Depression

Yeah, so i've had a really crappy month, and i've been on some help forums, trying to get some sort of help, but i just can't think what to say, and i don't know what to do, and i'm desperate.

And, i know this probably seems really lame, but i seriously have no idea what to do anymore, i honestly just don't see the point in anything, and i just wanna give up, and i have no-one to turn to, to talk to or help or whatever, and i'm just so lost, and bleh.

I'm just looking for some sort of idea or help or something, and don't post really stupid things because i'm seriously not in the mood for your pathetic immature comments. This is like, a 100% serious thread, i really need something because i'm that desperate.

Anyone?

It Would Be Easier To Help If You Told Us Why You Feel Depressed Or Else The Only Kind Of Answers People Could Give Are Stupid Ones
Id Try Helping But Idk What Im Going To Try Helping With

Sorry That i Cant Help Atm ;[

I know it would be easier, but i really don't know what to say, and if i do say it, i'll be a massive long life story, i'll try anyway.

So, my girlfriend got all paranoid about this girl who likes me that i'm talking to, and just starting complaining loads and then she started threatening to leave me, this went on for hours, and then she would, but she'd come back the next day, and in a few hours, she'd be doing the same thing, and it happened for about a week, and then after that, the girl she was paranoid about, just started talking to me less, and then blaming me for not talking to her, and all this other silly stuff, and i just couldn't handle being asked all these questions, and then having her not believe my anwers.

Also, my whole relationship is internet based, and it's gotten to the point where i can't stand just talking over the internet anymore, i need to do things in real life because i've said all that i can say to her, that we need to do things in real for it to work out because we're just boring each other to death, but her mom hates me for something i did, and refuses to let my girlfriend meet me, and my parents won't let us meet unless her moms okay with it, and knows, which just makes it harder, but we're still trying to make it work, but i just wanna give up because it just seems so impossible, but i love her, even though its over the internet, so i don't wanna throw away a year long relationship, even though it's pretty much pointless.

I also have the fact that i have no life, i spend all day on the computer talking to people or just doing something utterly lame, because i'm just too shy to go out and meet people and lead a decent normal life with a social life and friends and so on, and it's just making me thing, what's the point in being here, if i have no life? I also have problems with my dad going off in moods, and not talking to anyone for days and then i'm having to listen to my mom complain when its her fault for not being a great wife as well as a great parent so that my dads in these moods.

So yeah, that's the whole problem, and i'm sorry for it being so long but i tried to include everything that i could.

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Originally Posted by Revelations

I also have the fact that i have no life, i spend all day on the computer talking to people or just doing something utterly lame, because i'm just too shy to go out and meet people and lead a decent normal life with a social life and friends and so on, and it's just making me thing, what's the point in being here, if i have no life? I also have problems with my dad going off in moods, and not talking to anyone for days and then i'm having to listen to my mom complain when its her fault for not being a great wife as well as a great parent so that my dads in these moods.

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That Right There Seems Like Me.. im On The compute Almost All Day Refusing To Answer The door Incase They Want Me To Go Outside To Play (Theyre Like 5 Years Younger Than Me But Still) I Hate My Dad Too.

About The GF Part, Is It Possible To Meet In Secret? Like Go To A Resteraunt with Her Without Letting The Parents Know? If There Isnt And If She Still Is Paranoid Just Try Meeting Privatly To Sit And Talk About It. Otherwise There Isnt Much You Can Do That i Know About :( Or Just Stop Talking To That Girl Entirely If She Trys Talking To You (If Its Real Life..) Just Walk Away (If its Computer..) Idk How You Chat On There.. Habbo? If So Just Ask Your GF to Go To One Of Your Locked Rooms

i Hope This Helps, If Not, Sorry :(
Gl With These Problems Too

It has helped, thanks +rep.

The thing is, we are trying to sort something out so we can go behind her moms back and do it all in secret, but it means that i'd have to go there, and she lives in Wales, which isn't really close to me, and it's about 2 hours on the train to get there, and i'm not so sure about catching the train on my own because i'm scared of missing my stop and stuff, but we have been trying to come up with loads of ideas on how to meet.

Also, with this other girl, i think i might just try and talk to her and clear everything up, about certain things that i haven't and won't mention, and see how it goes from there, as i haven't be completely honest, so i'll try that.

And, thanks for helping. ;)

Np - Ouch 2 Hours.. Well Again i Wish You Luck With Whatever You Can Do With This

Eat some fruits, do some work outs in your room and go out on your bike for about half an hour. It keeps you fit and when you feel very fit you feel like going to explore more, going out and meeting new people as you always remember:

"If I can cycle for 3 miles on my bike in a day, I can do anything in a day."

You just need to reach out and achieve what you want. :)

Tell the girl that likes you that you do no want any relationship with her, and let your girlfriend know that. It will make her feel much better. In my opinion i think your girlfriend is just afraid of losing you.
Explain to her exactly how you feel.

I think your girlfriend needs stability.

Your still young, you have your whole life ahead of you. You have plenty of time :)

Every phrase through puberty brings depresion from your hormones. If you aint been with someone for a few years. You'll get very depressed. If that's not the case, arrange to go cinema with some friends or something, have some fun :).

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Originally Posted by ScottDiamond

Eat some fruits, do some work outs in your room and go out on your bike for about half an hour. It keeps you fit and when you feel very fit you feel like going to explore more, going out and meeting new people as you always remember:

"If I can cycle for 3 miles on my bike in a day, I can do anything in a day."

You just need to reach out and achieve what you want. :)

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I'll try that, and see if it works out. Thanks +rep.

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Originally Posted by UnholyJess

Tell the girl that likes you that you do no want any relationship with her, and let your girlfriend know that. It will make her feel much better. In my opinion i think your girlfriend is just afraid of losing you.
Explain to her exactly how you feel.

I think your girlfriend needs stability.

Your still young, you have your whole life ahead of you. You have plenty of time :)

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I've told the girl that i love my girlfriend and i can't be with her, and it just upsets her and so just goes and stuff, so she does know that, and keeps asking if we'll be together and i don't know, and when i say that she does the same. It seems like she doesn't understand that i'm already with someone who i love, and that i can't just leave her for someone that i don't have feelings for. And, my girlfriend knows i have no feelings for her and stuff, but i've been known to lie alot, so she can't trust me. :(

Thanks though. +rep.

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Originally Posted by paws

Every phrase through puberty brings depresion from your hormones. If you aint been with someone for a few years. You'll get very depressed. If that's not the case, arrange to go cinema with some friends or something, have some fun :).

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Yeah, it probably does, and not being with someone has upset me before, so it's probably just that, but it seems alot worser then before, and i'm scared of what might happen. Also, all my old friends have gone off and made new ones, and due to my account being hacked, i've lost all contact with them so there is no way to plan meeting up with them and stuff.

I did apply for college again, and i was hoping to get myself so new friends as i am a bit more confident, but it doesn't look like i'm going to get into college, and due to back/leg problems, i can't get a job and do the same and try and get friends that ways.

Thanks though! +rep. Oh, paws, i can't rep you because your cautioned, but i'll rep you when you aren't if you remind me ;)