I've been going out with this girl for like a week now, but when i asked her she said that she didnt really know how to be a girlfriend cos she never had a boyfriend. how can i get her to be like more intimate without being kinda bossy?
Ty
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I've been going out with this girl for like a week now, but when i asked her she said that she didnt really know how to be a girlfriend cos she never had a boyfriend. how can i get her to be like more intimate without being kinda bossy?
Ty
Just gradually get closer to her. Don't rush things and get her comfy with you. Don't make it look like you know everything because it will make her feel like shes behind etc. Just try go to her level and work up with her like that so she's really confident with you.
You could ask her what she wants to do when you are together and let her take the lead in what you do and make her feel comfortable with the whole relationship thing and just talk to one another about things, gain her trust. If she is shy and and doesn't look like its easy for her to arrange things with you then make suggestions to her and she what she likes and come up with what she agrees to.
The more time you spend together and openly talk the easier it will become.
If she's never had a boyfriend before then chances are she's going to be quite shy and unsure. Intimacy will have to wait while she gets used to the idea of a relationship. You'll need to spend a lot of time with her and build up a level of trust, start of with hugging her when you see her and hold her hand when you're together, it'll help her feel comfortable with you on an intimate level.
If you don't want to take things snail pace then maybe she isn't the right girl for you.
lol im not like that :) thanks for the tipsQuote:
Originally Posted by Meg.
Get closer step by step :D
Good Luck to both of you
Start offf slow with her and dont try to do something that you think she wouldn't want too doo and slowly as it goes onn move in or whatever
Hmm, i think the more talk the better.