Little rant >.>

Ok well you may think oh oh hes ungrateful... well im not im thankful for the many things i have but well lets just start;

• When going into year 7 i got eczema really bad all over my body, which i then took 4months off of school (It was extremely bad with puss coming out and you could hardly make out my face, also my cheeks were pink and im asian >.<). But i still have it just not as bad, but still pretty bad with occasional kids going EWWWWWW and ERRRRR when they see me.
• Then i get bullied everyday of my frickin life by my so called friends and some actually physical ¬.¬
• Then at my house, the friends i have known for 5-10years of my life, dont even knock out for me to go outside with them, like they just play out anyway, althought not saying they all do, just 2 of em out of about 5.. Although i probaly wouldn't go out anyway because of my eczema recently getting worse.. but thats about it
• Then im off school today coz im just.. ill but not too bothered about that.. everyone gets it.

And theres my little rant.. just needed to get some stuff off my chest..

Maybe talk to your parents/guardian about how you feel? That might make you feel better, telling someone you know everything so they know how you feel. I'd also suggest staying away from the so called "friends" of yours. They can't be real mates if they emotionally & physically abuse you. Find some real mates who like you for who you are & don't make you feel how you do at he moment.
I hope you feel better soon :)

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Originally Posted by :Hazel

Maybe talk to your parents/guardian about how you feel? That might make you feel better, telling someone you know everything so they know how you feel. I'd also suggest staying away from the so called "friends" of yours. They can't be real mates if they emotionally & physically abuse you. Find some real mates who like you for who you are & don't make you feel how you do at he moment.
I hope you feel better soon :)

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Thanks, i've talked to my mum as my dad don't live with me and i got a counsellor and stuff but.. i dno.. :s My so called friends well there is really no one else to hang around with, although there is one friend but he hangs around with them, its pretty hard..

Also i forgot to mention im a late grower and my bones are like 4/5years slow so really im the size of a 7/8 year old.. which is alright for that age >.< but thats what they really tease me about, my height and as im not strong enough to do much back, i can't, i mean i've told them to back off when they have abused me but its like they have the memory span of a fly, althought sometimes i just kick them really hard in the leg and you can tell they get a bit of a limp and i know violence isn't good but its the only way.. and my mum has tried telling the school today, they said they would ring back (i was up til like 1am last night talking..)

Thanks for the help anyway ^^

Kids can be cruel, you just need to try and ignore the stupid little comments about your height and exzama.

Tell a teacher about the bullies, otherwise it'll just carry on and on.

Good luck :)

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Originally Posted by -:Undertaker:-

Kids can be cruel, you just need to try and ignore the stupid little comments about your height and exzama.

Tell a teacher about the bullies, otherwise it'll just carry on and on.

Good luck :)

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ty and my mum rang the school as i said and told my tutor and said he sounded really angry, also its hard to ignore, especially when its physical so... lets just hope it stops

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Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo

ty and my mum rang the school as i said and told my tutor and said he sounded really angry, also its hard to ignore, especially when its physical so... lets just hope it stops

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Physical abuse really shouldn't be and isn't tolerated in today's society. Therefore, you have no reason to stand for it and if you and/or your parents do speak to your school about it I guarantee it would come to end eventually.

I understand what it's like to have skin problems such as eczema, as I had a small suffering of it when I was a child myself - although not as bad as in your case - but I understand how it can get you down. I also have a friend who has an extremely bad case of eczema so I definitely know just how it can drag people down. However, you really just need to look above it.

The way I, and my friend, see it - is it's just a wee skin disorder that you really shouldn't effect your life. Who cares if you look a bit different from other kids. The chances are you will grow out of it as you get older, as me and many other people I know have. Also there are many anti-inflammatory creams available now which you could use to help reduce it also.

I really wouldn't worry too much about it and just try and forget about it. If other kids say stuff to you, try and ignore that also. I know it must be hard, but if people have to bring up problems with you then their obviously pretty insecure themselves as they need to try and bring other people down!

I know you have a few negative aspects in your life at the moment, but try and dig deep and look at all the positives you have to. Security in a great home, a family who love you... there's a lot of things that matter more! ;)

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Originally Posted by Ostinato

Physical abuse really shouldn't be and isn't tolerated in today's society. Therefore, you have no reason to stand for it and if you and/or your parents do speak to your school about it I guarantee it would come to end eventually.

I understand what it's like to have skin problems such as eczema, as I had a small suffering of it when I was a child myself - although not as bad as in your case - but I understand how it can get you down. I also have a friend who has an extremely bad case of eczema so I definitely know just how it can drag people down. However, you really just need to look above it.

The way I, and my friend, see it - is it's just a wee skin disorder that you really shouldn't effect your life. Who cares if you look a bit different from other kids. The chances are you will grow out of it as you get older, as me and many other people I know have. Also there are many anti-inflammatory creams available now which you could use to help reduce it also.

I really wouldn't worry too much about it and just try and forget about it. If other kids say stuff to you, try and ignore that also. I know it must be hard, but if people have to bring up problems with you then their obviously pretty insecure themselves as they need to try and bring other people down!

I know you have a few negative aspects in your life at the moment, but try and dig deep and look at all the positives you have to. Security in a great home, a family who love you... there's a lot of things that matter more! ;)

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Yeah i know what you mean and thanks for the advice, i probaly will grow out of it and i am going to end up growing to a normal height (Predicted 6"2) and well the ppl will end up being dealt with, its just a matter of time, and yeah i have a nice family who love me, im in a good situation at school in terms of work and nothing extremely bad has happened to anyone im close to and no1 i no have died.. so i am pretty lucky but also unlucky, so yeah +rep aswell ostinato my.. big helper xD

Talk with your parents first. If you don't feel comfortable with it, call a helpline like Childline