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16-12-2007, 10:28 PM
Mr.OSH

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Originally Posted by Nightrose

he Understands that my mums very protective and he only got it for me as a joke tbh, still i did ask him to wrap it serperate from the other one he got me so i can keep that one hidden, but im not sure hes done that tbh. ive said tohim not to give me it as i wont use it or need it also.

He's probably just trying to joke about and not meaning anything bad. You'd have to make it clear to him that you don't want it and that although the thought of it is amusing and nice you just don't want to upset your mum. Either that or try to hide it and make sure that your mum doesn't see it.
16-12-2007, 10:30 PM
Nightrose

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Originally Posted by Cwmbran

Ok.

Yeh. If he's bought you something sexual he will obviously want something in return and I don't mean a cuddly toy, or to see you wearing the lingerie.

I'm guessing he will expect something to happen between you two, I have a friend in real life who met up with a guy from the internet once, both were same age and strangely enough he came down for Christmas as well. He made a move on her, she said no but he insisted luckily her mum was home and he was thrown out and they haven't spoken since as far as I know.

Hopefully that wont happen to you, only advice I could really give is be careful.

My step dad is going to be home all the time hes around and my mum willbe home in the night. Hes not the type i dont think, he wouldnt dare try it tbh
and thank you for the advice =]]

Ill rep when i can =]]

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Originally Posted by opensourcehost

He's probably just trying to joke about and not meaning anything bad. You'd have to make it clear to him that you don't want it and that although the thought of it is amusing and nice you just don't want to upset your mum. Either that or try to hide it and make sure that your mum doesn't see it.

Yeah im gonna see why he says when i say its really not a good idea to give it to me even though he did it as a joke =]] hopefully he will understand the situation plus ill rep you when i can =]]
16-12-2007, 10:32 PM
Cwmbran

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Originally Posted by Nightrose

My step dad is going to be home all the time hes around and my mum willbe home in the night. Hes not the type i dont think, he wouldnt dare try it tbh
and thank you for the advice =]]

I don't mean to put you off, as thats just wrong in my books.
But I knew this guy my friend met before he came down and I didn't think he was that type and I was wrong, I spouse as long as you have got people around you he won't try anything so if you go out somewhere with him make sure your friends are going as well or something like that.
16-12-2007, 10:33 PM
Mr.OSH

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Originally Posted by Nightrose

Yeah im gonna see why he says when i say its really not a good idea to give it to me even though he did it as a joke =]] hopefully he will understand the situation plus ill rep you when i can =]]

Good luck. :) It's alright, no problem.
16-12-2007, 10:35 PM
Nightrose

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Originally Posted by Cwmbran

I don't mean to put you off, as thats just wrong in my books.
But I knew this guy my friend met before he came down and I didn't think he was that type and I was wrong, I spouse as long as you have got people around you he won't try anything so if you go out somewhere with him make sure your friends are going as well or something like that.

ah yeah i know you didnt dont worry.
Yeah well we are going most public places anyway simply because i rather not go anywhere, and tbh if he tries anything im not the typeto keep quiet or let it go ahead

=]]

Thank you once again

told him on msn this
- wouldnt send me the ann summers thing for christmas tbh i had a serious chat with my mumand tbh i dont think its a good idea i would send it back if you can =]]

-Him - dunno

- Oh why what happenend?
16-12-2007, 11:18 PM
Tbh

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Originally Posted by Cwmbran

Ok.

Yeh. If he's bought you something sexual he will obviously want something in return and I don't mean a cuddly toy.

I'm guessing he will expect something to happen between you two, I have a friend in real life who met up with a guy from the internet once, both were same age and strangely enough he came down for Christmas as well. He made a move on her, she said no but he insisted luckily her mum was home and he was thrown out and they haven't spoken since as far as I know.

Hopefully that wont happen to you, only advice I could really give is be careful.

OMG NATH I TOLD YOU NOT TO TELL ANYONE :( -slit lolz

on topic: what he says is true tbh ^
16-12-2007, 11:38 PM
Nightrose

hes not gonna send the underwear now hes selling it on ebay =]]
thats a load of my head
16-12-2007, 11:40 PM
Cwmbran

Did he seem disapointed, when you told him that you couldn't take it?
16-12-2007, 11:58 PM
Teyauna.

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Originally Posted by Samxcore

some guy you met off the internet is coming to your house with lingerie he bought for you?

i'm sorry but reading that makes me disturbed.
Have fun though - can't rly think of advice for you.

Exactly. That is disturbing. First of all, my mom would not let some random guy I met online come into my house. Second of all, I would not be dating some guy I met online. I'm sorry. And he bought you lingerie? Okay, that's VERY disturbing!

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Originally Posted by Nightrose

ive known him for 3 years tho
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maybe i should have metioned that

LOL my mates meeting her bf from Swizzyland that shes only known for 5 months and hes 19 and shes 15 =/ and their going out

thats disturbing tbh

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Who cares if you've known him for 3 years. Who cares if you've known him for 10 years! For all you know, he could be some pedophile. And your mate is just as dumb. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude.
17-12-2007, 12:17 AM
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you obviously haven't read the thread - ^^

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