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What should I do?
Well here's the story lol, since my girlfriend left and moved to thailand :( after a 6 month relationship, my love life hasn't been going very well. I went out with someone else which I used to fancy and my best friend had recently gone out with her, and it ended very horrible, we had a big argument after her little bro pushed me into some glass and well lets say it went in kinda the 'wrong' area (lets not go there lol) and my god it was painful so after that I dumped her and she was a complete idiot but we are friends now. So as you can see my love life wasn't very good..... And now well I don't like any girls in my year they are actually all quite well ugly or I am just attracted to their...... well you know what I mean. So now I met some other girl and she's really nice and kind and she kinda fancys me but there is a problem she's a year younger than me. You are all probably thinking "why is that a problem" simply because people will get bullied about this, for example one of my friends went out with someone younger than them and got bullied to and called a 'kiddy fidler' and so on. I am worried that if I go out with them I will be bullied like crazy my friend got bullied something like 3 months just because he did. Am in year 9 so people make even more of a big deal about it many of you will say "theres no problem at my school with that" so to be onest I couldn't give a donkys about your school.
To be onest I don't know what to do, should I just well put my feelings to one side or do something else? Please give me adivce lol. In some ways I think I might just want a relationship I don't know.
EDIT: Also its very hard to see her without her friends about.
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ignore ur mates, if u like her then go for it. if ur mates take the mick out of u then u cant really call them mates and tell them that if u want to
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I understand what your saying and yes people have relationships with even 10 years age difference when their older and its different in school. I would say go for it or meet her outside of school more and get closer that way.
Good luck :)
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If anyone takes the ****, kick the **** outta them!
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Well, if it were me, I wouldn't care what others thought. I'd be like what's the big deal. Is there any difference between if she were older than me, the same age as me or in this case younger? No. It's still the same girl.
Like it ANNOYS me when people talk about oh they'll get bullied for dating a younger man.
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Thanks for all your advice, I'll out her out and see what happens. :D
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go out with her and if they take the mick just say at least i have a girlfriend unlike you ;P works for me!
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if they take the mick, tell them they're jealous.
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Girl help
Well, if you like her that much, just ask her out!!! If your freinds bully you just warn them and then hit them, there not freinds if they don't accept you for who you are...
trust me I did it and my life is much better now!