Should I be bothered by this...

Pfft, go have fun, we're only young!

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Originally Posted by jamie!

**** her, then **** her off.

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...I hate people like you - Worst advise ever.

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Originally Posted by Elkaa

...I hate people like you - Worst advise ever.

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you must be chuffed.

he wanted advice, so i gave him mine.. just like you gave him yours.

Whilst what you say is valid, do you really think sleeping with her and then leaving her will help anything? Seriously?

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Originally Posted by Elkaa

Whilst what you say is valid, do you really think sleeping with her and then leaving her will help anything? Seriously?

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Well as I said, as long as he's having fun, if she has treated him like poo, he may as well have fun without trying to always keep a clean concionce (spellingn00b).

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Originally Posted by Elkaa

Whilst what you say is valid, do you really think sleeping with her and then leaving her will help anything? Seriously?

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yeah, why not? he's been messed about by her, so why shouldn't she be messed about by him.. plus if she's offering it, would you turn it down?

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Originally Posted by Elw00d

she could just be using you, if it was me id dump her theres far better girls out there than that.
sex isnt all its made out to be, if its your first time dont look back with regrets

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It's not my first time. We've done stuff together many times.

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Originally Posted by Diablo-Lou

Yes thats the best way, or just read her texts, but ask her first.



Maybe you do spend all the time with her, but you still need to consider the possibilities.

Me and my girlfriend spend all the time we have free together, but i know shes not cheating on me because we're open with each other and we both even agree on reading each others texts to please another.

Plus we've had sex before and have done on many occasions, and we do it all the time, so you wouldn't really cheat on someone you've had sex with really would you? it isn't morally right.

If your girlfriend IS asking you for sex, then maybe she does love you, as you don't just have sex with any boyfriend you pick up (chavs and ***** maybe, but not someone who, in my case, i've been with for 1 1/2 years!)

Just speak openly to her about it, i'm sure she'll understand if she really does love you.

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We do read each others texts... I just don't do it often cause I still think she's human and deserves privacy too.
I'm 99% sure that there's no chance of her cheating on me.
We've been together a year now and even though we're both pretty ****** off now, we're still very very close.

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Originally Posted by Elkaa

Then stop being such a "bad ***" and tell her how you feel properly to her face, see what she says as you can then tell by emotions. If she's scared to leave you, that won't help things - Will it?

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I have told her to her face.
I don't think you realise how hard it is for me to tell her stuff to her face either - it's not cowardice, it's just that I'm one of those types who prefers not to argue and maintain an easy life.

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Originally Posted by jamie!

**** her, then **** her off.

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Lmao the 5 Fs.

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Originally Posted by Tomi

I've been with my girlfriend for a year.
It's getting a bit rough now... we argue a lot... I wish we would sort it out...

So I spoke to her... I pretty much told her that if she doesn't stop trying to argue with me about random things and let me down on things all the time (my last birthday she said she was taking me out - I was left without a present, without a card, and to this day she's never taken me out for that birthday she promised - lots of other things she does, and it's mounted up now).

She couldn't appologize enough - I do think she's really sorry but there's one thing that's got me thinking.

She txt'd me to "come over on saturday i got a free house ;);) if u kno wa i mean... i know ur ****** off and probably dont want to but its the only way i can think of to show u how much i love you".

Okay... yeah, sex is good... and i'm damn tempted to take her up on the offer... but yeah, she's right... I am ****** off...
But if thats "the only way" she can think of showing me how much she loves me, should I even bother for morale reasons?

I'm at conflict here... my concience is telling me that it's not right... but all my mind can think about is the sex I could be getting.

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in my opinion she may just be trying to shut you up...

Sleep with her.