In so much pain yet it's been so long!

So on the 17th September I posted (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=760050).

For advice about how to deal with the breakup from my ex-fiancee of 5 years. I was so lost then. I was literally spending all day looking through photo's and text message.

I separated my self from all photo's, created a new facebook, deleted all the text messages (Backed them up to a USB stick, same with the photos).

I still miss her and still wish we were still together. But today I needed to transfer a large amount of files from my laptop to my pc so I found my USB stick from my draw.

I spent 10 minutes of so looking through photos, thinking of "the good times" but for the first time since we broke up I've actually thought. You know what i don't give a **** anymore.

Especially since during the first month she kept trying to set my friends against me, she tagged my family on facebook and posted the song "We are never getting back together". After all that and the 5 years we spent together I find it hard to think. How could someone who supposedly loved you so much. Treat you so bad.

But thank-you for the previous advice. It's still hard but I look back 7 weeks ago and think WOW I've come so-far!
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aw, she's a bit immature anyways. so you're better off without her!

Glad to hear you've managed to get over her! Five years is a long time so it was bound to take a while, but it's good you've finally managed to pull through :)

She doesn't sound all that great from what you've said tbh. You seem like a nice sort of person and definitely deserve someone better!!!

Hopefully you come move on fully now and meet someone you deserve!(:x

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Originally Posted by DeejayMachoo

So on the 17th September I posted (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=760050).

For advice about how to deal with the breakup from my ex-fiancee of 5 years. I was so lost then. I was literally spending all day looking through photo's and text message.

I separated my self from all photo's, created a new facebook, deleted all the text messages (Backed them up to a USB stick, same with the photos).

I still miss her and still wish we were still together. But today I needed to transfer a large amount of files from my laptop to my pc so I found my USB stick from my draw.

I spent 10 minutes of so looking through photos, thinking of "the good times" but for the first time since we broke up I've actually thought. You know what i don't give a **** anymore.

Especially since during the first month she kept trying to set my friends against me, she tagged my family on facebook and posted the song "We are never getting back together". After all that and the 5 years we spent together I find it hard to think. How could someone who supposedly loved you so much. Treat you so bad.

But thank-you for the previous advice. It's still hard but I look back 7 weeks ago and think WOW I've come so-far!
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She could probably say the same for you Matt, you know what you did and it broke her heart, yeah I agree how could someone do that after saying they loved you so much but also remember it's also hard to like someone normally after a break up when they seriously did have such feelings for you. I think you both dealt with it in your own ways and who knows she might regret what she was doing (when she did things on Facebook) but again you felt the same for other things, you both did things you wish you didn't; you can't turn back the clock and as I said before I was so shocked at the break up! Stay strong Matt, you will get through it, but don't act as 100% the victim, I know she did wrong. Remember always hear for a chat.

Watch some hardcore manly Die Hard films! That's the way to go. Do what you always wanted to do whilst you still can, have fun. The right person will come at the right time. You're not meant to go looking for love, it's meant to hit you when you least expect it.

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Originally Posted by Yupt

Watch some hardcore manly Die Hard films! That's the way to go. Do what you always wanted to do whilst you still can, have fun. The right person will come at the right time. You're not meant to go looking for love, it's meant to hit you when you least expect it.

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lol you need to stop watching die hard films as practice for your driving test. mounting a roundabout one test, jumping out of the car at breakneck speeds is definitely going to be the next one.

Glad to see time has helped you out although I did lol a bit at the 'never ever getting back together' bit. You will too eventually. :)

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Originally Posted by DeejayMachoo

So on the 17th September I posted (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=760050).

For advice about how to deal with the breakup from my ex-fiancee of 5 years. I was so lost then. I was literally spending all day looking through photo's and text message.

I separated my self from all photo's, created a new facebook, deleted all the text messages (Backed them up to a USB stick, same with the photos).

I still miss her and still wish we were still together. But today I needed to transfer a large amount of files from my laptop to my pc so I found my USB stick from my draw.

I spent 10 minutes of so looking through photos, thinking of "the good times" but for the first time since we broke up I've actually thought. You know what i don't give a **** anymore.

Especially since during the first month she kept trying to set my friends against me, she tagged my family on facebook and posted the song "We are never getting back together". After all that and the 5 years we spent together I find it hard to think. How could someone who supposedly loved you so much. Treat you so bad.

But thank-you for the previous advice. It's still hard but I look back 7 weeks ago and think WOW I've come so-far!
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"Time heals all"

I split up with my girlfriend of 2 and a half years about 3 years ago now. It was so hard at the start, I did miss her so. I thought about her all the time - but with time I pulled myself together and found someone else. Someone much better. And now when I see her she regrets us splitting up because well her relationship isn't as good. So it can all turn out great in the end :P

LOL I've wanted to post that on my ex-gfs wall SO BAD

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Originally Posted by Inseriousity.

lol you need to stop watching die hard films as practice for your driving test. mounting a roundabout one test, jumping out of the car at breakneck speeds is definitely going to be the next one.

Glad to see time has helped you out although I did lol a bit at the 'never ever getting back together' bit. You will too eventually. :)

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I was thinking more taking out a helicopter with my car, see if that counts as a major ;)

Stays on topic, love sucks.