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Right, I've known that Im gay for about 4 years, but at first I didnt really understand it well. Anyway, i'm 16 now and I've had 2 "wet dreams" which involved me doing sexual activities with girls.
I know you'll all post saying "Gay could of just been a phase and whatever" but it's only in my dreams. Irl I wouldn't even think of having sex with a girl and I find men a lot more attractive.
Any reasons why I'm having these dreams?
I bet you've had loads of weird dreams in your time. For instance, the other week I dreamed that there was a murderer in my house trying to kill me.
Dreams are simply... dreams! haha They often may resemble real life situations, but they are very much so unexplainable for the most part and I feel people often read too much into things.
I really wouldn't worry about it mate. I think give it a few more years and see how you feel then... It may be your subconscious telling you, you do actually like girls although at the moment you are strongly attracted to boys due to hormones and so on.
I wouldn't read too much into it personally.
Regardless, if you think men are attractive or not, your brain will always think girls is what your after, because obv it's to consive a baby.
Hmm, ok I'll ignore them, I hope I don't have anymore :S lol!
Honestly, I still think you're gay. Many people have sexual dreams that aren't even what they're sexually attracted to. It could have been your mind telling you something in a dream (the mind works in abstact ways).Quote:
Originally Posted by unit
One example could be that you can relate to women more in sexual ways, which is what your dream was trying to say.
It could just be your natural hormones taking over while you sleep. Your body does most of its devolping and such when your sleeping, so its possible the growth hormones are just effecting your dreams.
Ostinato : +rep. Good advice :eusa_danc
As Ostinato stated its just a dream. Dreams are in your mind and are mental not pyshical. Do not worry about this.