Hes Not Commited

Well Im Currently Going Out With A Boy, Hes Called Andy ..
But Im Not Sure Whether He Is Totally Commited to our relationship , lately ive noticed we're arent spendin any tyym together [&&] hes always owt wit his mates,,
lyyk i no for a fact if you are together with sum1 u should be wit them,,
so i see him at school [&&] everyting but its just not enough
i never see him outside of school and he never replies to my texts ..
if i ring him he says he cant tlk cause hes busy doin somethin or jus abowt to go owt ..

yh and lately hes been flirtin with a few ova girlz ..
i mean i no he cnt help it coz sum ppl jus have a flirty nature lyyk that but it sometyyms upsets me u no, coz he doesnt realise hes doin it [&&] he does it infront of me ..
he loves me [&&] i no it.. i just wish there was a way to solve my problem, i want to be with him for longer than jus 2 months y'noo .. [&&] i want him to realise that im sad abowt it, and that he shud control his flirty nature.
yeh so plzz help ;]

[lately ive realised on this forum there are many ppl that dnt lyk the way i type, well jus for them i typed witowt capitalz lmao :P but plz dnt moan abowt tha in this thread coz i need help .. so tankiesss ;]] ]

xox
Briony .. <3 *

Yous your own advice...

http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=347612

Best thing to do... Tell him how you feel, and if he cares about you he will understand and listen to you!

Tell him what you think the problem is and how you acn sort it out ...

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Originally Posted by Kittii

Well Im Currently Going Out With A Boy, Hes Called Andy ..
But Im Not Sure Whether He Is Totally Commited to our relationship , lately ive noticed we're arent spendin any tyym together [&&] hes always owt wit his mates,,
lyyk i no for a fact if you are together with sum1 u should be wit them,,
so i see him at school [&&] everyting but its just not enough
i never see him outside of school and he never replies to my texts ..
if i ring him he says he cant tlk cause hes busy doin somethin or jus abowt to go owt ..

yh and lately hes been flirtin with a few ova girlz ..
i mean i no he cnt help it coz sum ppl jus have a flirty nature lyyk that but it sometyyms upsets me u no, coz he doesnt realise hes doin it [&&] he does it infront of me ..
he loves me [&&] i no it.. i just wish there was a way to solve my problem, i want to be with him for longer than jus 2 months y'noo .. [&&] i want him to realise that im sad abowt it, and that he shud control his flirty nature.
yeh so plzz help ;]

[lately ive realised on this forum there are many ppl that dnt lyk the way i type, well jus for them i typed witowt capitalz lmao :P but plz dnt moan abowt tha in this thread coz i need help .. so tankiesss ;]] ]

xox
Briony .. <3 *

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Communication is the key to any successful relationship, tell him how you feel and work at it, if he isn't willing to change his ways to improve the relationship your better off without him.

tbh that's what put me of dating people from school. girls always expect lads to be with them 24/7. when you're at school you should be hanging about with your mates, playing footbal or whatever you wish to spend your time doing.

give him some time to himself and don't be so greedy! he needs his friends aswell as you.

You could:

• Talk to him about it
• Flirt with other guys in front of him- he'll eventually confront you first and you may find it easier to say what you want

It's really your decision.
We're opinions, not demands or influences.

I would say I am quite flirty- but never when i'm with my girlfriend.
Me & my girlfriend now joke about other people we see.

If I see a girl, I tell my girlfriend she looks nice.
My girlfriend then goes off on a rant about her bad points.
And vice versa with guys!

He could be looking for reasons for you to break up with him.
But he could be scared of doing it or looking the bad one.

Let us know how it goes!

To sort it out you have to talk but to be honest if your saying hes not commited & is flirting with others he might want to be single therefore there isnt alot of point really is there?

As u said he probly isnt aware that hes doing it, I think that when you two come together like goin out somewer u should just speak to him and say how you feel, dont feel shy or anything as he probly would understand and you two could find a solution together.. Dont wori too much bout it ;)

Baris //