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So my girlfriend and her family are going to Wisconsin soon and she has invited me to come along, I still have to ask my parents but she just told me one of her guy friends, Michael is coming along too. I feel weird because if I don't guy.. I know she'll still be having fun with Michael.. I don't know why I'm feeling this way and I can't seem to stop the feeling.. Am I just being a selfish boyfriend or what? :(
just ask your girlfreind cant just you and her go and have some time alone?
It's not as easy as you think it would be.. everything I do towards her is x10 hard to do than other people.. and this is a family trip and she invited me.. and I felt special but then now I find out one of her other guy friends is coming and I just feel really down now.. lol
you could just get on with the guy friend very well.... i you get on with him become good friends and tell him you want some alone time or just ignore gf and talk to him... problem solved.
doubt that was any help...
you made no sense whatsoever to me lol :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Lycan
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Originally Posted by StreetGuitarist
your jealous of the guy and you don't know why... normal... get to know the guy ... if your gf trusts him then you should learn to as well... then you can talk to him and explain to him that you want to spend time alone with her. etc etc
ah thanks :p
Would you feel the same way if she was taking a female friend instead?
A good relationship requires honesty and you should say your feeling uncomfy with him going but it is up 2 her if she wants him to go. At least to me sounds like your paranoid & kealous, may or may not be right =]
You will live not going and she goes with him, or going with her & him or jsut going with her (obv. her family as well) =]
Even though I haven't been in such a position, I feel you. What you should do is talk to her about it. if she gets stressed then obviously she wanted an excuse to quit you, if she thinks about it and gets that into her skull then see what you can do.
I wouldn't ask her if she won take Michael. If you do, you'll put her in an awkward position because she's invited Michael and to tell him he isn't invited would be mean. If you don't want to go tell her, but say have fun! If you trust her with Michael then your relationship will last, if you don't, I'd end it now tbh.