Little Stuck?

At my school my year (8) is split in half. We barely ever see the other half and don't have class's with them or anything.

Well anyway at lunch time today. This stupid female dog came over and began calling my mate small so I stuck up and said 'Well you ain't exackly normal you have eyes like a frog'. Everyone takes the mick out of her for having frog eyes and she's all in your face... She started having a huge go at me until some senior management in my school told her to calm down. She was stood there like Cathetine Tate would in your face 'OH YOU THINK IT'S FUNNY DO YOU? IT'S NOT MY FAULT I'M FROG IS IT? SO FUNNY AIN'T IT? NOT' and she was stood there for 5 mins shouting like hell at me right in my face. I was just laughing it was so funny and just trying to pee her off since she was beginning to dis me and I don't like people in my face, and it wasn't a situation I could walk away from. So I just stood there and smiled and began waving, lol it really annoyed her as she was expecting me to be upset.

Anyway then she gets took away, end of it I thought (and hoped!). But she walks across the playground and starts shouting 'WHAT YOU LAUGHING AT ME FOR?!! WHY YOU STARING?!' I didn't even look at her ugly face nor was I laughing at her but some good mates. She's in the other half of year and they seem to treat her like a queen though she's so moody and mean to people. So she had her gang of chavs round her then my mate laughs at them and says 'WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?' I said... 'He's Anthony' and he turns round at headbuts me, it wasn't very hard, it wasn't intended to be I don't think and then he put my mate in a headlock and punched him but we managed to free him.

Then later on he started running after us etc. And after PE I'm walking home, and everyone on the other half of the year is like 'WHY ARE YOU TAKING THE MICK OUT OF AMY AND LAUGHING? SHE'S REALLY UPSET? YOUR GONNA GET SO BEAT UP TOMORROW?'

They're all just picking fights and I'm not exackly a fighting kind of person so I'd end up getting beat up probably. What to do? Run away? Tell of them? Hope it doesn't happen? Or just stand there and shout abuse back saying how me and my mate hasn't done anything. Confusing really, just I'm not sure what to do tomorrow really...

aha the thread title sounds a bit rude..

and you should make it look like you're not worried about it, because chances are nothing will happen, these things never do.

That's confusuing lol, we've got people like that at my school and most of what they say is crap, meaning they don't actually do what they say they're gunna do. So you could just hope that this is the case...

Personally i think what you should be doing is alerting the teachers of this behavior. Inform them of whats going on whats happened how it started etc. Yes you may get into trouble for it but all actions have consequences and if you do this it may not be as bad in the long run. Plus if its a school where bullying is NOT tollertated wht so ever then this will probably be the end of it.

HOWEVER

I dont suggest you do this unless you completely have to ;) But if your on your own and no one else is around to help you out your kinda stuck unless you leg it. But chances are as soon as you stand up to them itll be like O CRAP DANZ HE STOOD UP TO US BRO WOT WE DO NOW?!?!?! an probably back down. but if you run itll be like LOL AT THT WIMP LETS GET HIM 2MO and keep going on.


Kay this is where my experience comes up in this.

I r got in a fight and i never been in one before ye? So i was like o shizniz wht i do? And then i got punched in the face a couple of times.

Dont worry about tht if you get hit you pretty much wont feel it your adrenalin will take over and before you know it youll pretty much k0ed the kid whos starting on you.


I apoligise for my grammer slang etc i just find it easier to explain / type this way :)

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Originally Posted by Jordy

At my school my year (8) is split in half. We barely ever see the other half and don't have class's with them or anything.

Well anyway at lunch time today. This stupid female dog came over and began calling my mate small so I stuck up and said 'Well you ain't exackly normal you have eyes like a frog'. Everyone takes the mick out of her for having frog eyes and she's all in your face... She started having a huge go at me until some senior management in my school told her to calm down. She was stood there like Cathetine Tate would in your face 'OH YOU THINK IT'S FUNNY DO YOU? IT'S NOT MY FAULT I'M FROG IS IT? SO FUNNY AIN'T IT? NOT' and she was stood there for 5 mins shouting like hell at me right in my face. I was just laughing it was so funny and just trying to pee her off since she was beginning to dis me and I don't like people in my face, and it wasn't a situation I could walk away from. So I just stood there and smiled and began waving, lol it really annoyed her as she was expecting me to be upset.

Anyway then she gets took away, end of it I thought (and hoped!). But she walks across the playground and starts shouting 'WHAT YOU LAUGHING AT ME FOR?!! WHY YOU STARING?!' I didn't even look at her ugly face nor was I laughing at her but some good mates. She's in the other half of year and they seem to treat her like a queen though she's so moody and mean to people. So she had her gang of chavs round her then my mate laughs at them and says 'WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?' I said... 'He's Anthony' and he turns round at headbuts me, it wasn't very hard, it wasn't intended to be I don't think and then he put my mate in a headlock and punched him but we managed to free him.

