friend problems

okay so i have like two best friends.
like we've been friends for quite a loong time now..
and we still are..

but they pretty much changed.
my first friend is always critical on me. she always looks
at all my faults and always corrects me and it's getting pretty annoying.
she gets mad often and swears more for little things.
she even told me that she doesn't like me sometimes as a friend
and she said sorry. i forgave her but i still can't accept that as my past.

my second friend..
eh well she puts up this innocent act all the time
earlier this week.. ugh.. well.. i don't
know what she was trying to do. she made a new account
on msn (making it seem like
it was somebody else) and she told me about this girl in her old school
who talks crap about her. so i'm like, okay can i add her?
so then i was talking to her so called "old classmate"
then i realized she talks exactly like my friend.
so i was getting pretty suspicious.
i checked her IP with msn plus thing and compared
it to my friend and it was exactly the same.
it's like she was faking all this. ;/

..anyways i don't wanna start drama with them
or anything. i still like them it's just that i liked them before.
what should i do :/ should i tell them
how i really feel?

Well tbh they both sound really insecure! people who put others down are often just really insecure with their own faults. Maybe try talking to your first friend, shel more then likely put up a barrier and not say anything but she may open up and tell you how shes feeling.
If she puts up a barrier then just tell her your always their if she needs to talk.
The second one sounds like shes craving attention. By doing that shes hoping you would stick up for her to this "old classmate" which would make her feel more loved. I would try and confront her about this and as before ask if she wants to talk about stuff.
Tell her shes a great mate but lying to get attention is in the end just going to get bad attention and make everyone unhappy

um well .. maybe just tell your first friend that you dislike her correcting you all the time and it annoys you maybe she'll listen and accept it?

The second one well... she sounds kind of weird to be honest I'm not sure why she'd pretend to be someone else on msn... just sounds odd maybe she intended it to be some kind of prank?

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Originally Posted by Bef

Well tbh they both sound really insecure! people who put others down are often just really insecure with their own faults. Maybe try talking to your first friend, shel more then likely put up a barrier and not say anything but she may open up and tell you how shes feeling.
If she puts up a barrier then just tell her your always their if she needs to talk.
The second one sounds like shes craving attention. By doing that shes hoping you would stick up for her to this "old classmate" which would make her feel more loved. I would try and confront her about this and as before ask if she wants to talk about stuff.
Tell her shes a great mate but lying to get attention is in the end just going to get bad attention and make everyone unhappy

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thanks :-)

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Originally Posted by Dan2nd

um well .. maybe just tell your first friend that you dislike her correcting you all the time and it annoys you maybe she'll listen and accept it?

The second one well... she sounds kind of weird to be honest I'm not sure why she'd pretend to be someone else on msn... just sounds odd maybe she intended it to be some kind of prank?

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as i said, for my first friend she gets mad often.. i'm not sure she'll talk to me after that. iv'e tried that once and she said "***? :/" and blocked me for a bit. then talked to me.

i'm not sure she meant for it to be a prank. she told my first friend too. she was pretty gullible so she started releasing anger out a bit when she talked to her fake msn account.