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Me and my friend have been through a lot. Recently though we have been arguing a lot. She thinks that I am abandoning her for some other friends. I just feel like I have to choose but I really don't want to. She made me choose a couple of weeks ago between her and a lad. And I am sick of it. What can I do?
Love Beth xxx
I was friends with someone like that, they didn't understand i had other friends then him and he used to be like "Don't you like me, why ain't you coming out with me, why you doing out with them" ect. and i got sick of it and just slowly stopped talking and hanging around with him and now we barely even say hello to each other in the street and im glad i did it. So try say to her you do have other friends to hang around with too and if she doesn't like it try to move away from her how i did.
Have you tried telling her this? If you have and she's refusing to listen, walk away and don't look back. Maybe then she will realise that she was wrong and come back asking for forgiveness OR she'll think you ditched her for a lad. Either way, it's about time she realised that she isn't the only person in your life and if she doesn't want to realise, just walk away...
Having some de-vu here (or however you spell it :rolleyes:):(
I've been in the same situation a number of times before.
Basically, what I did to get out of the situation, was to talk to some people outside of the situation, such as my mum.
She helped me clear my mind then I knew what to do.
I couldn't waste all my time being with people I didn't want to be with.
I started sitting at different tables during lunch time etc more often, and gradually, sat there every day.
I still talk to my ex-best friends, and you should consider that aswell, but becoming best friends with the other people is for the best.:)