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I find lads and girls attractive , And everyone thinks im gay anyway but im not i like both ...
But i realy like this lad , And this girl ...
I no i cant have both ( If youve been watching hollyoaks , John paul and craig ) :P
But also the lad i like , Hes sorta gay acting , But that doesnt mean he is gay ? And i realy like him more than i like the girl ?
What should i do ?
Also : Nobody knows im bi ... They just have opinions :P
a lot of people go through times where they like both girls and boys
its completly natural
just go with what feels comfortable
guna tell people your bi ?
I don't know how old you are, but if you're like 12-17 I wouldn't bother "coming out" as bi because it's highly likely that it's a phase. I went through it myself aged 13-15 or around then, and I know a lot of other people who did the same, and if you tell everyone you're bi now then you'll probably feel stupid for it later. Also Hollyoaks was welllllllllllll good :D
=]
But ive also liked guys for a while now =S
And im pritty sure its not a phase
Also ... Im 15 lol =]
Yeah Hollyoaks comes up with some good storie lines =]
I know what you mean about liking two people of the oposite sex. I have never gone for eather of them so I can't realy give much advice.
But since you like the boy more, then if hes trustable then tell him you bi (And if hes not bi or gay then ask him not to tell any 1) thats how I first told some 1 in r/l :) )
If your 15 I WOULDN'T come out, if you have a sister you could leave a gay ****o book in her room, then go in with him looking for something and find it?? I Dno if that would work
Or you could just go for it, but i defintly wouldn't snog someone you think would blap to the whole of the world, that would be not to good :|
Thats the whole point ...
Well were realy good mates aswell , He wouldnt say nothing , Hope not lmao =]
But yeah . . .
But the girl is always changing whos shes going out with and can never stick with someone , So i think im going to,,, DURNOO =S
You're 15, you say you have liked both sexes, you seem sure that you're bisexual so I'll continue my post under that pretence. Like other people have noted however, you are still young and a decision can't really be made right now. You only really know your sexuality when you meet someone that you really, truly love - at that time you will know whether you're gay / straight or bisexual.
Anyway, onto the issue at hand. You like the boy more so therefore the answer to the question "who shall I choose" is an obvious one; the boy. Of course he may be straight and all that malarkey, so trying anything on with him is a big no-no. You say he is a good friend? Trying to snog him, for example, if he was straight would be very bad and would change your friendship forever.
I would suggest therefore, if you are extremely confident you can trust this guy, that you tell him your sexuality - or that you are confused about your sexuality. You can note his reaction then and perhaps this will open up new horizons for you both (if you get me ;)). Another possibility is telling him that you like him in that way after telling him your sexuality. I am split on advising you to do this though, because it could be as bad as trying to kiss him.
It all comes down to how you trust him. This is where I am going to sound a little harsh, but it's necessary; you need to prepare yourself for his rejection of your feelings for him if you do decide to tell him / try anything with him. You think he might be gay but there is no way you can be sure, so as much as it will probably hurt it's easier to accept now that he probably isn't gay than getting upset about it at a later date. You could be lucky though.
Good luck :] and sorry for my ramblings x)
THanks for the advice ...
Yeah i guess your right ... And if i just ask him if hes gay ...
And hes not , He would probaly hate me for thinking he could be gay , , ,
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a big no-no.
Havnt even told my parents or nothing , Even though they might guess ;P
=D
+REP :D
Well you shouldn't tell them before you are ready, the fact is you have a long, long time before you really have to make any solid decisions (in fact, you don't necessarily ever have to) so don't do anything before you are comfortable with doing it :).Quote:
Originally Posted by nayc001