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My mate's girlfreind and I like to chat alot and joke about whether or wther not her boyfreind is their, but now their having problems and my mate is accusing me for it saying im splitting them up just cuz i talk to her alot. He now hates me and is telling me to f*** off.
He moans about everything so to be honest i dont find it fair.
Well if he moans about everything then just ignore him, he's obviously just one of those moany people. If you're talking to her as friends and always messing about then he might see it as flirting, jealousy is always going to be there in teen relationships. He's scared of losing her and in his eyes you're not helping things but in your eyes you're just being a friend to her. You have to put yourself in his shoes to see the whole situation.
Happens to me all the time lol, I'm naturally quite flirty even without meaning to be so people get weird when I'm friends with their girlfriends, so you just have to convince him there's nothing going on other than friendship tbh, and make sure she knows too so she can assure him of it. Don't get angry at him though, that won't help anything, just stay calm and explain things rather than shout and such.
He can't be much of a friend, if he's accusing you of making them split up.
If you still want to be his friend, wait until he's a bit more calm, and explain what you want to say in a mature way. If he doesn't want to listen, or he doesn't believe you, he's clearly not worthy of being your friend.
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I hate it when I hear about other boys getting really close to my girlfriend, because its just werid to be quite honest. I don't mind her talking to her mates, having a laugh, but like, if she went to there house, I don't think I'd be too impressed tbh.
That happened to me with my ex-gf. Nothing happened thoughQuote:
Originally Posted by illegal
To thread starter, just ignore him. Like said above if he accuses you then he cant be much of a friend.
I get Jealous very easily so I can see where hes coming from.
Just give them some space so they can sort their relationship out and try to not get involved. Make it clear you are nothing more than friends with his GF and assure him you only want the best for them! :)