Followers/Shadow's

ok, not being vain or boasting or w.e but...

I have followers/Shadows in college & it's annoying as ****. How do I get rid of them w/o being rude?...

• They wait for me to come out of EVERY lesson.
• They won't do anything unless I do it first.
• They constantly talk to me about **** i don't care about & ask me dumb questions.
• They ******* stink!

This is how 99.9% of my days at college go:

Follower 1

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Lamar walks in lesson

he gets excited and start's moving towards my table before i even sit down

Follower 1:

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Lamar did you watch bla bla last night? Did you do any assignments? What new girls have you got on bb? etc...

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Me:

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No. No. Names them. etc...

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EVERY SINGLE LESSON. I know he has Cerebral Palsy and he's an alright guy but the stuff he talks to me about are very irrelevant. Especially when I'm actually trying to focus on a lesson. & his breath absolutly reeks. Me & one of my friends have told him but... he obviously doesn't listen.

Follower 2

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Lamar walks in lesson

head nods.

Follower 2:

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Follower 1's breath stinks. He's such a tramp. Have you still got money for the Arsenal tickets? Follower 3 is a creep, she does bla bla. etc...

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Me:

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I'm not involved in you's two's conflicts. yes I do. I don't care

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lesson ends.

Follower 2 waits outside the class for me to walk out

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Lamar where are you going for break?

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Me: Either subway or cafe

Follower 2: Ah I'll go there too then.

I really don't need people to follow me to every single shop I go to, it's ******* annoying I'm not a superstar i don't need people up my backside all day long. He hasn't changed his clothes since the first day of college (September 5th) and he is a fat, smelly ****. I hate when he trys to touch me... the things he does (Picks his nose, has sexual activities with follower 3 in lesson aka smelly fingers) i really don't want any of that around me.

Follower 3

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Follower 3 is friends with follower 2. She is 16 & she brings love cuffs to college... why? I have no idea. All she talks about is having sex & her girlfriend (she's bi-sexual). She is obviously sexually hyper since that is all she talks about & it's actually annoying. I don't give two ****'s about what she does outside of college so i don't know why she is telling me.

She also hasn't changed her clothes since the beginning of the academic year.

How do I tell them to leave me alone/not talk, tell me anything without souding or coming accross rude?
I can tell them straight up exactly how I feel about them but I really can't be ass'ed with all the 'You're a ****' ' 'Why did you say that' ******** that comes with telling people the truth.

I used to have a follower in my last year of school and in the end I just had to be blunt with her and tell her to leave me alone. I don't think theres really a nice way of telling someone that they are getting creepy

i would look at myself before i judged them. if all 3 of your 'followers' never change their clothes, smell, are fat and disabled then i'd wonder why every single one of them felt at ease with you. maybe they feel like they can relate to you? regardless, they sound a hell of a lot nicer than you do and at least they get laid. if i was you i'd tell them to get to **** as simple as that and you're probably doing them a favour anyway cause who would wanna hang out with someone that acts the way you are? you've actually just posted a thread ripping apart 3 people who obviously like you (god knows why) and for what reason? to make you feel better about yourself? you could have just said you had followers that you didn't like and asked for advice instead. but it's nice to know what kind of school you go to. you really cant be arsed with the "you're a ****, you're rude" ********? um no you're just a coward and yes you obviously don't like the truth.

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Originally Posted by buttons

i would look at myself before i judged them. if all 3 of your 'followers' never change their clothes, smell, are fat and disabled then i'd wonder why every single one of them felt at ease with you. maybe they feel like they can relate to you? regardless, they sound a hell of a lot nicer than you do and at least they get laid. if i was you i'd tell them to get to **** as simple as that and you're probably doing them a favour anyway cause who would wanna hang out with someone that acts the way you are? you've actually just posted a thread ripping apart 3 people who obviously like you (god knows why) and for what reason? to make you feel better about yourself? you could have just said you had followers that you didn't like and asked for advice instead. but it's nice to know what kind of school you go to. you really cant be arsed with the "you're a ****, you're rude" ********? um no you're just a coward and yes you obviously don't like the truth.

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Lol @ your post tbh...

I don't have a problem with the fact that he has a disability if you read it properly... It's his irrelevant convo's.

If you knew #2 & #3 I'm sure you wouldn't be saying 'at least they get laid' & I know for a fact if you knew me you would re-condiser saying it too.

I can handle & do like the truth because I ask people for honest opinions of my quite a lot & I've just posted the exact truth about them... The only reason why I don't want to be so blunt towards them is because I know that it will just be a long process.

Thanks for your post anyway

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Originally Posted by Lamar94

Lol @ your post tbh...

I don't have a problem with the fact that he has a disability if you read it properly... It's his irrelevant convo's.

If you knew #2 & #3 I'm sure you wouldn't be saying 'at least they get laid' & I know for a fact if you knew me you would re-condiser saying it too.

I can handle & do like the truth because I ask people for honest opinions of my quite a lot & I've just posted the exact truth about them... The only reason why I don't want to be so blunt towards them is because I know that it will just be a long process.

Thanks for your post anyway

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If you be blunt then it would surely be quicker and done with.
Personally I don't have this problem anymore but there was a kid that kept doing it to us in secondary and just told him to get lost because he started on a mate in my lesson, he got the message and didn't hang out with us. I'm sure you could just tell them straight up and problem solved or you could try and get to know them and see if they are alright people. Start of year I sat with these kids in History at college thought they were right ******* losers but then got to know and speak to them and they are pretty safe people with a few things in common.

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Originally Posted by Andeeh

If you be blunt then it would surely be quicker and done with.
Personally I don't have this problem anymore but there was a kid that kept doing it to us in secondary and just told him to get lost because he started on a mate in my lesson, he got the message and didn't hang out with us. I'm sure you could just tell them straight up and problem solved or you could try and get to know them and see if they are alright people. Start of year I sat with these kids in History at college thought they were right ******* losers but then got to know and speak to them and they are pretty safe people with a few things in common.

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Thanks andy, I'll give it a go later today since I only have 1 lesson