I want to think of myself as a staright guy, but how do you know if your like, gay or gonna be gay? Any hints? And yes Im just entering the TEEN years. Thanks :)
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I want to think of myself as a staright guy, but how do you know if your like, gay or gonna be gay? Any hints? And yes Im just entering the TEEN years. Thanks :)
It's perfectly normal to go through a stage of your life, especially in your early teens where you feel curious about being with the same s'ex. When you're slightly older, these feelings may just completely disappear or they may grow, and you'll know whether you're straight/bi/gay.
well Your hermones will go nuts in puberty and that probably will change im almost in my teen years but i know this from my 14 year old brother who knows this stuff i guess your hermones will tell you i dont know really im only 11 but i dunno if this might help i just got it from this forum, look at your index and ring finger if they are the same size you might be gay but if one of them is big then your straight once again got it from a forum so your older than me you might know more than me.
I think you are opened minded ;) You seem to not be worried about if you might be gay.
Just don't worry.
Take each day, week and month as they come and see how you feel when your further into your teenage years.
Take a look at http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=81472 which may be helpful...
Hey !HellRaiser!
Firstly nice to meet you and I know how you must feel, anyway matey, I'm going to do everything in my power to help you here :p
Ok's!!!!
Firstly, what you are currently going through is completly normal, you are not too sure if the female sex is the right type for you, but you also think that the male sex is something that should just be kept as a friendship relationship. In time you will understand that it is all a matter of going through your teenage years.
One question I must ask is have you ever kissed a girl?
If your answer is yes, then what are your thoughts on what had happend... Did you enjoy the kiss? Was it realy weird and it didn't feel right? Or was it just like a friendly kiss which meant nothing... There are many different feelings around and you need to search inside yourself to find them.
If your answer is no, then wait until you make the decision that you are gay. Everyone who has had a sexual relationship with the person of there own gender have also experimented with the opposite sex to fully understand/make sure that there decision is the right one.
I do suggest to you that you shouldn't get worried or upset by anything that you feel you are going through, every person goes through this stage... Some more than others but in the end, the result will allow you to relax and feel that your worries were over something that wasn't worth getting all stressed about.
If you need any further help or anything my Private Message (PM) Box is always open for any questions, advice, or just a general chat.
Allow me to add this, eventhough I am not gay. I have many gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and straight friends, I have helped many of them in getting to grips of there sexuality and accepting/confronting there fears. Many of my friends are now open, and do not hold all of there emotions inside locked up... Hoping that it will all go away, simple because they won't.
Thanks again
- Icebox12
^^ good post dude.
What by me ;oQuote:
Originally Posted by Carlos
There is no truth in that whatsoever. Your sexuality is what you think about other people and does not affect your physical form whatsoever, likewise, if your index finger and ring finger are the same size it doesn't mean you are destined to be gay.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mystic-Son