Does she like me?

Okay, theres this girl in my grade named Andrea. I've liked her since about grade 7 (now in 9) but I've never been really crazy about her. This is mainly because she was always in the enriched program (smarter people) and I wasn't because when it comes to school, I'm lazy. so this year I'm in enriched english, and for this term, we sit next to eachother. Im normally really shy because I've never had a girlfriend or really been around girls, but once I know them, I'm really talkative. Thats what happened with me and her, we're talking a lot and on facebook. She makes tuns of comments on facebook and irl like "oh my god I never knew you were so funny" and "you make my day" and stuff like that. I'm pretty sure she likes me, but like I said before, I'm shy and I've never had a girlfriend. I think I could muster up the courage to ask her out, but we're only in one class together, which isn't necessarily a bad thing (so I'll have time for my other friends) but she hangs out with people that I barely know... and how pathetic as this must sound, I dont really know how to treat her. I'm really nice and I help out everything and I know we'd be really good together, but I've never kissed a girl, I've never even hugged her before and I think it would be really akward.

I don't know, I might be over-reacting, but I think that she likes me. I'm also afraid that I'll ask her and she'll say no, like she did to my friend a couple years ago.

thanks guys.

Just keep talking to her

see what happens

Ask her. :)

What's the worst that could happen?

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Originally Posted by warezkid3

Just keep talking to her

see what happens

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Yeah, I'll do that and add her on msn and stuff, but once this term is over I won't be sitting with her in English class and then that might set us apart.. and she's also really busy so she won't be on MSN much.

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Originally Posted by REDNECK

Ask her. :)

What's the worst that could happen?

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I guess I could ask her, but I only will if I'm pretty sure she likes me. I dont want to ruin our friendship because she is really really nice and shes just amazing.

I've been in this situation many a time. You've thought non stop about her everyday since year 7? I've felt thatway about someone (she's the kindest sweetest sexiest person evar, and Mine!).

keep talking to her, but flirt. Flirting is easy if you break it into groups.

Soppy: The kind that is all gooey and luvvy duvvy. Can be over powering, don't overuse.

Kinky: it's good if you are having a laugh and a joke around, be careful as you may seem like a pervert.

Friendly: Hint at it, stand close to her and see how she reacts. and just generally be friendly. Make that one lesson count so she can't wait to see you next time.

Somedays you will have set backs that will knock your confidence. you say the wrong thing or she is in a bad mood. Those days suck and can bring down your whole week.

I expect you are also worried about ruining the friendship if she says no. Well, you are just going to have to take the plunge and go for it. Everyone says do it in person, don't if it's going to come out wrong. That will suck majorly. But don't do it via text. That IS sucky.

Call her, something like that. Do you have her mobile number? Ask to meet her outside school. Take her some where special. Somewhere you can chat and have a laugh with, but is a bit private, incase you get spotted and it goes around the school and it's like :P.

But basically, talk to her. Make every moment count and make her as if she is special to her. If you are sure she likes you go for it, what have you got to lose? If she says no she probably isn't ready. You can never force people.

Good advice +rep.

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Originally Posted by Sucky

I've been in this situation many a time. You've thought non stop about her everyday since year 7? I've felt thatway about someone (she's the kindest sweetest sexiest person evar, and Mine!).

keep talking to her, but flirt. Flirting is easy if you break it into groups.

Soppy: The kind that is all gooey and luvvy duvvy. Can be over powering, don't overuse.

Kinky: it's good if you are having a laugh and a joke around, be careful as you may seem like a pervert.

Friendly: Hint at it, stand close to her and see how she reacts. and just generally be friendly. Make that one lesson count so she can't wait to see you next time.

Somedays you will have set backs that will knock your confidence. you say the wrong thing or she is in a bad mood. Those days suck and can bring down your whole week.

I expect you are also worried about ruining the friendship if she says no. Well, you are just going to have to take the plunge and go for it. Everyone says do it in person, don't if it's going to come out wrong. That will suck majorly. But don't do it via text. That IS sucky.

Call her, something like that. Do you have her mobile number? Ask to meet her outside school. Take her some where special. Somewhere you can chat and have a laugh with, but is a bit private, incase you get spotted and it goes around the school and it's like :P.

But basically, talk to her. Make every moment count and make her as if she is special to her. If you are sure she likes you go for it, what have you got to lose? If she says no she probably isn't ready. You can never force people.

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Thank you very much! sorry if I'm always against asking her, its just im shy.

I dont think she has a phone, but I'll try flirting. Considering that Iv'e never had a girlfriend, I've never flirted lmao. I feel like such a loser. I'll try sitting closer to her in english class if shes in a good mood and see.

Flirting isn't supposed to be known, it's spontaneous. You must learn it as you go along, once you get the hang of it, it will all come natural to you. Same with kissing and hugging and... other stuff ;) But that's a bit far fetched for now.

I still suck at kissing, I accidently bit her :O

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Originally Posted by FlorX

Good advice +rep.

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If that was aimed at me you will notice it's turned off ;) +rep is said so many times...

I'm with you mate. I've never had a girlfriend either but I flirt with the girl I like occasionally. Improves her mood :p.

Anyway I always go with the philosophy "What's the worst thing that can happen." That is she will say no.

If she thinks she made the wrong decision about saying no she will possibly not talk to you till she gets over it (that has happened twice to me) but at the end of the day if you don't ask you might be missing out!

Bite the bullet and ask. If she says yes you might have months of happiness if no days of regret but you will get over it.

Thanks for reading my ramble :p

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Originally Posted by 348GTS

Yeah, I'll do that and add her on msn and stuff, but once this term is over I won't be sitting with her in English class and then that might set us apart.. and she's also really busy so she won't be on MSN much.



I guess I could ask her, but I only will if I'm pretty sure she likes me. I dont want to ruin our friendship because she is really really nice and shes just amazing.

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If you are really close friends it might not be wise to ruin that.

Get drunk together and see what happens. ;)