Holiday Romance: Right or Wrong?

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Originally Posted by Sabu

You never know, your partner could have cheated on you without telling?

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No my partner hasn't cheated on me as we are both in love and have commitments to each other and think more of each other than to betray one of us and go behind our backs. My girlfriend is enough for me, so I don't need to go looking elsewhere for anything.

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Originally Posted by Nixt

Oh my, sorry... Once again my failure to actually read the thread has made me look foolish. I assumed it meant if you weren't in a relationship at the time.
If you are in a relationship, then no. Definitely not, just because it is a holiday it does not mean your commitments disappear.

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Lol no worries, I do that sometimes too! ;]

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Originally Posted by Ostinato

No my partner hasn't cheated on me as we are both in love and have commitments to each other and think more of each other than to betray one of us and go behind our backs. My girlfriend is enough for me, so I don't need to go looking elsewhere for anything.



Lol no worries, I do that sometimes too! ;]

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I wasn't aiming the 'you' at you :rolleyes:

Well, to make it simple, if you having a relationship, no, if you're not, yes.

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Originally Posted by Sabu

I wasn't aiming the 'you' at you :rolleyes:

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Lol I wasn't sure whether or not you meant it in general or directly to me! :P

Even so, I still stick by my same answer.

If your in a relationship you should have commitments to each other, and it shouldn't be a case of 'As soon as the cats away the mice will play'. If you actually have any feelings for your partner at all, you would find it incredibly hard to cheat, and I think couple's should be able to talk to each other, and trust each other on a basis that they won't have to be wondering whether or not someone's cheated.

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Originally Posted by Ostinato

Lol I wasn't sure whether or not you meant it in general or directly to me! :P

Even so, I still stick by my same answer.

If your in a relationship you should have commitments to each other, and it shouldn't be a case of 'As soon as the cats away the mice will play'. If you actually have any feelings for your partner at all, you would find it incredibly hard to cheat, and I think couple's should be able to talk to each other, and trust each other on a basis that they won't have to be wondering whether or not someone's cheated.

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Okay, I get you :)

Wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong.

The person will never know, and not only would you be cheating on them you'd be lying to them all the time.

Its fine aha , your young , free and preteneding to be single why not xD

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Originally Posted by eamonns

Its fine aha , your young , free and preteneding to be single why not xD

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Because it's wrong and betrayal to the person you are supposed to care for. :l

When I went to Malta this year, I got close to this girl, she was from Australia. I was never going to see her again so I thought why not?

What my gf doesn't know cannot hurt her.

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Originally Posted by Azul

When I went to Malta this year, I got close to this girl, she was from Australia. I was never going to see her again so I thought why not?

What my gf doesn't know cannot hurt her.

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Fair enough if that's what you believe, but you obviously can't feel much for your girlfriend or respect her much, if you think just because she technically won't know, justifys you going behind her back and seeing someone else.