So what is the one day that you know for sure you will never be ready for and will have the most trouble accepting that it is happening in the future. Mine will probably be the death of my parents. I love them too much.
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So what is the one day that you know for sure you will never be ready for and will have the most trouble accepting that it is happening in the future. Mine will probably be the death of my parents. I love them too much.
Mine would either the soul crushing defeat of not being able to follow my dreams, or the sad sad day of my 'rents passing on.
judgement day ;)
going into labour
oh boy
21 12 2012
my parents dying :(
when my favourite manga finishes holy **** i can't even think about it:'( (& i'm not joking, i've been reading for 4 years(U))
i'm not scared of failing to achieve my dreams, i'm already on the road to getting the career i want. i'm pretty strong emotionally (no, not heartless) so i deal with deaths pretty well. however, i definitely think the day my mum passes away, which i've had to prepare myself for the past few months, everything will just go on hold and i dunno if i'll be able to pick myself up. hopefully it'll motive me to carry on because that's life. in the end everything bad that happens gets better so i'm not too worried what the future holds:P i prefer living in the moment anyway, i don't bother about past or future anymore.
You might enjoy it! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by wixard
Oh and OT... Realizing I can't follow my dreams? Idk.
death of my parents also ;( i love them too much
I would say the day my mum dies but I always said that about my dad and I dealt with it pretty well. Very well in fact. Maybe the day my brother dies as he'll probably be the only immediate family left so that might make it especially harder
when jesus returns
death of my parents/sisters. that'd be hell for me.
any of my family dieing
i'm really close to them all, especially my grandad & nieces/nephews
my grandad tought me so much (swimming, riding a bike, riding a ped (lol) etc)
Certainly the death of my parents or family. But I also think the day I leave for university/ for good will be hard. Saying bye to friends 'n' all that jazz
Parenthood... unless they pop out the womb at 7 years old. babies + me don't mix atm, maybe one day I'll be ready for it!
Death of my parents. I'll seriously just break down and won't know what to do with myself..
I suppose that's one target to become more independent.
Yeah, I won't know what to do to myself. I'll go to the funeral, probs get home, lock myself in if I have a family, or better off get a hotel for a few nights, get wasted everyday, probably take cannabis to calm myself down or any other stuff that calms you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mathew
What about leaving Comps Dept, will you be ready for that :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Inseriousity.
the obvious ones, family dying, especially my mum i dont know what im going to do, it makes me sad and want to cry just thinking about it that just one day she wont be there anymore. and if my little brother or sister died before me that would be just urgh, not that it wouldnt be for my older brother but anyone younger than me dying is just kind of sad to me anyway. but yeah. deaths i suppose
Wow what a deeply depressing thread!
But I have to go with the majority.
I've never had to go through a family death.
So someone close dying would be terrible.
If someone close to me dies.
jumps on the bandwagon and says yes
anyone on my mum's side of the family moreso than my dads. obviously i'd still care, just not as much because i dont know them as well
oh and also brothers, actually anyone close to meQuote:
Originally Posted by Volumise
21st December 2012 - Goodbye world.
Along with the death of family, I'm gonna say leaving school. I've been a schoolboy for nearly 13 years and it would be weird to not be at school anymore and doing something that isn't school.
Death in the family. Not strong emotionally so it will be hard to take.
The death of my parents or grandmother.
nice one, well original.Quote:
Originally Posted by Muct
yep only a few months/weeks. if i get in ofcourse. =/Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamesy
death of my parents and then the love of my life (wife), ow :(.
This forum is way too depressing.
Birth of my first child.Quote:
Originally Posted by Neversoft
hows that chirs
Still depressing seeing as how you won't be ready for the birth of your first child. You could end up abandoning it or something. Gotta prepare for these things, you know.Quote:
Originally Posted by lNaughtynemo
No but itll be a momentous occasion, in a good way, coz itll be like the start of a new life and itll change my life for the better n stuff.Quote:
Originally Posted by Neversoft
Surely?
Children either make or break a relationship. Your life could end as we know it. Thats why you gotta prepare for these things, you know.
You're misunderstanding my meaning of preparation. Id be physically prepared, but not mentally.Quote:
Originally Posted by Neversoft
pow!
Then the birth of your child could lead to a mental breakdown.
But i wont have an issues hopefully so like i wouldnt be prepared mentally for the joy that it'd bring, and u cant have a mental breakdown from happiness afaik.Quote:
Originally Posted by Neversoft
But what makes you think the birth of your child will bring only happiness? There will also be stress and despair. Also, on an unrelated note, did you know that birth signals the arrival of death?
Stress perhaps, but the happiness outweighs that, and then why despair? And how does that work out? 80 years later you're talkin bout?Quote:
Originally Posted by Neversoft
It seems you're the depressing one, not the forum :(
The despair comes with the stress. Aparrently it costs nearly £200000 to raise a child. Before long you'll be wishing you were part of the upper class.
Yeah, its rather funny that I accuse the forum of being overly depressing and then I come in talking about death and despair. :8 You've brought out the worst in me, Niamh. Although you know I'm just making this up as I go along, don't you. :P
Also, did you know that Wikipedia describes your name as 'Irish' and 'feminine'.