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Been with her almost 5 years non stop and today she has finsished me. The reason she finished me is because I got a little drunk and got with a girl she knows and she saw me walking out of her house a few days ago:rolleyes: but didn't know if it was as bad as it looked and she managed to get it out of this girl so has now just said its over:(What do you think I could say to her to get her to get back back with me cos I really like her!!?:eusa_wall
"the only reason i got drunk was to make you better looking" that's always a winner, i swear hands down.
If you liked her that much you wouldn't have cheated on her in the first place.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fight
Please do not use drink as some form of excuse to try and justify what you done. You cheated on her. You don't deserve her.
I would appreciate if you could explain why exactly she should take you back? You obviously have no care for her at all if you think it is acceptable for you to just get drunk and go cheating with any girl - even moreso her friends - and expect her to forgive you.
Also - the fact you are posting here basically asking us good things for you to say to get her to like you again shows you exactly your problem.
I think you need to take a good look at yourself and the way you have treated this girl, and then maybe you will realise exactly how you can start getting her back.
In all honesty I dont think you will get her back, simply because you do not deserve to be with her. However, if you really do like her as much as you say then you will use this experience to learn from and ensure you never make such a stupid mistake again.
edit: also the title of this thread is really wrong... lol
Well what happened with this other girl?
Damn you Ostinato I wanted to be the one with the big "You cheated your fault" speech. :(
See this is really sad.
You've been with her for five years and still look at other girls like that?
Five years is a long time, you shouldnt be even thinking about that if you really really like this girl. Frankly you dont deserve to get her back, using the "I was drunk!" excuse.
If you really like someone you have them on your mind, and you would never do such a thing. You've probably broke her heart and there is like a 99% chance you are not going to get that girl back.
An you dont deserve to get her back.
haha feel free to add anything I missed out.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cwmbran
TO SUM UP - YOU WERE STUPID ENOUGH TO CHEAT IN THE FIRST PLACE SO YOU DONT DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE. :)
5 years is a long time for a relationship, tell her that what she saw was not what she thought, if she loves you enough she'll forgive you, even though you've done nout'Quote:
Originally Posted by Fight
- Sorry I had to put it in that context, but it's true.
So you are basically telling him to lie about what he was doign with the girl just to save his own skin?Quote:
Originally Posted by Minor
Sorry but I think he's being a coward enough already and should just take the bull by the horns and tell the truth. That way you could take the approach that you've been totally honest with her and can reassure her that you made one silly mistake that won't happen again. If you go on to just lie, she will find out in the end and you will have ruined your chances indefinitely.
What actually happened was: I was out with a few of my mates and I ended up getting really drunk and they left me(great mates eh?) so I could still remember where this girls house was so I must of gone there and asked if I could stay for the night and I dunno things just happened like to drunk to even remember.And anyway I've had a talk to her (my ex) and I reminded her about the time when she got really drunk and did a few wrong things so that kinda evened it out a bit so she said shes gonna sleep on it and tell me whats what tommorow :rolleyes:
Yeah if she has a poor credit history use that against her, it's what any loving man would do.