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31-05-2006, 06:59 PM
edible

love help

Theres this boy i like yeh, and he says he loves me, but he's always with someone else, we sometimes fight but we both like each-other but we've been together once and he always says he loves me..
He lies about alot of things. and i dont know whether to accept it as the truth or not.
He says lots of family members die, and i give him sympathy and stuff but in a way i dont believe him..
Yesterday he said he loved me so much and that he wanted to be with me. His relationships never last, which bugs me, cos he will continue to say he loves me, but he gets with someone else, and i flip out. i dont know what to do and i need help ;[
31-05-2006, 07:22 PM
Nightrose

is this this matt guy u were on about?
09-06-2006, 07:28 PM
louder

Ah, two untrustworthy ******** called matt.

Ostinato (Forum Moderator) - Please don't avoid the filter.
09-06-2006, 07:47 PM
Nightrose

Lol meaning? Lol she sonly meantioned one matt there so whos the other one :P
10-06-2006, 12:00 AM
Assid_Rane

sounds like hes a player.

but if he says he loves you and u like him, ask him out. but prepare urself incase he is just after 1 thing.
13-06-2006, 07:02 PM
Nightrose

yeah becareful but nayway lunk whos the other matt?
13-06-2006, 07:20 PM
Charlie

He could be lying to you, so he could maybe use you on the rebound after he's dumped or maybe when he's not with anyone.

But on the other hand, he could mean it, and he's just using the others.
13-06-2006, 09:58 PM
Ostinato

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vicks!

Theres this boy i like yeh, and he says he loves me, but he's always with someone else, we sometimes fight but we both like each-other but we've been together once and he always says he loves me..
He lies about alot of things. and i dont know whether to accept it as the truth or not.
He says lots of family members die, and i give him sympathy and stuff but in a way i dont believe him..
Yesterday he said he loved me so much and that he wanted to be with me. His relationships never last, which bugs me, cos he will continue to say he loves me, but he gets with someone else, and i flip out. i dont know what to do and i need help ;[

Well, you know yourself, and you've made it clear you don't even trust this character just now when your not going out with him, and his reputation speaks for itself. I say go with your instincts. If your doubting him at this stage, how do you expect to have an effective relationship when your always going to be worried he's with some other girl?

Hold off and get someone you know you can trust and who will make you happy.
13-06-2006, 10:28 PM
Golden.Hawk

some times guys are like that, they say one thing but does another, sometimes they lie to get comfort, but he could be telling the true, every1 tells a white lie but if this guy is lying about family members dying then hes just sick and not worth bothering about.

So.dam.cute17
14-06-2006, 02:16 PM
Craig

He is lying to you. I don't know him but I know he is. He does not love you and he doesn't know the true meaning of love if he is mis-using it as often as you described. If he truly loved you he wouldn't be with someone else all the time and would spend the majority of his time with you. He might just be using you for either sexual wants or to enlarge his ego or to fill an unusual desire but to me it sounds like he is not only using you but continuously lying to you aswell. Try and stay away from him and his deceitful lies as he will only cause you pain.