Men problem...

Okai, i need a little advice.
Im currently "seeing" this guy Tom, who lives about an hour and a half away from me. He stayed down mine a couple of days last week and i was going to go up this weekend to his...

Anyway, today he rang me saying not to come up as he has no money, he was real sweet about it and was saying how he would come up to see me in in a couple of weeks on my birthday...
We were going to go out in Swindon clubbing and i have no money anyway plus i start work Monday so in ways im quite relieved to not be going out on a big night.

Hmm, the only thing is, i do really wan't to see him, we had a conversation earlier and everything was fine but since i got off the phone too him, i can't stop thinking about it.
Anyway, shall i ring him back up tomorrow and see if he wants me to come down and watch a Dvd or does that make me look desprate... or do you reckon he's just making excuses and actually really doesn't wan't to see me? Hmm help? <3

nah, sounds like hes a genuine guy, and really likes u.

u should phone him yeah, it wont make u look desperate, just interested.

im wonderin, because poeple round here say that if your "seeing" someone, you can also "see" other people. is that what you two have?

just go for it, phone him and tell him how u feel about it all.

Ta babe, i rang him tonight. And yeh, thats pretty much what seeing someone is round here!! +Rep for your help :]

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Originally Posted by Bef

Okai, i need a little advice.
Im currently "seeing" this guy Tom, who lives about an hour and a half away from me. He stayed down mine a couple of days last week and i was going to go up this weekend to his...

Anyway, today he rang me saying not to come up as he has no money, he was real sweet about it and was saying how he would come up to see me in in a couple of weeks on my birthday...
We were going to go out in Swindon clubbing and i have no money anyway plus i start work Monday so in ways im quite relieved to not be going out on a big night.

Hmm, the only thing is, i do really wan't to see him, we had a conversation earlier and everything was fine but since i got off the phone too him, i can't stop thinking about it.
Anyway, shall i ring him back up tomorrow and see if he wants me to come down and watch a Dvd or does that make me look desprate... or do you reckon he's just making excuses and actually really doesn't wan't to see me? Hmm help? <3

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Aw, yeh he does seem quite a genuine guy! Instead of having to do stuff that's gonna cost you both money, why don't you just do things that you don't need to pay for but can still enjoy being with? Like you said, watching a DVD! :] I say you just phone him aswell, don't leave it to him always phoning you. :]

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Originally Posted by Assid_Rane

nah, sounds like hes a genuine guy, and really likes u.

u should phone him yeah, it wont make u look desperate, just interested.

im wonderin, because poeple round here say that if your "seeing" someone, you can also "see" other people. is that what you two have?

just go for it, phone him and tell him how u feel about it all.

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Lol yeh, it's basically a relationship with no strings attached, to allow you to get to know the person better before you commit to them.

yer bef ring him
and use ur sexy voice
and say
hey baby
wana come for a dvd... wink wink ;);) oioi

Hes cheating on you... kill him.

Not really, he sounds nice. Sleep with him.