I am confused.

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28-12-2008, 11:36 PM
@K

I am confused.

Ok, well to start with, I went out with my ex for 9 months, and still am in love with her and vise versa BUT, I have recently met this girl and I really do honestly like her, and I know she likes me because her mate (my mate also) told me. Now this girl I like is being awkward, I know she is shy but could she have commitment issues? Because, the other night, she 'couldn't make up her mind whether she liked me or not', and our friend told me she does like me, because she told her, she just doesn't know why she's being like this. :eusa_wall I'm so confused, any advice on which girl, and if the second what to do? :rolleyes:
29-12-2008, 02:25 AM
Cwmbran

I'm gonna split this up into two sections one on each girl:

Girl 1 (Ex)
If you want to get back with her you've got to sort out what ever made you two split up in the first place not just go "hey i still like you wonna get back together?" Sure if you did that she may say yeh but nothing has been solved.

Girl 2
From my experience her friend may be stretching the truth a little. The girl may have said she likes you but not how much, for all you know it could just have been "yeh hes got a good personality, nice looks." something like that, the only true way to know if she likes you is to ask her otherwise you could end up getting no where with her.

Hope that made sense as i got kinda side-tracked while writing it lol
29-12-2008, 05:22 AM
leah

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cwmbran

I'm gonna split this up into two sections one on each girl:

Girl 1 (Ex)
If you want to get back with her you've got to sort out what ever made you two split up in the first place not just go "hey i still like you wonna get back together?" Sure if you did that she may say yeh but nothing has been solved.

Girl 2
From my experience her friend may be stretching the truth a little. The girl may have said she likes you but not how much, for all you know it could just have been "yeh hes got a good personality, nice looks." something like that, the only true way to know if she likes you is to ask her otherwise you could end up getting no where with her.

Hope that made sense as i got kinda side-tracked while writing it lol

I agree with what nafan said.
Your ex seems the safest bet though