What To Do?

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20-08-2011, 03:56 PM
Lamz

What To Do?

Okay, so basically... I'm really close to this girl who I've known for a few weeks (instant bond) & we like eachova but one of my friends from school which i've known for 7 years likes me & i usto like them... We haven't properly spoken to each other for like 2 years & I've changed & so has she..

The 1st girl (the 1 i'm really close with) lives 10mins away from me & I'm best friends with her cousin & My Cousin goes out with her Cousin (My best friend)

The 2nd girl (school friend) had family issues & moved out of her parent house... to essex!

Here comes the confusing part.

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I told the 2nd girl (school friend) that i like the 1st girl (best friend's cousin) & she is tryna make me feel bad "I still love you" "You're the only 1 i love" & she doesn't stop phoning me & I really want to tell her to leave me the **** alone. But at the same time... she feels bad that she got in the way of me & my best friends cousin for a bit & my best friends cousin feels the same way & idk what to do or say to the school friend without sounding/being rude...
20-08-2011, 05:07 PM
Laurrenbbz

aww! I would just say the truth tbh lamar, truth hurts sometimes but its got to be done sometimes): that sounds confusing, ages ago i felt like this: theres someone i like too irl and it's kind of awkward because we fell out ages ago after we were really close and we were like brohter and sister :L but then some ***** came and ****** it up and then when him and her fell out i laughed so hard haha. :l now were really close again but dont talk irl anymore when we used to go everywhere togetherr:L but since i started my time at habbox things have changed alottt! hope your ok lamar msn me if you need advice:(! xxx
20-08-2011, 05:17 PM
ChloeeBALDWIN

Its not you its me..

Joking..
Sorry to say this but whatever you say is just gonna upset her so however rude or sweet or w.e you are it'll upset her. Worse thing it'll make you feel bad if you are rude. But all I've gotta say is tell the truth .. Or stick to its not you its me :L
Good luck..
#**** love xxxxx
20-08-2011, 05:20 PM
Lamz

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Originally Posted by Laurren

aww! I would just say the truth tbh lamar, truth hurts sometimes but its got to be done sometimes): that sounds confusing, ages ago i felt like this: theres someone i like too irl and it's kind of awkward because we fell out ages ago after we were really close and we were like brohter and sister :L but then some ***** came and ****** it up and then when him and her fell out i laughed so hard haha. :l now were really close again but dont talk irl anymore when we used to go everywhere togetherr:L but since i started my time at habbox things have changed alottt! hope your ok lamar msn me if you need advice:(! xxx

Ty Lozza :love:

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChloeeBALDWIN

Its not you its me..

Joking..
Sorry to say this but whatever you say is just gonna upset her so however rude or sweet or w.e you are it'll upset her. Worse thing it'll make you feel bad if you are rude. But all I've gotta say is tell the truth .. Or stick to its not you its me :L
Good luck..
#**** love xxxxx

lool baldwin ur a jowka "it's not you, its me" :L

& i'll tell the girl in like 5 mins but i know she is gonna start her rubbish again :facepalm: :frustrated:
21-08-2011, 08:17 PM
T@R

have sex with them both, and whoever is better, choose them
22-08-2011, 10:51 AM
Accipiter

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lamar94

Okay, so basically... I'm really close to this girl who I've known for a few weeks (instant bond) & we like eachova but one of my friends from school which i've known for 7 years likes me & i usto like them... We haven't properly spoken to each other for like 2 years & I've changed & so has she..

The 1st girl (the 1 i'm really close with) lives 10mins away from me & I'm best friends with her cousin & My Cousin goes out with her Cousin (My best friend)

The 2nd girl (school friend) had family issues & moved out of her parent house... to essex!

Here comes the confusing part.

---------

I told the 2nd girl (school friend) that i like the 1st girl (best friend's cousin) & she is tryna make me feel bad "I still love you" "You're the only 1 i love" & she doesn't stop phoning me & I really want to tell her to leave me the **** alone. But at the same time... she feels bad that she got in the way of me & my best friends cousin for a bit & my best friends cousin feels the same way & idk what to do or say to the school friend without sounding/being rude...

You answered your own question.

A use to, is not a do!
22-08-2011, 10:54 AM
Lamz

Quote:

Originally Posted by Accipiter

You answered your own question.

A use to, is not a do!

doesn't... the question was How do I tell her i don't like her without being/sounding rude?

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I told her she needs to leave me alone because I don't like her & she is gettin' in the way of other things & she said "yeah okay w.e" & we don't talk at all now
22-08-2011, 10:57 AM
Accipiter

Easy way of doing it: "You're being seedy / clingy I need room"

99% Of people on this planet will hate being called that and try their best to make room.
26-08-2011, 03:53 PM
Richie

Relationships are like fat people, some just don't work out. The school friend sounds like a ****, I'd say steer clear. At the end of the day the girl will get over it, she is young and lets be honest everyone nowadays say they love someone but they don't, they just want something they can't have. The word love is misused.