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Ok, i have this replay in my head over and over again everytime i think of telling a friend that im bi. I just think that they'd turn their backs on me or if not, just be really cautious and think im hitting on them, which would make everything awkward. And dont say "well if their gonna be like that then they aint ya friend". Considering no one has ever come out in school, and if theres a rumous that some1 is everyone would bag them out.

Rumours spread really fast around my school so im afraid it''ll get round to the one i do like!

...Havent even thought about telling my parents..

Well first of all what's important in this issue is your age, well if you're old enough and you think you're ready, then go ahead, tell your parents, they should love you for who you are, not for your sexuality. For friends, I don't think you should tell though, but if you want to, just tell your best mates, and ask them not to spread it around. Who knows, they might be Bi too!

Im 14 But i was curious about my sexuality since 9 years old! so im sure im bi

tell them , they dont like it , then they are imature and pathetic butthey should see the good side and respect you for whpo you are

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Originally Posted by pechie100

tell them , they dont like it , then they are imature and pathetic butthey should see the good side and respect you for whpo you are

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Easier said than done. You can say they are immature, pathetic, etc. But, when it comes down to it, would you want to be abandoned by your friends for something so simple?

If I were in a school like that, I'd wait it out until some of the people there did a bit of maturing.

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Originally Posted by blah blah blah

Im 14 But i was curious about my sexuality since 9 years old! so im sure im bi

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Well you can't really tell when you're 14, but I don't know, because everyone matures at different times, maybe you should wait till you're 15 or 16.