES want to get in girls pants! name me one straight guy dat dnt! lol

[mynameishelen!]

srorry but every guy in the world DOES want to get in girls pants! name me one straight guy dat dnt! lol

Stephen. Theres one.
I could go on.

And where i live no one calls it snogging, we call it "Getting off" ;)

[JT-Fan]

We call it "lipsing" and yeah some guys just wanna get in ya knickers, they're just sad people who don't understand what LOVE is.

[issaa.]

We call it pulling or lipsing or getting off or snogging, and gawd I remember when this was first posted :o

[sophie]

we call it pulling or getting off or kissed

[Jakeh]

I'm assuming you mean making out? It should come naturally, don't be forced.
but if you are with a guy you really like and you think it feels like time - just start off with few little pecks on the lips and then that will get things growing[ aka slowly opening your mouth slippin in some tongue]. youre only 12, my first kiss was when i was 14. g'luck

[ChloeDust]

Erm, Sophie no they don't, not every boy wants to get into girls pants.

[jinxii]

It's really, natural, I was like 15 until I had my first kiss and I was terrified. It was really natural. It helps if you put a hand on their face. Don't use your tongue at first, just kiss somebody softly on the lips and work your way into it. =) And remember to ENJOY IT, that's what kissing is all about.

[Nightrose]

umm well i call it Kissing or Making out Lol all u girls are rushing into snogging/making out. Before u no it a little snog might turn into underage Intercourse. Do it with somebody u trust and love no just cause u want to get ut first snog. make out with someone knows that u dont want to go to far and want to finish at a kiss.

[tyson2k7]

we call it makin out or snoggin

[mynameishelen!]

Erm, Sophie no they don't, not every boy wants to get into girls pants.

[:-Rico-]

But... Snog is british... xD (I think... O_o) Well, my girlfriend uses the term "Get off" So I use that... O_O

Trunks With GF?!?! Don't Compute :s
I think its the girl next door telling you to literally "get off" her property or something, your ugly, and eat paper :s

[-x-pod-x-]

Oh dear, I've snogged god knows how many people and I'm the same age as yah O.o. Okay, you should start with a little kiss on their lips. Now this is where the fun starts. You should open your mouth and just touch tounges. Do NOT keep your eyes open for more than 2 seconds. If hands are going where they shouldn't (My current boyfriend knocked my bra off - don't ask) just put your hand infront of theirs and hold it. Hope I helped ^_^


omg ;l lmao

[ItsDave]

Don't worry and relax
What kind of help is that? I need help like this, Im a boy, but yet too shy to snog, the closest thing I've done is a hug and kiss on the lips. By 3 of my ex girlfriends.

[sophie]

wat age was ur first kiss?

[Infrontation]

It will come in good time..

[lukejames]

U cud snog me! ;) be warned im 11 lol anyway this happans im a boy but accept any girl except for fat ones no offence kk But im sure ull find a guy son. And its not u that shub we shy its us the boys just kiss a boy let everyone see and go out wid dem simple! lol;) ;) ;)

[Aimseh]

When the time is right the time will come. Don't feel left out though because you aren't. If you don't feel like snogging then don't it's totally up to you what you want to do. If guys finish you because your to shy to snog them then you know what they really wanted. Just relax and it will just be natural. Just lean in and move your lips slowly. Don't be embarrased because when the time is right the time will come.

[!-.Scammed.-!]

i have never snogged anyone, just a little kiss for me lol! im onlly 12 and im not bothered. I wear just plain tees n jean oor knee length skirt and I play it safe. it doesn't matter if you go wrong, just laugh it off and give em a hug. If they truely love you, they will accept that and do what you d, just laugh hang hug. Simple! Im no expert etheir

[sexy_gal13]

it doesnt matta dont worri if ya m8s have dun it then thats there problom wait till ur ready wat im 16 n ive snogged loads of guys ur not missin much n it doesnt mean anythin so i wud wait till u feel ready n find the right guy then it will b more special 2 u

[Frisked]

Lmao, I haven't even had a gf yet :rolleyes: I'm not really into it. When you said 'All my friends have done it', its seems you want to rush into it. If you go with the flow, you'll soon find someone.

Maybe your gay? :s