Complicated Curiosity

I just got over someone who i like who didnt even like my as a friend! which was making me very upset and depressed. but now im begining to like one of my good friends. and ever since i did she just seems more...liking me too! for example.. at lunch i was lying down on the grass cause i was tired and she comes and sits on me like on the hips...and then a friend,who was sitting next to me said "looks like your going out" i dunno if she heard that but she wouldnt get off. thats happened about 2 other times, she just sit on me. and we're constantly talking. one of my friends said that we are always talking. also i just had a msn convo with her right now and shes like:
"its over"
"whats over"
"us...lol"
i rekn she was joking around but i dunno. she always says she loves me and so on but its always followed by like "haha" or "lol"
we really seem to connect!
I guess what im asking is should i move on from this curiosity or do something about it and what. if your like unsure just put yourself in my shoes.

i just realise my friends may think we're a thing...they dont kno im bi

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I just got over someone who i like who didnt even like my as a friend! which was making me very upset and depressed. but now im begining to like one of my good friends. and ever since i did she just seems more...liking me too! for example.. at lunch i was lying down on the grass cause i was tired and she comes and sits on me like on the hips...and then a friend,who was sitting next to me said "looks like your going out" i dunno if she heard that but she wouldnt get off. thats happened about 2 other times, she just sit on me. and we're constantly talking. one of my friends said that we are always talking. also i just had a msn convo with her right now and shes like:
"its over"
"whats over"
"us...lol"
i rekn she was joking around but i dunno. she always says she loves me and so on but its always followed by like "haha" or "lol"
we really seem to connect!
I guess what im asking is should i move on from this curiosity or do something about it and what. if your like unsure just put yourself in my shoes.

i just realise my friends may think we're a thing...they dont kno im bi

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Hmmm tricky. She coudl actually really like you and want something out of it, or it could all just be fooling around and if you acted upon it you could ruin your friendship for good...

Personally, I think you should bide your time and just watch her moves closely. If she still seems to be flirting with you etc. you could respond in a similar way and give her the come on, but then if like your worried she was only joking - ensure she knows you were too and you were only playing around.

Whatever you do, don't go rushing into something, as like you say your finally just getting over someone and your still 'on the rebound'. Just see how things go, and if you still maybe think she likes you, you could just go for it, but DON'T RUSH INTO THINGS! <3 :P

"just watch her moves closely." you said...

Ok i took your advice, WHICH WAS SO GOOD so + rep coming ya way....
Anyway, today i was sitting with everyone and she was sitting next to me and she leaned on me and put her hand on top of my leg and i just ignored it cause i was to scared to pay attention and then she took my hand and got some ribbon thing and tied our hands together and i was just trying so hard not to get red in the face i forgot i was looking at her and she just stared back until someone asked me something. later on when we untied our hands and the end of lunch bell rang we both got up and held both each others hands and sorta just blurred out until i got pushed by a friend.

I sure hope she isnt joking cause this is so different to my other crushs response.

What should i do? should i try and get allown time or still bide my time?


Arg! your advice is to good! lol anyone else got advice for me cause it would help sooooo much:)

Hmm, if she is still acting very flirtacious then maybe on msn or whever you chat to her, just ask her about it. Just ask, explain that you've picked up on a few things and you wanna understand what's going on with you both.. i'm guessing it doesn't bother you? If they say nothing, then at least you know - if they do like you, then well, you'll be able to discuss what happens - it sounds all very flirtacious to me.. but then again she could just be overly friendly, either way it's best to clear the air, so just chat to them. You sound like good mates, so hopefully they will understand.

Difficult situation. I know a lot of girls who are like the friend you mentioned - flirty, say "I love you" a lot, act like a lover to their close girly-chums.. However, it often means they want to get in the pants of the person they're being flirty with. Does this girl have a reputation for having flings? If she does then it's likely she's just after your hands and tongue (and whatever lurks hidden in your drawers), but if she's only really like this with you, it could well be that she really does like you.

Either way, she's probably wet and willing, so give her a go.

At first i thought she was just over friendly like you said flyingjesus and just thought that she just did it to everyone. but last night i was on the phone to her and i was slow close to telling her cause she said:
"why cant you tell me, does it involve me?"
and i said:
"it does sort of involve you but i cant say cause it might affect everyone in a way"
I just wanted to tell her so badly it was killing me.
Today at lunch she told me to go with her to see a teacher cause she also wanted to tell me something.
After she finished, i was sitting outside waiting and she came up to me and i cant remember cause it was such a blur but she leaned into my ear and said "i love you" and shivers ran down my spine. she then walked away, i chased after to her and said :
"haha but you always say that"
and she replied:
"yer but with a passion and i mean it"
She then gave me a hug and walked away back to where our group was and acted like nothing happened. :s so i just left it at that...
i just thought id tell you because it feels like all your advices helped me and i thank you :)

i dont really vist this side of the forum but thought i might...
yer so anyways i rekon shes over doing the friend thing and you could get a bad reaction if you told her. so your loves just a waste

Did you post this in the wrong section? Are you male or female?

female:rolleyes: