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Well im gay and i really want to tell my friends.. but im scared to.
there mostly chavs but [im not one] and im scared to tell them just incase
they say stuff like "batty boy" and "Queery" but ive told my friends who are emos. and they dont mind but its just the chavs and im really worried in what they might think. help?
Imo, don't tell them until you're ready, and until you know for a fact they have grown out of that phase.
Read my sig, someone once told me that a good few years ago when i cared what people thought about me. I live by that rule now, it works for me. <3
Don't tell them if your scared to. You have to be 100% confident and if your not then leave it. Tell them when you are ready.
kill urself i know i would if i was gay
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At the end of the day if they were truly your friends they would accept you for who you are, and if they don't then I wouldn't bother with them, Its up to you when you tell them, but just remember don't worry what other think, its your life not theirs.
Tell them they may reject you for a few days or even a few weeks but soon they will relize you where when they didn;t know and you still are so they can deal with it
You should never be friends with people, who aren't willing to accept you for who you truly are. Tell them, if they start being immature, you be the mature one and walk away, feeling proud about who you are. No one, should ever make you ashamed to be who you are, absoloutly no one, you live once, so enjoy life, that means being yourself. Good luck.
I like Bef's signature :)
If you aren't sure about their reaction, leave it a while. You shouldn't have to 'come out' if you aren't 100% confident, as someone said.
Maybe you could bring up something about homosexuality, and see their response? Look out for a storyline, or a documentry on tele and ask them if they saw it, what they thought, get an idea of their thought on the subject.
Being honest, i would be a little suprised if one of my mates told me he was gay, but i wouldnt call him and stuff. If they are realy your mates, they wont mind. Spose it would be cool having a gay mate, could tell you about girls and stuff rofl.