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I really like this girl at my school but Iv made a few small moves like saying hello and stuff and iv known her since infants at school but im finding trouble in "making the next step" i dont know what the next step is. A friend of mine ses everyone knows how to flirt but i just dont :(
Any SERIOUS tips would be appreciated :) and repped :)
Aw, Talk and find interests ...
Laugh at things she jokes about etc. make friends wiv er friends ?
Im no good Sorry ;'[
I currently undergoing the make friends with her friends thing :)
She dow really make many jokes but the ones she does say peeps must fink that i find em hilarious lol
We share intrests , music mainly but its getting teh chance to discuss them apart from msn... I dont get chance to sit by her in any lessons :(
Break Periods ?
Its hard making a first move lmao. Just smile at her alot in lessons or anywhere you see her, dont give her a massive cheesy grin 'cos thats just scary :D Do a bit of detective work and find out where she hangs out, and what she likes. Then at lunch, break or somewhere else accidently bump into her :P You say you talk to her on msn, so you could get to know her over MSN so you dont have to go up to her and talk! If you talk over MSN a lot with her, maybe shell come and talk to YOU :rolleyes:
Im not very good at this, but theres some tips ;)
Just be really nice to her for a couple of weeks. Be REALLY nice, eg ask her if she wants a sweet alot etc..
Talk to her alot ask her if she needs anything you can help with. :)
Yh i would generally say do the stuff mentioned above, try and find out about her interests, weneva u meet her smile. If she drops her books etc... help her pick them up, u know general stuff like that. And hang around with her and her mates, yet don't do it too often so that you annoy them.
Yup i agree. If you keep trying to hang around with her and her mates shell think youre some sad loser who hangs around her as you have nobody else to hang out with, and she will most probably think you're desperate :D Cos it is annoying if you wanna have a girly giggle/chat or summat and some boy keeps popping up everywhere ROFL. </3Quote:
Originally Posted by Polly-alyssa
WOoo loads of replys lol i read em all thanks for help i espcially like
P.S ILL REP AS MANY OF YOU LOT AS POSSIBLE!Quote:
Just be really nice to her for a couple of weeks. Be REALLY nice, eg ask her if she wants a sweet alot etc..
Talk to her alot ask her if she needs anything you can help with.
Also I dont need to get to know her iv known here for like 9 years, so i dont really have trouble in talking to her i just dont know what "next step" to take after saying hi 50 times a day lol
Its A Tricky Situation But I Have A Few Ideas Im To Chicken To Try That You Could Use.
1] Ask For her Advice On Music..... Or See If She'd Like To See An Up Coming Band With You.
2] The Ye Old Homework Question. Does Work!
3] Ask Her About Her Week.
I Know They Dont really Seem That Good But Most Girls [Including Me] Love To Talk About Things.
Girls Love It When Guys Make The First Move, You Might Hate It But Trust Me She'll Think Its Way Cute.:love7:
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