Can't seem to move on?

Hi everyone,

I can't seem to move on. This week coming up is half term and I HATE half term because there isn't any routine. I like this guy and they have just left college because they don't like it anymore and I keep crying. We're meeting up with some other friends on Tuesday and I really want to go but I don't at the same time. I want to shut him out my life and get over him but I keep crying and he is so nice - (he has a girlfriend). I feel so stupid crying over him so I've been making appointments. Monday I'm going to town with a friend but she's invited a friend with her that I don't really wanna see..... Without telling me before.

I want to get Tuesday over and done with - I have cried about this guy yet today which is good but whenever I see he's online on Facebook or tweets I feel sad and this normally sets me off crying!! I'm looking forward to Thursday and Friday, Saturday and Sunday but not really any other days - I suppose that it's good to look forward to these days.

On Wednesday I've got two doctors' appointments and I think I might go to the college LRC, (learning resources centre) and study to get my mind off things - the LRC is open during half term. I think it will be good for me to be in 'college swing' for a few hours but I really wanted to meet up with a friend but nobody's available!

What do you think of all this?

Regards

You're a guy? (says you're male) He has a girlfriend? He's straight?

If this is the case. Forget it pal!

As I've said many times before, time heals all. It may take a while but the pain will go and usually you will find someone better anyway :P

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Originally Posted by Zak

You're a guy? (says you're male) He has a girlfriend? He's straight?

If this is the case. Forget it pal!

As I've said many times before, time heals all. It may take a while but the pain will go and usually you will find someone better anyway :P

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Yeahh it is the case. Yeah, I know I'm just trying so hard to get over him. He's really nice and doesn't care that I'm into him - we're meeting up tomorrow with some of our other mates. I just want to block him out but it's unfair on him if I don't remain friends with him because he's done nothing wrong. Cheers!

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Originally Posted by Osiring

Yeahh it is the case. Yeah, I know I'm just trying so hard to get over him. He's really nice and doesn't care that I'm into him - we're meeting up tomorrow with some of our other mates. I just want to block him out but it's unfair on him if I don't remain friends with him because he's done nothing wrong. Cheers!

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It is hard to remain as just 'friends' as you want more. Maybe leave it a while, till your feelings fade for him. Then try and be friends! :)

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Originally Posted by Zak

It is hard to remain as just 'friends' as you want more. Maybe leave it a while, till your feelings fade for him. Then try and be friends! :)

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Yeah thanks. I have to go tomorrow though or I will feel even worse. Ugh, I need help lol

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Originally Posted by Osiring

Yeah thanks. I have to go tomorrow though or I will feel even worse. Ugh, I need help lol

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Things like this happen when you're younger. I wouldn't worry about it, everything always comes together in the end. Hobbies take your mind off things, join a team? do a sport? go out with friends.. all of these should help! :D

If it's one thing I learnt through my ex is that time heals everything. Find someone else to take your mind off things too :)

Err well I find that I have to disagree with the post above, although this may be down to personal reasons rather than a rule. I find that time doesn't really heal things, I can still feel bitter after months and months but sometimes I can stop caring after just a few days.

If worst comes to the worst, you can always take the woman approach to this by running a bath, fishing ice cream out of the bottom of the freezer and stocking up with enough food so you don't need to go out for five days.

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Originally Posted by Zak

Things like this happen when you're younger. I wouldn't worry about it, everything always comes together in the end. Hobbies take your mind off things, join a team? do a sport? go out with friends.. all of these should help! :D

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Thanks, got really bad anxiety and nerves but I am going out with some other friends so from Thursday onwards I will hopefully feel really good. If I don't go and meet this guy tomorrow then I will feel pathetic as the excuse will look stupid and I will feel down but if I do go I will probs have fun and then feel down afterwards so I may as well go. Thanks btw. :) I just feel so bad - people out there are losing their loved ones and there's me crying about this guy, nerves, OCD and anxiety.

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Originally Posted by e5

If it's one thing I learnt through my ex is that time heals everything. Find someone else to take your mind off things too :)

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Thank you! :)

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Originally Posted by Empired

Err well I find that I have to disagree with the post above, although this may be down to personal reasons rather than a rule. I find that time doesn't really heal things, I can still feel bitter after months and months but sometimes I can stop caring after just a few days.

If worst comes to the worst, you can always take the woman approach to this by running a bath, fishing ice cream out of the bottom of the freezer and stocking up with enough food so you don't need to go out for five days.

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Haha thanks, you made me laugh. :)

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Originally Posted by Zak

Things like this happen when you're younger. I wouldn't worry about it, everything always comes together in the end. Hobbies take your mind off things, join a team? do a sport? go out with friends.. all of these should help! :D

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He's ill so now he's not going one of my friends has changed the time and it's all messed up. I think it's just me and two other mates and meeting at 1pm. So ******* typical he's ill