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Ok so my mate asked me to check his emails the other day because he was awaiting an important email.. Anyway.. I checked but in his inbox there was an email from GAY.com clicked it an turns out he is a member.
Alot of people have said he was gay before but nobody could ever proove it. He is my best mate and im cool with it but i just wanted to know how to, or if i should approach him and ask about it.
All advice welcome, thanks.:)
No, wait until he comes out.
He might've wanted you to find out that way on the other hand.
I cant see that he wanted me to know because i asked him if he wantedto check his emails yesterday and he quickly said no.
I just want him to know im cool with it, because he does try to be like me and impress me in a way.
I really think I would leave it until he says something. The fact that you are cool about it shows that you are a really good friend anyway. I am sure you will be one of the first he tells officially. :)
Let him tell you, he still might not be gay, he might just be experementing.
Thing is though he has told someone he was gay, then said Bi then straight so perhaps he is just experimenting but personnaly i dont think he is.
Leave it for him to sort out, if and when hes ready is more important, just wait and see what happens. If you're desperate for him to tell you or find out, be prepared for the consequences if he isn't prepared.
How you mean consequences?
out him :D
Lol i cant just out him, im not that mean, lol