Yeah... Well I like someone and for the first time actually told someone I like them, just a minor problem being that they're going out with my best mate...
Bah.
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Yeah... Well I like someone and for the first time actually told someone I like them, just a minor problem being that they're going out with my best mate...
Bah.
Me thinks you shoulda reconsidered doin that
You probably shouldnt have said you liked them...
Maybe the girl wont tell your mate
But if she does just tell your mate its a wind up
Yehhhh bad idea.
Try and have a word with this person before they tell your best friend and ask them to keep it quiet?
Ahh well, it's better to have everything out in the open tbh.
ouchhhh, honesty's the best policy though i suppose.
This is a hard situation because one rule is never to go out with your best friend's ex! It almost always turns out bad! But love is love..
To be fair, and honest, it comes down to what means the most to you - a girl you fancy, or your best mate who (presumably) you've known and trusted for years.
Put yourself in his shoes - would he take your girlfriend? If he did, would you still be his mate? Probably not. I hate to sound the pessimist, but there are certain unwritten rules that you just can't break without sacrificing friendships.
Still, if she's, like, incredibly good looking, then it could be worth it :P