Help..?

Well my dad isnt around for me much, i see him like once every 1 - 2 months the rest of the time he is out the country. i dont live with him i live with my mum and like we was expecting him to ring on xmas day to wish us a happy xmas etc, instead he rang up at 3am drunk givin me greif and stating my problems ;ll he does this alot, its just the fact its xmas which annoyd me the most. i said to my mum i dont wana talk or have anything to do with him ever again. she said thats up to you but i would stay in contact with him if i was you. anyone know what i shud do?

I can understand why you said that you don't want anthing to do with him, but you wil lregret it amte, so DON'T lose contact.

because hes useless as a father, when he says to my mum were guna do sumfin tgeva, we usually go gokarting and he sits in the car on the fone while im in side on go karts. Then wen we do talk he just picks faults

My advice would be just to tell him how you feel, then see what he says, and then if he isn't going to change how he talks/behaves towards you, then consider having nothing to do with him, although I would suggest you don't 'disown' him.

k , well after he rang yestday my sister told him to ring back tomorrow which is today now and he hasnt rang back. yeah im guna let him know how i feel but yestday really annoyd me and spoilt christmas day for me.
Thanks for your help matee

i don't think you should be asking a forum about what to do. this decision will probably change your life, so just have a damn good think about it.

i spose , i just want a few other peoples inputs

**** him, if you break contact with him for a bit he's more likely to get the message that he's losing his son.

cold shoulder for a few months. make him crawl back