Help.

Ok, so we got this trip to Germany coming up (It's with the school)

All of my mates are on the reserve list, and I'm on the list to go.
But I really want to go, but all my mates have to wait until someone drops out, but if i go, i'll have to go with no mates. And there is a load of Year 10's going as well, and i get really self concious lmao.

What should I do?

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Originally Posted by Neurotic

Ok, so we got this trip to Germany coming up (It's with the school)

All of my mates are on the reserve list, and I'm on the list to go.
But I really want to go, but all my mates have to wait until someone drops out, but if i go, i'll have to go with no mates. And there is a load of Year 10's going as well, and i get really self concious lmao.

What should I do?

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Well there's a good chance that one of them might eventually get on, so you should just wait and hope for the best. There's nothing you can do to make them go or anything, but I strongly advise you just to go even if your friends arn't.

You'll be in an environment where you'll be forced to make new friends, but it'll come easily, and honestly - not everyone out there is big and bad and once you start talking to people etc. you'll find it easier and be able to hang around with some new people there. :]

Also, if your going with the school, I presume you'll be doing a lot of group activities and stuff anyway, so it's not as though you'll be sitting on your own! ;] :]

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Originally Posted by Ostinato

Well there's a good chance that one of them might eventually get on, so you should just wait and hope for the best. There's nothing you can do to make them go or anything, but I strongly advise you just to go even if your friends arn't.

You'll be in an environment where you'll be forced to make new friends, but it'll come easily, and honestly - not everyone out there is big and bad and once you start talking to people etc. you'll find it easier and be able to hang around with some new people there. :]

Also, if your going with the school, I presume you'll be doing a lot of group activities and stuff anyway, so it's not as though you'll be sitting on your own! ;] :]

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I'm still having doubts :S

If i was in your position, i wouldnt go unless at least one of my friends was coming with me, sorry if it doesn't help but, its what i would do <3.

Yeah, I'm having second thoughts,

Id go, but i don't have a problom talking to new people etc. Id go for the experience of being in Germany, myself. If you don't you might regret it. If you do go and none of your mates can go then ul b there for a week, u might not have as good a time on your own but itl b a week or w.e and i reckon ud enjoy it.

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Originally Posted by Bef

Id go, but i don't have a problom talking to new people etc. Id go for the experience of being in Germany, myself. If you don't you might regret it. If you do go and none of your mates can go then ul b there for a week, u might not have as good a time on your own but itl b a week or w.e and i reckon ud enjoy it.

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Lmao, it's overnight :rolleyes:

+rep to everyone who replied thanks!

I'll go if you wont :D
I've been in a similar situation. I had to go on a french camp and I was only kind friends with one person going. To cut a long story short I had the best time and made new friends. Take a chance =)

how long untill you go? if its quite a long time there is a good chance one of your friends will make it on the list.

I think you should go for it!

Well the paymet closed two weeks on friday