New Girlfriend

Well I was on a school trip and me and this girl started to have some feelings and you know one thing led to another, so I am sitting there on the bed with her and we are having a long french kiss, and she tells me she is still going out with someone. :o

I was clueless:s, what do i do, the next day she dumps the guy and me and her are now going out, but i dont know what to do, should i stay with her or what????

Any help would be great!

Moved by Ostinato (Forum Moderator) from Teen Life. Please post in the correct forum

It's up to you, if you have strong feelings about her, then i'd say stay, it depends on how you both feel about being together, and with what happened.

I would say stay together if you;
1. Have strong feelings for her.
2. Want to be together.
3. If she wants to, and has strong feelings.
4. Feel comfortable with her after what happened.

If you feel strange being with her after knowing she was still going out with someone whilst kissing you, ect, then sit down with her and tell her you feel strange about it, and feel uncomfortable, try and sort things out if you want it to work.

Its up to you what you do, hope i helped in someway. <3

If you love her yes.
If you don't no.

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Originally Posted by Cassie.

If you love her yes.
If you don't no.

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Or for the short term of my post, what cassie said. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by -Illusions

Or for the short term of my post, what cassie said. :rolleyes:

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lmao i like to be simple :]

That happened to me before i didnt no she had bf and that.
I think you shud tell her how u feel about this though and that and make sure you like each other a decent amount ^^ But on prob is and i found this as well is as she nvr told u about her bf wat if she does same to you. But i do not know her and if u trust her or not. and basicly wats been said above ^^
if i havnt basicly said that O_o

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Originally Posted by Cassie.

lmao i like to be simple :]

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So i see :rolleyes:

well is she a good kisser?

if yeah stay with her [:

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Originally Posted by Will-der-beast

Well I was on a school trip and me and this girl started to have some feelings and you know one thing led to another, so I am sitting there on the bed with her and we are having a long french kiss, and she tells me she is still going out with someone. :o

I was clueless:s, what do i do, the next day she dumps the guy and me and her are now going out, but i dont know what to do, should i stay with her or what????

Any help would be great!

Moved by Ostinato (Forum Moderator) from Teen Life. Please post in the correct forum

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Hmmm well... although she was with the guy, she did dump him for you in the end...

However, being with her whilst she was with someone else, will ultimately give you the fear that if she can do that once to her ex boyfriend - what's stopping her do that to you?!

If you think your feelings for each other are strong enough and you think your relationship could go somewhere and it's worth a try, I'd say go for it, afterall she did end with someone for you!

Thanks for the help I will make a decision soon.