Loosing somone close..

Hey I'd just like to ask if anyone else on this forum has lost somone/ some people who have been close to you, my story I have lost my dad (he died 8 months ago :(), my brother when he was 4 and my grandad before i was born.
I miss them awfully but i have been getting counselling from the Lora center in leicester and westcoates in leicester and it's really helping alot, does anyone else have any experiences like theese?

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by snapshot

Hey I'd just like to ask if anyone else on this forum has lost somone/ some people who have been close to you, my story I have lost my dad (he died 8 months ago :(), my brother when he was 4 and my grandad before i was born.
I miss them awfully but i have been getting counselling from the Lora center in leicester and westcoates in leicester and it's really helping alot, does anyone else have any experiences like theese?

---

Thats awful mate ;(

I lost my gran last Xmas.

I have lost both my grandads and a grandmother, hit me very hard as I was close to them all.

I'm from Leicester aswell.

If you need counselling get in touch with the laura center the people there are genuinely fantastic :)

I found out my grandmother was dying after graduation night, and she passed away just before my final examinations.
Just great timing eh?

aww :( my dad died on my grandmas (his mums) birthday, what a great present eh? :(

Aww Snapshot <3

I lost both of my Grandma and Grandad before I was born, so I never got a chance to meet them or anything :(

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by snapshot

Hey I'd just like to ask if anyone else on this forum has lost somone/ some people who have been close to you, my story I have lost my dad (he died 8 months ago :(), my brother when he was 4 and my grandad before i was born.
I miss them awfully but i have been getting counselling from the Lora center in leicester and westcoates in leicester and it's really helping alot, does anyone else have any experiences like theese?

---

I'm sorry to hear about all them. I lost my mum in 1994 through heart cancer and my dad in 2000 to a car crash. My Grandma on my mum's side died in 1992 and my grandfather on my mum's side died in 1970 so I never knew him. I felt suicidal for years on end but my uncle was my lifeline. He took me in, aware of my mentality (after the crash in 2000 which I was a part of). For 3 years I never understood why he died and I didn't. What was really upsetting though was when in 2001 when I was 10 I was going through some of my dads things that he'd left me via the will and I found a letter from my mum to me saying "See you in heaven". I found that upsetting but thanks to my uncle who's done a lot for me over the years, he's given me the will to live and I'm 14 now, 15 in 2 months and as happy as ever, even though pieces of my life are missing. You get over it eventually, but you never feel happy about it. It was my mum's 11 death anniversairy not long ago and that was upsetting too. Anyway I wish you all the best and hope it doesn't affect your life as bad as it did mine. Remember you still have your mum. Hang onto her for as long as possible.

My mates grandad just died ;[

sorry bout the loss. im from leaicester aswell :)