Flip a coin. Nuff said.
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Flip a coin. Nuff said.
Not read any of the posts cos I dont have time.
Anyhoo, from experience ~ You need to find out if the girl actually does like you! If she doesn't and is just wanting some fun flirting, it could all end up in tears with you losing both of them. However, if she does actually have feelings for you in return, then I say go for it. Whats the point in both of you really liking each other, but theres just someone in the middle?
He obviously didn't care about your feelings either, so I wouldn't worry about it.
As they say - Alls fair in love and war...
listen ye, always but always have it the way you want
because lets say you helped him and got her for him,
once he wont need you he will just forget about you
and you would lose out
There isn't one way of going for this, you know that?
It depends if your friend is a little shy - not one of those outgoing, types. If he IS a little shy, and this might be his first or second girlfriend, then asking this girl to go out with you in certain terms will ruin your relationship. Now, as far as boyfriends-girlfriends go it seems to be a temporary thing, but mates last years after school. If you have an arguement in (Year 11, is it? You'd be 17???) - with your best mate, chances are that you might ruin a long-time friendship that could last after school.
You don't want that to happen because friends not speaking to each other and being cold for a long time is pretty bad, especially if he's been your mate since Year 7.
On the other hand; if he HAS known that you liked this girl he has risked your friendship by asking her out - and it might seem to you it would be fair to do the same thing, seeing I'm assuming your friendship hasn't been damaged.
You need to have a talk to him first. Whatever you do; don't just ask this girl out in the middle of a relationship-depression between those two and expect your friend will ever talk to you again. Talk to him - tell him about it, if he get's angry - it isn't your fault, you could have just asked her out already.
Keep in mind she might not particularly like you, she might just think you're cute, in which case if you asked her out, and your friend found out about it, you'd lose them both.
That's my advice - talk to your mate or wait until they break up for good. It isn't your job to 'get them back together.' Not at all. So don't do it.
That's my advice.
+rep sedei :).
go for her man!!! if she likes you then go for it coz u obviouslt like her!!!
Lol Ye what he said :pQuote:
Originally Posted by baby-wabbit123
get in there mate.
How did I know you would say that :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by FlyingJesus
Give him wrong advice, doesn't matter.. If you've liked her for that long, and she finally likes you, go for it!Quote:
Originally Posted by :newsie