Lads.

Why do lads always seem to like to screw me over. The last lad I liked I sort of fell in love with. He said he loved me to. What a fool I was. The day he left school was the day he dropped me for another girl. The worst part is he didn't even bother telling me. I had to find out from everybody else. I think I am cursed. Help me.

Love Beth xxx

Although some guys can be right idiots, please believe that we aren't all that bad! lol

I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years and haven't cheated once or anything like that, and people are always saying how I'm a guy who isn't an idiot to her! ;P

Haha so have faith - there is some people out there!

I know what you mean though, it must be disheartening when you have had bad experiences with some guys. But you really do just need to remember that you obviously haven't found the right guy yet, and if these idiots are gonna act like that then you are too good for them. Surely you must agree that you are better off now to be away from someone like that, rather than waste your time on a meaningless relationship?

Just concentrate on trying to find a boy who is right for you and will treat you the way you deserve. It may be hard and take some time, but I promise you will find him in the end! :)

Na it's not you, most lads are completely utter *****s tbf.

Just enjoy a relationship while you can, don't look back at it make sure its a good thing :). Try and talk about your feelings to the boys you like before you get into a relationship with them, so you know they have a serious attitude. Obviously most of them will mess you about still, but you might find someone who doesn't!

Not all of us are *REMOVED*

Some of us actually want a proper relationship and only have ever fallen in love with one person :P

But, one day, you will find the perfect lad for you, and when that day comes, you will love him to bits.

Yeh im sucky at this kinda stuff.

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Don't judge the world on a small group of people. We're not all the same. Trust me, you'll see one day.

there are different types of guys, not all treat girls bad, there are some complete idiots out there but then again there are some really sweet nice guys out there too, you just need to keep looking until you find a nice one :)

The only solution to your problem is turning lesbian.

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Frankly if a guy's hot he's likely to be a ***** to you, sorry that's just how we are

We are not all *REMOVED*

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girls don't like to admit it, but girls like jerks. it's subconscious. its even backed up by science. girls like confidence, surprise, and decisiveness, all of which are qualities of jerks. girls like getting bought things, of course, but they don't like guys that are too nice in general. it's not fun.

so really, it's girls fault that we have to be jerks.