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Friends
Ok well i have 3 friends at school everythings good with them if were seperate like me and one friend or me and other etc but when they get together like at lunch or something they all gang up on me and start talking very nasty and vulgar things bout me and stuff i usually ignore them or say yeah sure and their like OMG!!! he said yeah!!!! i want them to stop i tried talking to one of them but they just laugh at me
what should i do iam kinda shy and i dont wanna be a loner if i stop hanging with them
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I'd say it's probably in your best interest to tell them that you don't like it in private.
You say that you get along with each one individually, so when you are all hanging out individually, use that as an oppurtunity to express your feelings.
If your friends continue to bully you in such a fashion even after you told them how you feel, they aren't your real friends, and you'd probably be better off finding new ones :-)
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They don't seem like true friends to me. Sometimes people do it to try and make themselves feel better, or because of competition. They probably know you won't say anything back, so therefore they know they can get away with it, maybe just tell them each privately how its making you feel, and friends don't do that to eachother, if they carry on to do it, find other people to hang around with.
I hope that helps:D
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I know what you mean, mate. My advice is really to ignore them. You still have fun together, and it's only occasionally that they start being mean, isn't it?
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try and make some new friends and when u do put them 3 WAY out of your life.
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I used to be in this position. And it was exactly like this. I ended up stop hanging with them and I must admit, i was a loner. I then started hanging out with "the uncool people" in the eyes of my ex mates and now life is grrrreat :)