Then later on he started running after us etc. And after PE I'm walking home, and everyone on the other half of the year is like 'WHY ARE YOU TAKING THE MICK OUT OF AMY AND LAUGHING? SHE'S REALLY UPSET? YOUR GONNA GET SO BEAT UP TOMORROW?'

They're all just picking fights and I'm not exackly a fighting kind of person so I'd end up getting beat up probably. What to do? Run away? Tell of them? Hope it doesn't happen? Or just stand there and shout abuse back saying how me and my mate hasn't done anything. Confusing really, just I'm not sure what to do tomorrow really...

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I wonder which school you go to in nottingham heh. I'd just leave them alone, don't make eye contact.

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Originally Posted by Jordy

At my school my year (8) is split in half. We barely ever see the other half and don't have class's with them or anything.

Well anyway at lunch time today. This stupid female dog came over and began calling my mate small so I stuck up and said 'Well you ain't exackly normal you have eyes like a frog'. Everyone takes the mick out of her for having frog eyes and she's all in your face... She started having a huge go at me until some senior management in my school told her to calm down. She was stood there like Cathetine Tate would in your face 'OH YOU THINK IT'S FUNNY DO YOU? IT'S NOT MY FAULT I'M FROG IS IT? SO FUNNY AIN'T IT? NOT' and she was stood there for 5 mins shouting like hell at me right in my face. I was just laughing it was so funny and just trying to pee her off since she was beginning to dis me and I don't like people in my face, and it wasn't a situation I could walk away from. So I just stood there and smiled and began waving, lol it really annoyed her as she was expecting me to be upset.

Anyway then she gets took away, end of it I thought (and hoped!). But she walks across the playground and starts shouting 'WHAT YOU LAUGHING AT ME FOR?!! WHY YOU STARING?!' I didn't even look at her ugly face nor was I laughing at her but some good mates. She's in the other half of year and they seem to treat her like a queen though she's so moody and mean to people. So she had her gang of chavs round her then my mate laughs at them and says 'WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?' I said... 'He's Anthony' and he turns round at headbuts me, it wasn't very hard, it wasn't intended to be I don't think and then he put my mate in a headlock and punched him but we managed to free him.

Then later on he started running after us etc. And after PE I'm walking home, and everyone on the other half of the year is like 'WHY ARE YOU TAKING THE MICK OUT OF AMY AND LAUGHING? SHE'S REALLY UPSET? YOUR GONNA GET SO BEAT UP TOMORROW?'

They're all just picking fights and I'm not exackly a fighting kind of person so I'd end up getting beat up probably. What to do? Run away? Tell of them? Hope it doesn't happen? Or just stand there and shout abuse back saying how me and my mate hasn't done anything. Confusing really, just I'm not sure what to do tomorrow really...

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Well you've got yourself into a bit of a mess!

You definitely should not fight back, as it only will make the matter worse and then you will get into trouble as well. And running away from it isn't the answer either as you need to face up to your problems.

there's a good chance this might have blown over anyway, but if not just face up to it. Don't argue back and don't get involved with it. Try and walk away and if they are shouting stuff, just say it that it's nothing to do with them and if Amy is so upset she should come to you and deal with it herself and sort it out face to face.

You could even try and seek Amy out yourself, and just say to her your sorry about the frog comment but you were really annoyed about how she came into your face and was starting with your friends. At the end of the day, although she said some stuff about your friend - you calling her names back was never going to achieve anything, and as you have seen it has only added fire to the fuel.

Use this as a learning experience, and make sure you now realise that 2 wrongs simply don't make a right. If a similar situation where to occur you would do better standing up for your mates in a more calm and relaxed way, and just tell the person they have no right to say anything. If they have anymore issues then I'd suggest telling a teacher.

Pop eyes frog call her.

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Originally Posted by Ostinato

Well you've got yourself into a bit of a mess!

You definitely should not fight back, as it only will make the matter worse and then you will get into trouble as well. And running away from it isn't the answer either as you need to face up to your problems.

there's a good chance this might have blown over anyway, but if not just face up to it. Don't argue back and don't get involved with it. Try and walk away and if they are shouting stuff, just say it that it's nothing to do with them and if Amy is so upset she should come to you and deal with it herself and sort it out face to face.

You could even try and seek Amy out yourself, and just say to her your sorry about the frog comment but you were really annoyed about how she came into your face and was starting with your friends. At the end of the day, although she said some stuff about your friend - you calling her names back was never going to achieve anything, and as you have seen it has only added fire to the fuel.

Use this as a learning experience, and make sure you now realise that 2 wrongs simply don't make a right. If a similar situation where to occur you would do better standing up for your mates in a more calm and relaxed way, and just tell the person they have no right to say anything. If they have anymore issues then I'd suggest telling a teacher.

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easier said then done.

Hmmmm bit of a hard problem there... its either tell someone and get even more hurt... or try and stick up for yourself and try and sort it out yourself. I wouldnt even try and suggest anything to you because i dont know what she/ her friends are like.

I just wish you the best :D

Just ignore them.