i dno..

so like, yesterday i went over to my friends house before me & her went to a gig.
so anyway, she was telling me what happened at a party she went to (like what one of the other girls did) and she told me to go through her chatlog with the girl to see what she said, so i opened the chatlog, and i was reading through it and there was like this whole log about me, like those two ******** about me?
the girl i was with was like "oh i'm so sorry, really, truly." and i was like it's fine, it's okay.
but it's really not. it's ****** me off & ****, that two girls who i thought were like supposedly some of my best friends have been ******** about me (for the way i look, ha).

anyway, it's really gotten to me. and although one of the girls i don't have to see anymore after my gcses since she's going to a different college, the girl i was with is going to my sixth form, but i don't feel like i can trust her.

i hate confrontation. but d'ya think it'd be better to tell her it's upset me, or just pretend it never happened. aha, im confused.

I'd confront her tbh.

I'd say something like 'Why was you doing it in the first place?'. See her side first.


I wouldn't go off at her straight away. She had the decency to show you the log and apologise.

Hmm tricky. Be thankful she showed you the log and wasn't two faced. She could of easily not mentioned it and been as happy as anything with you then next day (unless this is what you would rather it be like), so you have to thank her for that.

Just ask her why was she saying things like that and from what she answers you will know if you can trust her again.

I suppose I would be a little upset too but it's what people do I guess and we have to just let things like this pass by us and learn from them. Good luck with what you decide to do anyway.

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Originally Posted by Toughened

Hmm tricky. Be thankful she showed you the log and wasn't two faced. She could of easily not mentioned it and been as happy as anything with you then next day (unless this is what you would rather it be like), so you have to thank her for that.

Just ask her why was she saying things like that and from what she answers you will know if you can trust her again.

I suppose I would be a little upset too but it's what people do I guess and we have to just let things like this pass by us and learn from them. Good luck with what you decide to do anyway.

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the girl didn't expect her to find the chatlogs i don't think. so no, i wouldn't be thankful - she was still two faced.

bethie babes, i'd confront her and tell her that it's upset you. just make her feel bad, and don't talk to her for a bit so she confides in you, that way you may be able to trust her again in some way. don't tell her anything too personal now though, because you dont know if you can trust her.

oh & the way you look? nothing wrong, you're FIERCE babe.
x

kai this has kinda progressed now. the other girl who had been ******** about me (tasha), is close with another of my best friends called sasha. sasha commented me telling me to go break a leg, and then they all went out as a group tonight & i've been getting comments like, they'll call me a name or something & i'll ask why and they'll say;
"cause you are.
*privatejoke*"

arghh.

Sleep with all their boyfriends.

i would, if any of them had one :(

you should confront them
if you don't they'll just keep at it, if you confront them (assuming they're ******* cos they say this stuff behind ur back) they'll prob get a scare and have more respect for you :D

i'd tell them you are upset by this and that if they have a problem they should speak to you directly.

slap her. and tell her she's meant to be your friend. also make her feel real bad.