i'm wondering what to say to my friend..

get the 21 yr old done for underage sex (if its kinda same as uk). & like other ppl av said, check for sti's. her bf shouldnt take her back tbh but if he does, she should be grateful and learn from her mistakes.

well if I found out my girlfriend had sex with another guy I'd flip out aswell lol. The only thing she can do is just sit her boyfriend down and tell him she loves him and stuff he won't magically forgive her over night she'll have to give him time :)

Her boyfriend should be thankful she told him. She could of kept it away and he wouldn't of been any of the wiser. And if she told him the truth what's he moaning about. He should be thankful he has a trustworthy girlfriend.

She's not really trustworthy.. just because she told him, doesn't mean it didn't happen.

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Originally Posted by FlyingJesus

She's not really trustworthy.. just because she told him, doesn't mean it didn't happen.

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Yes but at least she was honest.

She could have lied, kept it to herself, then had sex with her bf, and oh look, the bf's got an STI. Then the bf would be in trouble, and flip out even more at the gf because shes just given him and STI.

lol that would be hilarious though

if her boyfriend takes her back, well he's a proper nice guy.
if i was in that situation, i wouldn't take her back. end of. it doesn't matter if the sex was alcohol fueled or whatever ever really, sex with someone else is still sex with someone else.

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Originally Posted by Soph!

I need to give her some advice..

right, last night she got drunk and had a one night stand with a 21 year old, she doesn't remember any of it (she is 15, and she has a boyfriend, which is the main problem...), anyway, she told her boyfriend because she is honest, he obviously flipped at her... they've not broken up, but she needs some advice on what to do..

anyone got any?

+rep for the goodies.

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I think she should find the most appropriate moment to speak to him I think she should be confident and clear in what she says - the most obvious ones But it's really important that she is because he needs to know it didn't mean anything.

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Originally Posted by escape artist

if her boyfriend takes her back, well he's a proper nice guy.
if i was in that situation, i wouldn't take her back. end of. it doesn't matter if the sex was alcohol fueled or whatever ever really, sex with someone else is still sex with someone else.

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Same. Wouldn't even need to be sex tbh.

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Originally Posted by Toughened

Her boyfriend should be thankful she told him. She could of kept it away and he wouldn't of been any of the wiser. And if she told him the truth what's he moaning about. He should be thankful he has a trustworthy girlfriend.

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That's like saying "Oh he admitted to the murder so the family of the victim should forgive him - at least he was honest."

Tell you're friend what she did was stupid and she should learn to control herself or else limit her drink.