Is this bad..?

I recently got on my cousin, shes one year younger then me and damn shes good looking, btw this was only two days ago.. OK so now she wants to see me tommorow after school round her house, my uncle and aunt will be at work and she told me to bring a johnny but was only joking as we was laughing about it... I think I've fell in love with her over time and I know it sounds stupid, shes told me she loves me and if only we wasnt related we would have told me earlier. I just want to know would it be bad for me to go out with my cousin secretly and in later life if we are still going out to go public? Shes a really kind beautiful and caring girl and her mates are fantastic.

Theres another problem to this though, About a week ago I was going out with my cousins best mate until we broke up cause she gave her ex-bf a **********... Yeah so its all messed, I want to be with my cousin we connect so good its just argh! it seems sick when you think of cousins together but when I think of us together it seems so right!

Yes. Majority of people would find it disturbing and not agree with your actions.

We are in love though, all her bfs shes been with have treated her bad/used her as a image for themselfs, shes told me she wants to be with me not just cause we work so well together but we connect so well and she knows I care so much about her.

doesn't change the fact that you're cousins and that's disturbing.

I knew numerous members wouldn't understand. Oh btw shes my second cousin

You can't help the way you feel, but I don't think it would be right for you two to go out. If you end up sleeping together and she falls pregnant the baby will have serious problems as you have similar chromosomes the baby could come out anything between braindead to deformed.

Yes thats alot later on but if you end up going out in a couple of years it could lead to it.

Also wot if you do go out then break up, as your cousins you'll have to see her still.

Also what if your family finds out, just think of the stress that would be caused by something that might just be a crush, or a lust because you know it's wrong.

You should really think this one through, no one can tell you what to do. only you know the real answer.


gl with everything, hope this helped.
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Nia

I wouldn't really say it's disturbing, cousins or even 2nd cousins are not directly related, they are only related because their parents are related so it's basically a normal relationship but someone that would be considered family, I wouldn't do it myself personally but I don't really see a problem with cousins having relationships if they love each other, if it was like brother and sister, mother and son etc. then I would think it's messed up but I don't if it's cousins, it's really up to what you think if right, you're not exactly doing anything wrong but most people will see it as something wrong but you really can't help having feelings for someone, I heard a brother and sister in Germany want to get married but they're not allowed too and I think they got arrested aswell, like I said a relationship with a brother or sister is kind of sick to me but everyone deserves to love who ever they want, if the whole "Adam and Eve" story is true we're all basically cousins anyway

i couldn't imagine getting it on with my cousins :s

thats ******* digusting

You cant help the way you fell about someone. I think you should maybe start seeing a little less of each other and maybe the fellings that u have will maybe disapear. Personally i fell having a relationship with a family member is wrong. But everyone is diffrent and you should get support no matter what you do.